Trista Reynolds
about an hour ago via mobile
Okay so I am going to be nice as possible but I am going to say I am fed
up and I have not said anything but I have come to my breaking point.
First I do want to say thank you to every one who has not picked sides
and are supporting Ayla and praying for her. Second I am quiet sick of
those who want to pick sides and be so judge mental and hurt full and
feel just because you are supporting Ayla you think you have the right
to post things about her make pictures of her and find it okay to POST
them but your not. Not one of you have the right to talk shit about me
because I don't want pictures of Ayla that do not look like her posted
up. You all need to grow up and put yourself in my shoes you all would
feel the same and how dare any one you say neither one of her parents
care because let me inform all of YOU I AM THE ONLY PARENT WHO HAS EVER
CARED AND DONE EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING FOR AYLA so really who the hell
do you people think you are? You don't me, you do not know what I have
been thru in 14months, you don't know the things I see and hear so
please explain to me why you think its okay to talk about me or judge
me? And I would really like to know how not one of you ever met Ayla and
know nothing about her but you feel you know what she would look like.
You all need to get over yourself and stop obsesing over Ayla because
what you all don't get or understand is your not making it any easier on
me. I think you all forget I AM HER MOTHER!!! Oh and for all of you who
don't know I'M HAVING A BABY. There you got something to go run your
mouths about. Got to say is sad and pathetic you all waste your days
trying to find new ways to hurt me, Ayla and Raymond.
Editor's note: I stand by my earlier assessment of her. I'm "quiet" sure I have it right. Shaking my damn head.
So if Trista is sick of people who take sides does that include herself?
ReplyDeleteWhy would she not be on her own side, hers, Ayla, baby ray and her new baby to come? Huh?? Is that all yu got out of this?
DeleteTrista is on her own side. That is all I have ever seen. I hope someday she grows up and changes. But right now all sources say she is living with a boyfriend who according to her best friend choked her and hit baby Ray and it is not the first time. According to other sources he has always been violent and is a crack dealer. So IS Trista on her children's side? Or is she doing what she wants to do still? I will reserve my judgement on that thanks.
DeleteI commend Trista for posting this. Give me a break, she wrote this from her cell phone; who really cares about a few grammatical errors? She is absolutely right--nobody on here should be gossiping about her or judging her. I don't know Ayla or Trista, and the owner of this free blog doesn't know Ayla or Trista. Also, if anyone has the right to take sides in the case of a missing child, I believe that the mother of the missing child has the most right.
ReplyDeleteTrista doesn't want people taking sides UNLESS they're taking HER side. She's the one who came out with all of the stories about Justin, the slights against Courtney, and the drama about Elisha.
DeleteTRISTA is responsible for many nasty things circulating, but when it turns around on her she acts like a 2 year old.
Trash, garbage, waste, sewage...see where I'm going with this?
yes, Obscure, I see where you are going with this, where you allways do. Her baby was taken from her and I understand why she would bad mouth those who she feels is responsible. So what if she, "slights" Courtney?
DeletePlease tell me something I have said about Trista that is not true.
DeleteI'm waiting.
I remember once you said something like Trista wasn't completely useless, or completely trashy, or something, lol, now I can't remember, but I'm pretty sure you were wrong....
DeleteI will repeat myself, since you obviously didn't understand the first time.
DeletePlease tell me something I have said about Trista that is not true.
I'm STILL waiting.
I understood you...I am not the orig. anon. I was trying to bring some levity to situation...
DeleteTrista, I am very sorry that you heard or read the nasty posts and comments directed to you on this blog. Please, don't let the words of a few misguided individuals get to you. You are Ayla's mother, and it has been obvious from day one, (to the majority of people), that you love your daughter and have done everything possible to bring her home. Kudos to you, Trista!
ReplyDeleteKudos?!
DeleteI'm not even going to go any further.
Bless your heart.
What? "it is obvious from day one that you love your daughter and have done everything possible to bring her home" Trista has said she was dead from day one.
DeleteTrista has good reason to believe Ayla is dead. Reasons that the rest of us don't know. JUDGE MUCH
DeleteWhat? You are saying Trista has had good reason to know Ayla was dead from day one? What are you trying to say??
DeleteAnon, it wasn't exactly day one. It was more like day 6. But I digress...
Delete"You all need to get over yourself and stop obsesing over Ayla because what you all don't get or understand is your not making it any easier on me."
ReplyDeleteWOW - just WOW
Obsessing over Ayla. I've said it before, she refers to Ayla as a possession, not a child.
DeleteRED flag.
Huge red flag. Not only does she refer to Ayla as her possession but she excludes Justin.
DeleteWhich is a reoccurring theme...
DeleteSo we were all supposed to be making this easier on Trista this is not about Ayla. This has been about Trista you heard it straight from Trista herself.
DeleteUnfortunately when you are the parent of a missing child who has an abundance of personal issues, you become scrutinized. She isn't comfortable being scrutinized yet she is ok with the Dipietro and Tudela families being the subject of scrutiny (and flat out harassment)and has fueled that with her own statements, many of them contradictory or blatant lies. I see that she feels the need to make it about her and talks of Ayla as a possession. Its funny how its important to her to let everyone know she is pregnant, right after bitching about people being in her business...yet she made a point to bring it up.. But since she wants us all to know she is pregnant and welcomes people "running their mouths" about it, I will be the first to bite. I say its sad and irresponsible. Another child being brought into an already dysfunctional situation. Who is supporting her and these kids? She hasn't learned a goddamn thing if she is popping out another kid with yet another baby daddy. And as someone who is financially stable and not dependent on taxpayers, yet struggling with fertility issues and having no kids of my own, it makes me sick that there is another child being born to someone who knows they can sit back and milk the system. Because Trista honey, in all reality, its us who are paying for you and your kids.
DeleteThe appropriate word to use is recurring. Perhaps you should concern yourself with your own grammatical issues before critiquing others. Have a great day!
DeleteAnnnnd wrong again.
Deletereoccur [ˌriːəˈkɜː]
vb -curs, -curring, -curred (intr)
to happen, take place, or come about again
reoccurrence (n)
Hope your day is just as great, dummy! :)
Name calling? Surprise suprise!
DeleteIn response to comment above, I don't think Trista has to deal with the dips feelings, they can take care of themsleves.
Oneannon, it just shows an individual's insecurities when they feel the need to lash out and resort to immature name calling. You and I both know the appropriate word choice is recurring.
Deletevs2vs 2/12/13, 10:50 PM "Unfortunately when you are the parent of a missing child who has an abundance of personal issues, you become scrutinized. She isn't comfortable being scrutinized yet she is ok with the Dipietro and Tudela families being the subject of scrutiny (and flat out harassment)and has fueled that with her own statements, many of them contradictory or blatant lies."
Delete***The venom toward Trista on the blogs has gotten really hateful lately and I think that after over a year of all the bashing, she has hit her breaking point and just had enough. I have stated before and will state again that Trista is no mother of the year candidate, but she doesn't deserve the bashing she has received here - just for bashings sake, just because you can. The DiPietro and Tudela families don't need Trista's protection from scrutiny. They know how and where to speak up for themselves. Where have they spoken out in defense of her? What's good for the goose...
The last 3 posts have made me think about whether I want to continue to post in a climate that is making me very uncomfortable. The answer is no. McKee - thanks for some very good convo's here and at JFA/UFA. Space - thank you for always being able to debate civilly. So long.
Trista has spent this past year bashing Justin and everyone else associated with him.
DeleteAnd anyone who doesn't agree with her...
DeleteBut yeah...no one knows what SHE has been going through. Nevermind her missing 2 year old.
DeleteAnon 746... I dont see how calling a person out for milking the system is trashing someone. I dont need to trash her character, she does that to herself. She is the one that contradicts her own statements. She chooses to be lazy and not work to support her kids. I am just calling it like it is. Why should I pay for her to keep getting knocked up? I guess working my ass off since I was 15 and doing things responsibly was silly of me. Trista is such a prime example I should have done it her way. Cmon I didnt say she had to be perfect but she clearly isnt learning fron her past mistakes if she got knocked up by another shady guy. Aid from taxpayers like you and myself is set up to help those who truly need it not who just keep having unprotected sex and popping out kids they cant afford. Yet you think that makes me the one who will be a bad mother. Thats hilarious. Oh and I guess I better do drugs too if I want to be a great mom like Trista. My guess is you have tour hand out looking for free assistance just like she does lmao.
Deletevs2vs...Apparently you have no idea what motherhood is about.
DeleteIf you're not snorting it up, drinking it down, and whoring around, you're doing your kids a MAJOR disservice.
Get your shit together vs2vs. Those kids are depending on you.
*EYEROLL*
Obscure: In keeping with "the truth," it's "recurring" and not "reoccuring."
Deleterecoccuring
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TT - you have an extra c in there - reoccurring can be found on dictionary.com (even my browser recognizes it as a word in this typing space) - it seems it's almost interchangeable with recurring, though reoccurring is usually used when there is no object in the sentence.
DeleteLMAO! I didn't see that. So much for my detail-orientation.
DeleteBTW, that extra c was a typo, obviously. I was curious about recurring vs reoccurring so when I looked it up I mistyped it. But it was totally my error to not catch it.
DeleteWell, I'm glad that Trista was as nice as possible.
ReplyDeleteSelena . . . what do you think about the blakets that were found? Do they sound familiar at all to you? What about the long ride Justin took before he called 911, do you have any idea where he went and why? Of course it is said that he went to find Trista in Portland. . .we all know that isn't true. Give us your thoughts
DeleteAgain, I'm not Selena, so please do not atrribute my comment to her.
DeleteWhat do I thik about the blankets that were said to be found at the Dam in Waterville? (if it was 2 blankets)
I think a workman found them, and thinking that they may be of interest to the MSP, called and reported finding them. MSP then collected them and sent them to their lab for testing to determine if they might contain any DNA related to Ayla.
I think that most likely they were determined not to be related to Ayla.
What about the long ride Justin took before he called 911?
I have no idea. I haven't heard anything about this from MSP, nor in any mainstream media reports.
I feel bad for Trista, but she was the one that put Ayla in Justin's care. Trista is the one that had a drug problem, or drinking problem that had to go into Rehab. I don't doubt she loves Ayla she is a mother. She is right I don't know her, but from the things I have seen of her on film, statements she has made, life style she lives, she still is not mother of the year. I feel bad for Ayla she didn't choose her mothers life style, and Trista owed her the chance at a normal life. She did not give Ayla that chance. On the other side neither did Justin. She came up missing while in his care. Now she will have a chance with another child, let's see how she does with Ray and the new addition. Will she be able to cope or fall back into the drug scene. Then complain how no one is fair to her, or feels her pain.
ReplyDeleteTrying to find new ways to hurt you and Raymond? AFTER everything you've 'been through' in the last 14 months, I thought you may try and better yourself. Instead, YOU continue to put your kids in danger. What kind of 'mother' allows ANY man to put his hands on her, especially when she's pregnant and has another child around to witness it.
ReplyDeleteThe kind of mother who puts herself first. And before anyone jumps all over that with the poor Trista routine. It is not like it is not putting herself first is not a pattern with her so don't go getting all indignant. She has yet to prove herself a mom who puts her kids first. A mom who has recovered and straightened out. And living with a man who would harm her and her child and potentially her unborn child and furthermore is a known crack dealer in that area is not my idea of being on that path.
DeleteI couldn't agree more
DeleteI concur.
DeleteYou all need to get over yourself and stop obsesing over Ayla because what you all don't get or understand is your not making it any easier on me. I think you all forget I AM HER MOTHER!!!
ReplyDeleteSo does that include John P and co, too?
Once again, TT...you cut right to the point!
DeleteAnonymous 1:52
ReplyDeleteYou really want some attention on that don't you? Why so desperate?
They haven't had anything real or new to talk about, so they are now making it up as they go. Seems funny Jeff drops off the face of the earth for months then comes back when there is nothing to talk about. Now all of a sudden it is JPs blog and he will be responsible for any actions taken against U4A. Smart move Jeff, not so smart on your part John. Keep digging holes. You can't really think you can keep slandering people just because it is the internet and get away with it do you?
ReplyDeleteAnd then he comes out with explosive new news....but it's John's blog now so if Jeff is a big fucking liar well, it's not his problem anymore, now is it? Jeff has a rude awakening coming to him....
ReplyDeleteAsk yourselves why Jeff doesn't go to the mainstream media with these claims.
ReplyDeleteBen McCanna seems like a pretty reasonable guy. I'm sure he would have no problem publishing this latest round of BS.