5 FAQs: LANCE *Updated*

I start this post off with caveats. The information contained in this post was not relayed directly to me, so you all will have to consider it second-(or third)-hand information. I have refrained from adding my 2 cents here, but I will likely do so in the comments section along with the rest of you. This post is not intended to speak for Lance (unless you see his words verbatim), nor do I seek to represent the thoughts, experiences, or feelings of any other member of the DiPietro family. I make no guarantees regarding the accuracy of this information; although I do believe it to be 100% true. Perhaps a more comprehensive post will follow at a later date...
 
What's the story about Bob Vear and Lance?

• Lance got to know Bob, because Bob was a regular at the restaurant where Lance worked. They did not work together.
• The two only started talking about 4 months before Ayla disappeared. This is not a long-term friendship as has been described by certain people.
• On at least one occasion, Bob sold his medical marijuana to one of Lance's friends. This is why Bob had reason to be at Lance's residence (it is also presumably the only time Bob was there).
• Bob never disclosed to Lance that he was a sex offender or pedophile.
• After Ayla went missing, Bob told Lance that he didn't have much time left but that he wanted to help find her. Bob had known he had cancer for years.
• Bob invited Lance over for what was going to be Bob's "last Christmas". Supposedly, Bob's cancer was going to kill him within the next few weeks.
• After leaving Bob's house, Lance spent the rest of Christmas with his own family. Keeping his emotions at bay was necessary to him; he didn't want to ruin everyone else's Christmas. 
• Bob was supposed to secure t-shirts and bracelets, but he never did. He was able to organize the vigil though.
• Bob also used the fact that his genitals had been cut off as a way to garner further sympathy.
• Around the time that the 30k reward was announced, Bob was desperately looking for funds to pay for his daughter's wedding.
• Lance was upset about the incident with Bob and NBC's Alan Cohen. Lance did not use Bob to get beer. Lance was the kitchen manager of the restaurant they were at, and he could have put an unlimited amount of beer on his own tab.

What led to the problems between Justin Linnell and Lance?

• Phoebe allowed Justin L. to move into her home when Elisha was pregnant.
• Justin L. and Elisha broke up because he was obsessive and controlling. He would not even allow her to go out with her friends, and he would constantly argue with her and pick fights out of jealousy. At the end, Justin L. threw something violently in the living room, and it hit (or almost hit?) Gabby. Lance was not present.
• When Justin L. and Elisha split up, he threatened to slit Elisha's throat, slit Phoebe's throat, burn the house down, and to kill Lance if Lance had something to say about it.
• Justin L. then began stalking Elisha. He would send her hundreds of text messages, call excessively, and follow her.
• Justin L. even had to be removed from the place where Lance worked. He had come in and was just pacing around, staring at Elisha. Justin L. showing up everywhere Elisha was became a recurring pattern.
• Justin L. would walk by the home at Violette Ave. at night; there was vandalism, and on a few occasions things would be missing and the family suspected Justin L.
• Before Ayla was abducted, Justin L. and Lance had a run in. Once again, Justin L. threatened Elisha's life. He said something to the effect of "if I see your sister before I see my daughter she's fuckin' dead." Justin L. was with approximately 15 people at the time, and he took off before Lance could address him.
• Justin Linnell and Justin DiPietro also got into an argument before Lance and Justin L.'s fight. Justin L. called Justin D. a child killer, among other things.
• When Justin D. and Lance were driving that day, Justin L. started yelling things at the vehicle. Justin L. thought he was yelling at Justin D. and did not realize that Lance was also in the car. Lance told Justin D. to pull over; Justin D. asked why, but Lance just jumped out of the car.
• A majority of the problem between the two was caused by Justin L. threatening the DiPietros. Also, around that time Elisha had contacted the police about Justin L. breaking his restraining order and contacting her. Police declined to take action.

Did Lance threaten Peeter Hyatt?

On Sun, Jul 22, 2012 at 6:45 AM, Peter Hyatt <phyatt1962@gmail.com> wrote:

Lance,

Do you want the opportunity to tell your side on radio?  I would interview; no trick questions, all basic. 

Since you have my email address you know what I do, and know what I believe.  Your anger tells me I am right.  If I had been wrong, you would not have bothered.  

Why not take the opportunity to tell your side?  I can e mail you the questions if you want.  You would call in to a radio program and 

take questions live.  

If your brother didn't do it, why not just say so, and answer questions that the public wants to know?

Peter Hyatt

On Sun, Jul 22, 2012 at 1:59 PM, Lance D <> wrote:

Yeah you're a real stand up guy trying to ruin peoples lives you sick fuck. I dont need any kind of "opportunity" you could possibly give me. Trust me if I wanted to  be on the radio or TV I have to appropriate connections. I, however, don't feel the need like Trista to try and become some sort of fucked up celebrity out of this. The truth will unfold itself and I hope your conscience kills you.See, in this situation, there are people who help, and people who enable. The people who help create awareness and try to figure out possibilities of what's going on while keeping faith in Ayla being alive. Then there are enablers who sit on the internet making accusations and don't actually do shit for Ayla except hurt one side of her family or the other. You are an enabler Peter. And yes, I hope everything bad in life happens to you and Tori. I hope her cancer eats her uterus like all the crack cocaine obviously ate her fuckin brain. And if you would like to meet somewhere's private and discuss this I would love to. Oh and I saw your picture stop sitting on cats you dumb fuck.

On Mon, Jul 23, 2012 at 10:53 AM, Peter Hyatt <phyatt1962@gmail.com> wrote:

sitting on cats?  do you have the wrong person?

by the way, regarding meeting, I'm not as small as Ayla was.   I will pass your threat on to law enforcement and probation.

On Mon, Jul 23, 2012 at 10:54 AM, Peter Hyatt <phyatt1962@gmail.com> wrote:
PS:  Did you read this?     www.statementanalysis.com     It has your brother's case under famous cases.  I'd enjoy hearing a refutation.

 On Tue, Jul 24, 2012 at 1:38 AM, Lance D <> wrote:
Haha yeah well I dont need to read a statement analysis or refute anything. You're a moron go ahead and send this whole thing to LE and probation hahaha I'm sure my probation officer would love to hear from you. And you're the one who is about to have the rude awakening buddy, just wait for what I got lined up for you. You're the one who is going to be doing the refuting. Someday you're going to apologize to me and my whole family mark my fucking words. Oh and Hi LE I hope you guys tell Peter what an idiot he is and how I never threatened him. [heart] Lance  PS My brothers case? Didn't know he had one pending... news to me. But you wouldn't be someone to go by what's factual, now would you?



What's eating Catherine Calvert Arsenault?
Note: this is not so much about Lance, but is only included because it has been discussed in cyberland...




Did Lance Move?

This is not a rumor. Lance has moved, for various reasons. The assertions that he moved as part of a witness protection program or that his whole family has moved are simply untrue. I have declined to post complete details, because doing so would lead to people being able to sleuth the person he is living with.



That's all for now. Good day folks!
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Update: Bob V.'s genital issues are outlined here. It's not easy reading, but if you want to know---there it is, in his own words.