Of the most baffling things to me:
Reynolds also responded to reports that DiPietro sent her a text
message in the days before Ayla disappeared saying that he was worried
someone might take the little girl. Reynolds said that’s a sentiment she
has heard from DiPietro numerous times, including long before Ayla went
missing. She said she took those statements to mean that he feared she
or one of her family members would show up one day to take custody of
Ayla.
“Justin thought that a lot,” said Reynolds. “He always thought that I
would be the one to take her. I always wondered why he was so scared
about that. Now that people are bringing it to my attention, I’m going
back and saying, wait a minute. I never went to get her because I
thought she was OK and well cared for.”
“I don’t think he realizes how much this is affecting me and my
family and the rest of the world. This is serious,” Reynolds said.
WHY did Justin think that? Would love to see statement analysis on her quote!
Why don't you go ask Peter to do one for you? Ask him to analyze this statement too. "We used to tell each other everything." What do you think, Obscure? Is Trista telling the truth? When would this have been? Doesn't sound like one drunken night to me. Nor does it sound like all the fighting and bickering after her birth.
ReplyDeleteInquiring minds want to know! LOL
If I may...I could use some SA on this:
ReplyDelete"There are still no answers. There's no news. There's still nothing positive," she (Reynolds) said. "I pray every day that the phone is going to ring and we're going to get those answers. State police are the ones with the answers, and I feel like they're going to make this be a mystery."
http://www.kjonline.com/news/trista-reynolds-losing-hope_2012-12-13.html
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If the MSP has the answers, why in the world would they want to "make this be a mystery?"
OT: It has been three weeks today since investigators met with Trista...
She started out saying Justin had the answers.
DeleteBatshit crazy. Only way to describe this.
Trista has made so many contradictory statments that I can't keep up with them all.
ReplyDeleteOne day Trista thought Ayla was well cared for, the next, she was concerned about bruises and abuse.
On Dec. 19, in an interview, Trista said that she and Justin had an agreement that he would take care of Ayla until she got on her feet.
That being the case, it makes no sense that Justin was suppose to return Ayla the day she got out of rehab.
Likewise, how can she say that DHHS violated her rights?
I suspect that Justin thought that Trista or one of her family members would come and take Ayla because she and/or they, threatened to do so at some point.
DeleteThat's what Trista suspects Justin thought also.
" Reynolds said that’s a sentiment she has heard from DiPietro numerous times, including long before Ayla went missing. She said she took those statements to mean that he feared she or one of her family members would show up one day to take custody of Ayla."
No SA needed there. :)
Wow this has been up for a couple of days and 4 comments on a blog post. . . this blog is so popular. . . the problem I think is the lame topics you post here. Your posts are redundant.
ReplyDeleteIs this a popularity contest? I've seen Pantyauntie comment recently that people here must be jealous of John P because he is the "leader of the pack." Pack of what?
DeleteMany of us have jobs and lives. Even if I had the time I wouldn't spend my days every day speculating and finger pointing.
A little girl is missing, maybe dead. This isn't about which blog has more comments.
Anon. 1/26 7:46
DeleteYet here you are reading and commenting.
Post can be effective without a lot of comments.
Funny. . . I was thinking the same thing. . . about yours.
DeleteOh don't go taking it personally. You just always say the same thing. "this blog is irrelevant, redundant, stupid, *insert your insult du jour here*"
If it's so awful, why are you here? No, but seriously. Why?
Just because there are not 300 comments does not mean people don't read here. If nothing can be added one does not comment.
ReplyDeleteNo need here to make the same comments over and over, rehashing same topics. You can visit U4A for that.
@Anonymous 7:46
ReplyDeleteFunny you should say this. Normally after one of Obscures posts there are many nasty comments. Apparently no one could come up with any.
As for me. I was thinking what more is there to say.
For those who are wondering about Trista's med. condition that kept her from finishing the polygraph test, here is what good ol grandpa Jeff said about it.
ReplyDelete"One thing that you and some of your readers may not understand about Trista is that she is not capable of lying...........
I have to I ask you this: if your not capable of lying, how can you pass a lie detector test? ...what saddens me is that we label it "a medical condition"... the Step Dad
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ReplyDeleteThank you for reporting this, Looking. I hope it is just a rumor, but I doubt it :(
DeleteIs this on a public page? Do you have a screen grab? Glad you reported it!
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DeleteBEFORE I POST THIS BE AWARE I HAVE REPORTED THIS SAME POST TO DHHS AND WAS TOLD IT WOULD BE FORWARDED TO THE APPROPRIATE OFFICE
I wanted to bring this to the attention of those who do not follow on Facebook notice there are a few who have no problem very verbally declaring Justin as an abuser with no evidence but Trista's word but do not call DHHS on this
Amanda(Trista's best friend then not Best Friend then Best Friend again Then now no longer Best Friend says)
BeeDa Benner WASHING MY HANDS OF TRISTA ANN REYNOLDS. SHE WANTS TO ALLOW A MAN TO CONTROL HER, SHOVE HER, CHOKE HER AND THEN HIT HER SON. IM DONE!
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BB yup she is scum
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CMA I agree she should have her sons saftey at her first priority!!!! He is controling her but she does not see that it is wrong. As he provides a roof over her head etc.. She is out of portland and likes where she is. She is not seeing the whole picture clearly at all....
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BB YEAH SHE IS FUCKED UP AND HE IS A SICKO FOR THAT AND MORE. IM DONE AND IF PEOPLE DONT LIKE WHAT I HAVE TO SAY THEY CAN DELETE ME!
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CMA I dont blame you one bit Amanda!!!! Do what you need to do.... If she wont protect her son and the baby she is carrying then who will?
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DeleteThis is not a public page but I got a copy and paste of it. I do not have the actually screen shot but I am working on getting one. I can not see why someone would start a rumor like this and I can not confirm it is true but I would rather make sure Little Ray is safe above anything else. I will report anything I see that may prevent a child from getting hurt.
The other one I posted is on a public page and I do have the screen shot of that one as it has disappeared and reappeared again
Yikes! Good for you for forwarding this to DHHS, Looking.
DeleteI do wish Amanda kept this matter off of Facebook and made a confidential report herself. Victims of domestic violence don't deserve to have their dirty laundry exposed on social networks. Shame and fear keep many victims of abuse silent.
If these allegations are true, this is serious stuff. Ray is in danger. If Trista is intending to bring another child into the world (shaking my head), the fetus is in danger.
Again, Looking...I applaud you for bringing this matter to the proper authorities.
Looking at the Facts said: "I will report anything I see that may prevent a child from getting hurt."
DeleteAgain, glad you do and did in this case.
I went to Trista's page and didn't see the other, will look again.
Mckee,
DeleteWell said, and I agree with your entire comment.
Not only is little Ray and the unborn baby in danger, but so is Trista.
Abuse most often grows worse as time goes on. Abusive people don't just stop,...they can't. They need treatment.
I'm saddened that U4A seems to be silent on this issue. I expected someone, ANYONE, to make a plea for Little Ray's and Trista's safety. I guess I'll make one here.
DeleteDHHS may be limited in how far they will investigate this. It is, after all, a Facebook posting. Please, for the love of God, will someone in the family look into the situation?
More questions...I fear your plea will fall on deaf ears.
DeleteI don't think Becca, Jeff, Ron, Robert Fortier, and other family members will step in. They didn't when Trista was using with two little ones in a motel. Becca and Ron lost their grandchildren (Jessica's children) to the system. I don't think there is strong family support out there for Trista and her son...even in light of Ayla's disappearance. I hope I'm wrong...
I think our best hope is that "Looking" forwarded the FB thread to DHHS for their consideration. FB can be a trashy place...I don't think the thread will be taken seriously. As "Looking" noted...Amanda and Trista have been hot-and-cold on the friendship front for some time. Amanda sounds more angry than genuinely concerned, in my opinion.
You are not wrong Mckee.
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DeleteAnd then this comment on Trista's public facebook page basically confirms that Trista i again pregnant with Alex wh has been named as an abuser but Trista's BFF Amanda
AF posted toTrista Reynolds
December 26, 2012
so first off i want to start by saying how much you mean to me and how much i love you, you and bubba man are my life and the loves of my life and the shine in my eyes, i have never felt this way about anyone ever before, everytime i hug and kiss you i can never get enough i just want you to be in my arms forever, i cant go without a 30 seconds with out thinking about you im so glad you both walked into my life, i will be there through thick and think with you and no matter what we will get through anything together, i couldnt have piccked anyone else to be the mother of my children i love you so much and thank you for being mine i love you soo much baby :) ♥
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Trista Reynolds Aww baby you are so amazing and wonderful thank you. Baby you are truly one of a kind and I could not have asked for a better man be by my side with everything that is going on. you are so understanding even when things do get rough you do not turn your back on Bubba man or I. I love how far we have come in the past year and I am so excited to keep building a family with you. Baby you are my true love and I know I may not express how I feel all the time but know that everything you feel so don't I. I hate when you are away for a long period of time my favorte time of day with you is when I wrapped in your arms. You mean the world to me and Bubba man and I are thankful you walked into our lifes. Mwah
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SS aww you two. You made my eyes water
December 26, 2012 at 8:12am via mobile · 1
AM Love................... Need n.e.1. Say more
December 26, 2012 at 8:32am via mobile
BL LOVE YOY GUYS!!
December 26, 2012 at 6:15pm via mobile
LAM Much Happiness to you Trista. I hope that 2013 will be a good year for you, and your family. Prayers for Ayla.
December 26, 2012 at 7:10pm
GA So sweet Alex and Trista! I'm so happy you were blessed to find each other. Funny! Was thinking about you two this morning. God Bless You two!! Love & Prayers
What stands out to me?
DeleteTrista says "I love how far we have come in the past year and I am so excited to keep building a family with you."
Her child has been missing for the past year...The comment was posted on December 26, so not even a month after her child was missing she was being swept off her feet by some guy.
Keep it classy, Trista.
I want to be cautious here. These are some very serious accusations posted on a FB page. "Looking" did the responsible thing and forwarded the information to the proper authorities. This needs to be investigated ASAP. I'm hoping there will be no findings of abuse, but the risk is far too great to not act upon these allegations.
DeleteIs there a time-stamp of the these postings, Looking? I don't "do" Facebook and I'm not particularly savy navigating the site.
Very, very sad.
DeleteThank you Looking for being responsible, and doing the right thing.
Obscure, surely you don't mean "not even a month after her child was missing"? December 26, 2012 would have been one year and nine days from the date Ayla was reported missing.
DeleteAnon@7:41
DeleteTrista said, on 12/26/12, that the *past year* has been the best (paraphrasing). So, that means they started dating near the time that Ayla went missing.
anon - Obscure said that Trista has been with this man since 12 months ago - and Ayla went missing 13 months ago. 1 month after her daughter disappeared she was beginning a new relationship. Coincidentally, Ayla disappeared on the same day Trista was visiting her fiance. Worried Trista couldn't get transportation the 1 hour to check on her daughter, but she could get a ride 4 hours to see her fiance in prison? Then a month later she has a new boyfriend? It's strange. I agree, Obscure, I can't imagine enthusing about "look how far we've come the past year" - so, Trista is happy and settled now? and looking forward to making more babies?
DeleteNo, Michelle that is not what that means. The "past year" implies any time within a twelve month period. However, I don't personally care how long Trista has been dating her current partner because it doesn't have anything to do with Ayla's disappearance.
DeleteSo if you give me a list of things you've done "in the past year," you may only give me a list of things you've done in the past month, and it's all the same to you? Sorry, I don't buy it. If I said "this past year being your BFF has been the best time of my life," I'm going to be referring to the last 10-12 months, not the past month or two.
DeleteWell, Michelle that is your prerogative to interpret things however you like. Only Trista, her partner, and whomever knows her personally would know exactly how long she has been in her current relationship. Again, I don't feel that Trista's current love life has anything to do with finding Ayla. MOO.
DeleteI don't think it does either, at least not in a pivotal way. It's interesting, though, and it is indicative of her mindset & ability to move onto a new man easily & quickly. But it has very little to do with Ayla... Except maybe that this is the life she was exposed to while in her mother's care. Even so, it was brought up, and you responded, I responded, etc. It's just part of the conversation we took part in. We disagree on what a year is. Big deal. I wasn't being pissy about it; I was just sharing my opinion, as you were. :)
DeleteIf you look back in pictures you can see that Alex is in pictures at the vigils over the past year. And Obscure was correct when he said Trista was pregnant before this current pregnancy however Trista miscarried. Moral of the story this relationship is not a new one. And people analyze Justin's behavior and say it is relevant. Shouldn't both parent's behavior be?
DeleteSo many times at a loss for words...if all true...how sad...and disconcerting. I know people will say she needs to move forward and who am I to judge....but this is just sad.
ReplyDeleteI just went to Trista's Facebook page and while I couldn't find the comments posted, I read her "about" on her profile:
ReplyDeleteI am a 24 year old mother to two beautiful children. I have had been through alot seen alot learned alot and sure have made my fair share of mistkes. But I learn from each and everyone of them. I graduated from South Portland High and want to go to college for Criminal Jusrtice. Right now I resied in Portland but would love to leave this city would like a change and fresh start.
SA anyone? Why no mention of wanting to be with Ayla but instead wanting a "fresh start?"
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DeleteTrista has at least three Facebook profiles:
https://www.facebook.com/trista.reynolds.10
https://www.facebook.com/trista.reynolds.12
https://www.facebook.com/trista.reynolds.52
It is on this page https://www.facebook.com/trista.reynolds.12?ref=ts&fref=ts
DeleteYou need to scroll down and maybe click see older stories. The date of the post is December 26
I went to that page and scrolled but it's still not showing for me. You may have a mutual friend and her permissions are set to friends of friends. Not doubting you, just saying I can't see it. But thanks for the link, maybe others can see it.
DeleteFYI: Whether it applies in this case or not--screenshots can easily be fabricated.
ReplyDeleteOf course.
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