From the start Justin did not want Trista to have Ayla. It has been stated that he never had the chance to be there when she was born, for good reason; Justin didn’t want Trista to bring Ayla to term if "it was going to be his". Trista told Justin that it was not his at that time because she did not want him to pressure her into an abortion. Justin was ordered by DHHS to pay back child support in December 2010 after having a paternity test, so it could be said that he did not "know" he was the father until then but it is false to say he wasn’t aware of Ayla’s existence until then.
I read this again and again. Nowhere does it state Justin asked Trista for an abortion. Nowhere does it state that Trista told Justin that the baby was is. "If it was going to be his" is a statement that indicates Trista had multiple sexual partners who COULD have been the father. It does say that Trista told Justin the baby was NOT HIS so that he would not pressure her into an abortion. Let's look at possible conversations, using only the information provided.
A.
Trista: I'm pregnant.
Justin: If it's going to be mine, I don't want you to bring it to term.
Trista: It's not yours.
B.
Trista: I'm pregnant.
Justin: I don't want kids.
Trista: It's not yours.
C.
Trista: I'm pregnant.
Justin: I hope it's not mine.
Trista: It's not.
D.
Trista: I'm pregnant.
Justin: Get an abortion.
Trista: It's not yours.
None of them make sense. Men do not talk about bringing babies "to term." Why didn't Trista explicitly say that Justin told her to get an abortion. She specifically says she told him the baby WAS NOT HIS so that he would not pressure her to get an abortion. She does not EVER say that he asked or pressured her to abort Ayla. This is another inconsistent statement from Trista, one in which she reveals her penchant for lying.
TRISTA is the reason Justin did not know about Ayla until she was 7 months old. Notice that Trista doesn't explain how a paternity test came along? She provides so many unnecessary details, but conveniently leaves that part out.
Trista is a LIAR. Period.
ReplyDeleteAnd as soon as the paternity WAS established AND the child support order was in place (including the "back" amount), Justin paid Trista all that was owed to her.
"..as soon as the paternity WAS established AND the child support order was in place (including the "back" amount), Justin paid Trista all that was owed to her."
DeleteREALLY?!?!
Care to back up your statement with some proof?
@Gomez-
DeleteIf you would like proof, ask Jeff Hansen to verify. His blog is now up and running and he is answering questions. Trista received a lump sum from Justin for the amount of back support that was owed.
Hopefully they give you a truthfull answer. You can find his blog here:
http://www.answersforayla.com/
There is a reason the REYNOLDS are not fully disclosing information about anything relating to the child support and custody. They HAVE to portray Justin in the worst light possible, otherwise, the public may turn on Twisted Sista Trista.
DeleteWell, why is it that JUSTIN cannot supply the "proof" of what he paid Trista in child-support arrears?
DeleteIf what he claims is TRUE, then he should have documentation of the this "lump sum" payoff, too!
Oh. Wait.
That's right..I almost forgot:
Justina is "emotionally incapable" of speaking up for himself.
My bad!
He's not providing proof at all, which is better than only providing what makes you look "good." IMO
DeleteDHS has proof. He has to pay them directly. If not they attach his wages. And weird he has had a (job unlike some parents in this scenario) to attach wages to if that had been needed. Which it was not.
DeleteI can see how this omission could make Justin look "bad"..
DeleteBut, how *exactly* do you figure that it makes Trista "look good"??
And, if it's true that JDiP is being maliciously "lied about" and made to "look bad"??
Well, then, it's time for Justina to put on his big-boy pants and stand up for himself, don't yah think?!
Keeping his mouth shut is just the same as letting Trista's words stand as the truth.
Why should it be assumed Trista's account ISN'T accurate, if it is left unrebuked?
Why would a "grieving" mother concern herself with trying to "look good" by releasing half-truths and doing cheerful interviews. $64,000 question.
DeleteExactly why I don't think Tristas motive is to withhold info about how much JD did (or DIDN'T) pay in child-support arrears, in order to make herself "look good".
DeleteAnd, I don't even see HOW this would serve to "make Trista look good", in the first place??
If Justins information about his JOB were to get out...people would see that he had a job and that he worked for a living and isnt the jobless drug dealing LIP buying no good person that people think he is. This would put him in a better light than what everyone has been portraying him as.Yes...Justin and Lance both worked...but the rumors caught on and turned into facts.Jeff just doesnt want people to know that Justin worked.They dont people to know any of the truth...just half truths.(The half that makes my family look like "low life")...getting really sick of what people take as fact.Oh and The Trista doesnt lie thing...Jeff tells everyone she does in his blog.She lied to Justin about being pregnant. Thats a BIG lie....isnt it?Why does everyone take what they say as fact??Get the pitch forks out and light the torches.
DeleteWhat does that mean -- "get the pitchforks out and light the torches" ??
DeleteLol!
DeleteIt means someone's been hitting the bottle. Already.
Oh Selena, guess it's after 9 AM ! Oops, that's not nice of me ! Sounds quite violent to torch, something/someone. Yikers !
DeleteIt means you're persecuting someone. What are you guys, like 5? Grow the eff up.
DeleteIt doesn't make Trista look good, but it makes Justin look bad. Serves the same purpose.
I was unfamiliar with the euphemism.
DeleteSo where was/is Justin working Selena? Not that I'm actually expecting you'd know or answer, but it's worth a shot. How did he know that Trista would be in rehab so that he could move back to Waterville on a moment's notice to take care of Ayla? Most people with jobs can't just pick up and leave like that.
DeleteTrista told him she was going into rehab and they together arranged for Ayla to stay with him. He was not working at that time. As he had injured his wrist and was out of work but was going to school for his CDL license in the meantime. And has always worked before that actually as far back as elementary school when he had a paper route everyday. Trista on the other hand no job on state aid, not going to school, arsonist boyfriend,homeless, family will not let her live with them, alcoholic plus some.....
DeleteGood answer!
DeleteJIG- Funny how presuming works. You presume what couldn't be and that serves as your logic. Sure, most people can't just pick up and leave. But there are things YOU don't know because this is not YOUR life and many of the things people have whipped up into absolute "proof" of wrongdoing or poor character are, actually, quite easily explained and would never give someone pause under circumstances where the person that needed to explain it was given the opportunity to. However, all of the Dipietros have been given no chance to talk about what matters (Ayla) because the public has been out to hang them since the day after Ayla went missing, and everything they've been inclined to explain was so throughly spun and blown out of proportion that there was no point in trying. And other things simply don't deserve any explanation. What matters is finding Ayla not subduing a bunch of idiots. Idiots who aren't familiar with the torches and pitchforks scenario, for instance. Have you been living in seclusion all your life? With no books or cinema?
DeleteTrista's magical saga of insemination and conception is lifted straight from her cheeseball daytime soap operas.
ReplyDeleteShe follows it up with the tale of her *cough cough 'difficult' pregnancy that could make a good Dr. Phil episode but it is the story of Ayla's actual premature birth on the floor of a slumbox with her sister and mother's help that is crazier than hell and cinches the Trista myth.
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The Reynolds are on a publicity blitz spewing 'inside info'.
Too bad that spew doesn't include TEXT MESSAGES. We will never see those, will we Trista?
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There is a new story up on BDN.
How about Trista releases the text messages when Justin answers what happened to Ayla, and how her blood came to be in the basement? Trista has released a lot of information, I think it'll take quite a bit for Justin to catch up, don't you? Or perhaps you could just ask Justin to show you his phone to clear up the text message issue.
DeleteHow about these things aren't even your business and you are not entitled to those. ha,ha,ha. "Trista has released a lot of information"- LOL. Your reasoning is that since Trista has released a lot of (lies) (gossip) (misinformation sprinkled with facts) that it means that was the right thing to do? Trista is who we are holding up as the example of how to correctly handle a crisis in which your child is missing and the public has gone mad? All Trista did was walk into an adoring public who wanted as much of her story as they could get. They embraced her BECAUSE she wasn't camera shy. Many times in cases where a child is missing ONE of the parents is more comfortable in front of the camera and the other one remains more quiet. In this case, that was turned in to irrefutable proof of one parents innocence and the others guilt. Nonsense. The fact that Trista has talked so much about gossip and irrelevent misinformation does not mean that Justin should have been- or that he needs to catch up. Tell me again why YOU are supposed to have these details? What is your professional role here, exactly? Why are you due these explanations? Why is any of the public entitled to any of it? They are not. You are not supposed to be brought into the loop and trials are not supposed to be invented by the public and had in the public. But you know how society rolls these days... screw what's sensible, follow your unchecked ego and make no apologies for your screw ups. You don't deserve this information. If you had it it would not help anything. Are you saying that if YOU have that information and you somehow are miraculously convinced by it, that you will drop everything and start marching around your town pounding on doors and staking out every parking lot, playground, and gas station in search of Ayla? (Let me remind you that you can't walk into anyone's home...which is where Ayla will be; in someone's home.) Is that what you will do JIG, if you get the information you're asking for? What exactly is the reason why you need these answers? How do you play a role in finding Ayla? Good people are searching for her through the available means and are holding off on judgement until things are made clear, legally. She matters. Your opinions do not.
DeleteLOL, remember the photo with what you questioned was a mattress on the floor? It was, and in this photo someone is laying on it:
ReplyDeletehttp://www.answersforayla.com/2012/03/i-have-used-www.html#comment-form
What's funny is that the vigilantes were complaining about why the Dips didn't have frilly decor in Ayla's bedroom. Here in Trista's bedroom, where are the frills and where is the furniture? I don't see this as a temporary situation for Trista either. How is she ever going to own a home or even rent a decent place unless she gets a good job or hooks up with a man with some money. I don't see either happening.
thanks...
DeleteAnd her little puppy is sitting right there on her knee. Guess it wasn't just her security blanket at daddies after all. It was comfort in general for a little girl who was clearly uncomfortable with the things that were going on around her....period.
DeleteIt was either in a video interview or a quote in a news article, but Trista said that Ayla had several stuff dogs and was quite attached to all of them. Trista said that if the baby brother tried to touch one of Ayla's stuffed dogs, Alya objected.
DeleteThat article is very funny. Hanson didn't know that newspapers can't just post outright lies without sources to back them up! LOL
ReplyDeleteHis solution: start a blog with ALL THE NEWS THAT'S UNFIT TO PRINT! ROFL!
First the Trista trolls have tried to force the Police to clear Trista.
That didn't work.
Now they are trying to get the truth about the blood, (they haven't an effin clue how much).
Again, the police are refusing to be manipulated. They want to make it clear they are in charge of this investigation.
They are letting Trista run her mouth and sweat it out.
The BDN put up that last 'genuine' interview with a little snippet that wasn't on the original channel.
Trista says she 'heard her voice in this house'. blah blah and then she had a nervous breakdown. HUH??????
She says she was incapable of doing anything for months when that is what she was so angry about Justin saying the same thing! oopsie?
Bottom line..they are looking hard at Trista and her prison break pals imo.
Trista is caught between a rock and a hard place now.
It is really obvious she knows where Ayla is but can not 'talk' to her since she is being monitored.
And she can't tell her new friends she is a con artist can she?
I think Trista thought Ayla was waay cuter than Caylee and she could make a lot of money.
I am sure she is shopping her story right now.
She has dollar bills in her eyes but she is backed into a corner..
Oh, I read the SA about daddy's pajamas.
ReplyDeleteWhat is really funny is no one points out that it was Jessica who bought those jammies.
Seems like the Reynold's girls love 'subliminal' branding eh?
They think they have to lead everyone by the nose and then slap a billboard on it!
Subtle they aint!
They wrote the headlines but can't pull off the storyline!
But I have to hand it to them, they are just sooo GENUINE! LOL
Trista sure wants us to stop looking for Ayla! She's quit showing her picture or wearing a missing shirt.
She's using the troll code word for 'dead'...JUSTICE.
She doesn't even want to do the vigil, it's too bothersome.
Oh check this old video. I think it was shot when 'lil man' was sick.
What a lousy actress!
http://topics.myfoxboston.com/m/51034349/tot-s-mom-pleads-for-daughter-s-return.htm
We hear Courtney Roberts and Justin Dipietro are having a baby.
ReplyDeleteAnyone know if this is true?
Selena should know.
DeleteWe have also heard Trista is pregnant for the THIRD time, baby daddy, unknown.
DeleteYeah but thanks to those crazy SA trolls she isn't going to reply.
DeleteThey should just go back to father Peeter's blog or STFU!
You're done. Notice the traffic on your site has slowed. Not many care what you have to say. It is over, pack it up Full of Lies. I feel sorry for you, the energy you put out into the world is ugly. Instead of doing good for the world you choose the opposite, reflection of an ugly person.
ReplyDelete@ your done
Deletetraffic may have slowed but some of us choose to hear both sides of the story. reflection of an ugly person is someone who chooses to hear only one of those sides. it also shows the mentality of a person who shows their level of tolerance towards people and their intolerance towards fact.
justin in the end might be guilty but at least i can say i took both sides into consideration. and if it turns out that trista is guilty, then that just makes you stupid.
Oh. I guess since You Have Spoken, we all have to take our toys and go home?
DeleteThis is the one blog that is actually making an attempt to expose both sides, rather than be one side pointing fingers at the other. Really, can you Trista lovers ask yourselves WHY the Reynolds family wants everyone to think Ayla died & Justin did it? What purpose does it serve? Why on earth are they not hoping to hold that baby girl again & holding on to hope that it will happen someday? Why? WHY? Tell me that!
Most people go through at least some sort of denial when they fear the worst. This site dares question the Reynolds. I believe they have Ayla, and I'm not alone. Trista says "I don't believe Ayla was abducted." They all can say that truthfully if Trista's the one that took her, because, yeah, you can't abduct your own kid.
Take a deep breath, clear your mind of all bias put there by other people, and read the articles with the thought of Trista doing it. It makes WAY MORE SENSE. The life insurance policy claims are all ridiculous! The 'cup of blood' is ridiculous. No one said that, at least no officials! THINK FOR YOURSELF FOR ONCE!
The traffic has not slowed down. I still get roughly the same amount of page views as I did from the beginning. What happens is people read what I write, then discuss it elsewhere. Just check the comments of other blogs and such. You'll see "OHMYGOSH, you won't believe what Lies is up to now." Really high schoolish, but hey...I have you talking, that's all that matters! :)
DeleteIs that how we judge the quality of site information, by how many comments? Of course this blog isn't going to get a lot of support. Most of the posters are not willing to consider any scenario other than Justin abused and killed Ayla. Their minds are closed, so why would they come here? The majority of blog posters only want to vent their hatred at the DiPietro's and prefer to do it on a blog where others feel the same way. How ironic that people call this a hate blog when it's the least hateful of all of them. Uncanny it is.
DeleteIsn't is also a hoot that people come here and accuse Selena of drinking and at the same time give whole hearted support to true alcoholic, Trista.
Isn't that ironic? Aunt Selena's kid is not missing either. Trista is the most angelic alcoholic I've ever seen...Alcohol use comes with a bunch of unsavory characteristics, I can't think of one that ENHANCE parenting...
DeleteThanks for chiming in!
I guess my reply wasn't acceptable earlier. I basically said....well, I guess it doesn't matter, because it'll just get deleted if I say it again. But honestly. OK I'll try to summarize...I was just saying that this blog is the only one that isn't one side pointing fingers at the other. It's the only one who dares present a different scenario than all of the others who mirror each other with the same old, tired view.
DeleteI also challenged those who think JDip & Co are such terrible people to open their minds & take out everything they've been told (particularly the things that make no sense that are being perpetuated by the Reynolds camp) and just try to see it as a parental "abduction" by one of the parents....which isn't really an abduction, but the only thing that makes sense.
Why would one side work soooo hard to implicate the other unless they were trying to take the spotlight off of themselves? Why else would they try to paint Ayla as dead, and want to leave town to "start over," and just try so darn hard to make JDip a killer based on a life insurance policy and a cup of blood (which neither makes a lick of sense)?
I guess I'll shutup before I say something that gets me deleted again...
Hi, I didn't delete your replies, for some reason they went to Spam.
DeleteSorry about that, you've got valid points.
You're kidding, right? This blog is just as one-sided as all the others!! JSTL blog most def points the finger at Trista, her family and friends. Did you miss the titles of some of these blog entries?? Some of them even have people's whole name on blast ie; Ashley P., Jeff Hanson, Peter H., Jessica!!! THAT is pointing the finger! And you're right the scenarios presented on this blog are daring and different along with inflamatory, highly negative, baseless, and pretty much lacking in common sense...pretty much the same way your 1 run on sentence paragraph 2 lacks common sense. If you think "the only thing that makes sense" is a parental abduction then YOU are the one with a CLOSED mind along with the fact that you're an idiot.
DeleteTrista's "side" doesn't have to "try" to make JDiP a killer...he is doing that all by himself..oh wait, I almost forgot, he has Heidi T. to help him with that. And a cup-full of blood from a 30lb toddler on the floor of her father's bedroom(which is aprox. 1/3 of the blood in her lil body); Justin, Courtney and Elisha not telling the whole truth per the MSP; a LIP on Ayla bought a mere 6 weeks before her disappearance; Ayla's broken arm, pulled leg muscle and several bruises all while in Justin's care in a VERY short period of time; JDiP's failed poly, him hiding out at Heidi T's house and not speaking out via the media for his daughter....All those things along with many many other troubling things are what causes a MAJORITY of people, who choose to use their common sense while looking at the facts, come to the conclusion that the Waterville 3 are all somehow involved in this sweet lil angel Ayla's disappearance.
So yes, please, SHUT UP!!!!!
oh lies... your imagination is getting clogged by your bias.
ReplyDeletewhat happened to you will see my views toward trista soften? ha! more lies? your motives here have been quite transparent from the beginning. but you are heaping more grief upon a grieving family.
you are correct that "to term" appears to be trista's language, the fact that she is telling what happened over a year ago doesn't mean she is using each person's language VERBATIM.
since we don't know exactly what happened or what was said between trista and justin, we have to allow for the possibility that trista KNEW ayla was justin's & called him with news of her pregnancy to guage his reaction. however once trista told justin that she was pregnant & knew his NEGATIVE reaction to her news, she simply may not have disclosed to him that he definitely was the father because he had said i don't want a child & you better have an abortion if it's mine. since trista did not want to have an abortion for whatever reason, she dropped the subject, thinking she could raise her baby on her own.
women have done this for ages & it is to her credit that she loved her child enough to not ABORT her. she also loved her children enough that she went to rehab to try to clean up her life. trista is still very young and those of us who are older and know how we grew in knowledge and wisdom in a few short years.
My biggest fear is that my children may pay for the mistakes i've made... The mistakes Trista made should not have resulted in Ayla's loss.
you fail to hold the very people accountable who did not protect Ayla when it mattered the most.
conversation:
T: we hooked up a while ago & i just found out i'm pregnant.
J: pregnant? i don't want kids. you better abort it if it's mine.
T: well i'm not really sure...
J: this is F*ed up
T: i'll talk to you later
the point is we DON'T know. trista has told her story. justin has not spoken. there is no cause to call either a "liar."
also if justin was employed, why not release the facts of where he was working/ft or pt? instead of just calling it a rumor?
ReplyDeletei realize he was training for truck driving school & that is admirable but everyone is clearly under the assumption it was for a future job.
i posted 2 posts... deleted or are they in spam? thanks
ReplyDeleteWow, you really are grasping at straws here. This whole website of yours is just seething with hate for Trista and the Reynolds family. This site isn't for Ayla at all! Whoever you are, you are certainly pathetic. That's ok, keep wallowing in the dirty lies and denial. Maybe you had something to do with this horror too? It'll all come out in the end.
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