My reaction to the press conference is no reaction. What does that even mean? Why say something like that, and then not get into what was actually said? Did Justin literally not say anything after he was told? I mean, come on!
How is Justin supposed to react to being told that it's highly unlikely Ayla will be found alive? That's the equivalent of MSP calling him-his sister--or his girlfriend a murderer, because they also continue to say she was not abducted. Justin maintains his innocence. How would you react to that?
It's not a homicide investigation, but it's highly unlikely that Ayla will be found alive.
We've never told either parent that Ayla is likely dead, yet we insist that the other alternatives have been ruled out. Sooo...what has MSP been questioning Justin about the whole time? A mysterious magic trick? Uhh, they've probably BEEN saying that Ayla is dead, and accusing him of her murder.
The 3 in the home have not told all they know. Now that includes people who may be "associated" with the home. Also, the 3 MAY have answers. If this is a homicide, then the 3 DO have answers, and McCausland could just come right out and say it.
This press conference was more of the same.
It is interesting that the reward fund is coming to an end. I guess the idea to increase it wasn't a good one after all, huh?
Are they making these announcements to lure someone into a false sense of security? Are they trying to let someone think that the heat is off of them? It doesn't take 5 months to analyze evidence. Surely there are ways to circumvent a backlog and get certain items to the front of the line?
If MSP had evidence that Ayla was dead, there would be charges. Period. If what has occurred in this case is "very evident" then every single investigator in this case should retire or resign. If it is so evident, how in the hell is an agency with $500,000+ being outsmarted by the DiPietros.
The moral of the story: tunnel vision sucks.
Wanted to add, people are saying McCausland was CRYSTAL clear in this press conference (despite not answering any investigative questions?). Well, he stated that speculation of charges is premature. Therefore, this blog is not going any where, and I'm not apologizing to Trista. I'm not shutting down. The only thing I'm sorry about is the fact that Ayla is missing and has still not been found.
Awesome points. Great post. I am not giving up finding Ayla ALIVE.
ReplyDeleteThank you. Hopefully MSP doesn't either.
DeleteNot much more can be said, Obscure. That's it in a nutshell. Other than one thing- he completely admitted that they have been focused on the same one-track-minded investigation since the beginning. When asked how this new statement might change the direction of the investigation thus far he said "Not at all" and that there is nothing that will be done any differently than what has been done for the past 166 days.
DeleteThanks for admitting that although you can't bring anyone up on charges, and that your evidence that Ayla wasn't abducted is that there is not evidence of an abduction, you have remained convinced that your culprit is a Dipietro and are going to continue sending divers into rivers until further notice.
I'll say it until I'm blue in the face. I am appalled that a law enforcement official or agency can state that they know what didn't happen to Ayla when they have not yet deciphered or proven what DID happen. That is absurd.
MSP- you don't know where Ayla is. You don't have proof of what happened to her. You don't have an admission from anyone. You don't have a sliver of evidence that proves death. You do have the absence of any evidence from a kidnapper. You took samples from the house over the course of weeks with people trampling in and out from day one with no protective footwear, moving things around, etc. And no one knows whether a single strand of DNA was left behind when someone walked into that house that night. Tell us why we should stop believing that Ayla might have been abducted. Tell us why. otherwise there is no reason to give up hope.
There is very little chance that my dog will live for another 15 years. but you can't tell me that he won't. So I will hope so and neither of us knows who is right.
There may well be little chance that Ayla will come home ALIVE. and my feeling is that the chance is small because the only PlACES YOU HAVE LOOKED are in the woods and rivers.
Broaden the search dummies.
This blog post has absolutely no meaning to it. Although I will agree, he wouldn't have a reaction if he has been accused by the police of knowing where she is. Which I do believe they have been doing.
ReplyDeleteThat being said, being a blog that likes to look at all options, why are you not concerned with the fact that LE can now publicly state that Ayla very likely will not be coming home alive? They say the evidence points to that direction, and they have found nothing to suggest otherwise. Doesn't it concern you at all that the cup of blood is true? After all, they've stated that they will not confirm or deny what Jeff and Trista released, but what other evidence would lead them to believe that she is dead? A 1/3 loss of blood would be a good start.
Also if you watched and listened, they are not commenting on anything to do with the investigation. I can guarantee they have evidence processed that has led them to their conclusions but he was not authorized to discuss this.
And not to mention the fact that he repeated over and over again that the three in the house know more than they are saying. Has he ever said that about Trista? He also stood by what they have been saying from the first few weeks - she WAS NOT abducted from the home. And if you listened like a really good girl, you would notice that he stated they would be back searching the Kennebec as the Messalonskee stream is behind the house and dumps off in the river.
I dont think this was to lure anyone into a sense of security - the exact opposite. He stated they will not give up until Ayla is home and urging the three in the house so get some morals. What does this tell you?! My god!
The three in the house MAY know more than what they are saying. Others associated with the house may have info as well.
Deleteum, was that anon watching the same press conference I was? The cup of blood was NOT confirmed to be true.
Deletethe police specifically said that the reason that they are making this statement is that "Nothing points towards an abduction". You may think it's mincing words, but it is a very different statment than 'We have evidence of her death."
Big difference.
Furthermore you stated this: "After all, they've stated that they will not confirm or deny what Jeff and Trista released, but what other evidence would lead them to believe that she is dead? A 1/3 loss of blood would be a good start."
that is an assumption. Let me ask you in return, if it is true, why would they not say it? They did state that the 4 drops belonged to Ayla, and that is a fact. The amount that they *have* attributed to belonging to Ayla *is* the 4 drops. If they were willing to state that, then why not state at this point, during a scheduled press conference, that in fact a full cup of blood was found? That would in no way hinder the investigation. Other blood was detected with Luminol, yes, but it was not confirmed as Ayla's while the 4 drops had been, and that was told to the family. If that has changed why not state that fact? Or EVEN state that evidence in the house has led them to believe she is dead. Instead, what he said, is that the lack of evidence of an abduction after all of the collecting of items from the house, is what leads them to their statement. On Tuesday they decided to announce this. Did they finally get that blood analyzed on Monday? No. It was done long ago. Therefore this press conference could have been held long ago.
You state that you can "I can guarantee they have evidence processed that has led them to their conclusions but he was not authorized to discuss this." So my question is how can you guarantee that? Are MSP giving out details to random members of the public and then leaving the public at large in the dark? or is a member of LE posting here? Either way, that's trouble. So since I think that most LE knows better, I'm going to have to assume that you *can't* actually guarantee that, and that you use that word liberally where it does not apply.
Last question for you. I want you to look at the very next person that you run into today and ask them if they are aware of where the next scheduled meeting between heads of state will occur. When they say "No." I want you to demand that they tell you where it's scheduled to happen. When they insist that they do not know, that knowledge of it is not in their head; ask yourself how you would know one way or another whether they in fact knew such a thing. Some people do know the answer to that. Many people do not know that answer.
If your answer is that you would know for sure if they took a polygraph and answered that question then you are out of luck. Because the reason those results can't be used in a court of law is that they are often incorrect. A person who is lying can clear themselves and a person who is telling the truth can come up as deceptive. In fact, some people who have multiple "issues" and are not medicating for them can get out of taking the polygraph altogether on that basis. The results would get botched.
I watched that press conference too, and at no point did McCausland urge them to go out and get some morals. -Jayne R.
wow Jayne R
DeleteThats the first time I have heard the amount "4 of drops" of blood, when did that come out?
DeleteYou are an idiot. The reason its not a homicide investigation is that they cant rule out whether it was an intentional death or accidental. In my opinion LE know what happened its obtaining that last bit of proof to confirm who did it out of the 3. Clearly they know she died in the house so the cupful of blood you disputed 50 gozillion times sounds like its true. So did an accient happen and it is being covered up? A homicide is death by willful cause. So they cant call it a homicide because the arent 100% sure by the blood eveidence whether it was intentional. Justin's silence again speaks volumes and the fact you still are blind to that is mind boggling to me. LE could not have been clearer so you need to stop and rewatch it. And what about all the abduction crap you spewed out every 5 minutes, no abduction for the 50th time. You have the ability to really get the word out with your blog and help justice be found. I pray that you see this finally for what it is and stop trying to undermine LE and disprove everything pointing in Justin's direction.
ReplyDeleteHomicide is homicide, there may be accidental homicides, criminal homicide, intentional homicide, or different degrees of homicide, but any time a person's death is caused by the action or inaction of another person it is HOMICIDE.
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why do you alway act so stupid 'obscure', or whatever name you're using today....you care nothing about this little girl, you're concern is that no one will read your blog anymore...but my daughter has a few more pimples on her face today...would you like to blog about that???
Delete"stop trying to undermine LE and disprove everything pointing in Justin's direction".
DeleteWhy?
Officially, an autopsy needs to be completed and a means of death needs to be put on the autopsy report. Regardless of which manner or murder the Dips used, it still needs to be verified by autopsy and not blog opinion.
DeleteAnon- this is why we don't like when people like you come around. Someone who expresses their take on something and can respectfully discuss it is welcomed. But people like you storm in and call those that disagree with themselves "an idiot". Obscure said nothing to you, and said nothing that makes him/her deservign of the lable "idiot". this is their perspective on what was gained or said during the news conference. I have a high paying job and a masters degree and am a community leader, among other things. I am usually humble but I say this to make the following point: I often agree with Obscure. My perspective is often close or identical, but not in all cases thus far. And in my lifetime I have not been accused of being an idiot to my knowledge, by anyone who would be in a position to gauge that.
Deletewhy is everyone who sees things differently than you "an idiot" according to you. I am sorry to tell you that you should be holding that mirror up to yourself. If Mccausland wanted to call it a homicide case he could have. He wouldn't have had to specify any further.
Here's something that does seem idiotic. He stood on that platform and said point blank that no abduction occurred. He said that there is no evidence OF an abduction, therefore that is why they state that there wasn't one. Well, that's incorrect use of logic but moving on... He also said that they do not believe that Ayla will be found alive. And yet, given that he's effectively ruled out anything else, he does NOT call it a homicide, he does NOT say that she is dead or that they have evidence that she is dead.
Now, if you know (truly know, as in you are LE) that there is no way that Ayla is still alive, that doesn't make the rest of the people who are interpreting what they heard today "idiots" or "stupid". And is Becca or Ron commenting here? Just curious.
On that topic....Obscure did NOT begin that conversation about the pimples!! lol. Obscure only wrote that blog post at all because it was very interesting that Jeff immediately came out with an explanation for something that no one asked about. And as Trista is a known addict, it's fair to ask. After all, people have no issue at all with speculating all kinds of things about the Dipietros and all their friends that are 100% false. Despite that the haters go around saying whatever the hell they want to about people they don't even know. Stating it as fact even! Trying to ruin businesses and livlihoods! Just because they feel like it. And you take issue with a blogger commenting about someones pimples because the blogger picked up on the odd statements from said person's spokesperson?? Huh.
-yb
OMG S., exactly what I was about post!
Delete"stop trying to undermine LE and disprove everything pointing in Justin's direction".
Wow, what a statement!!
signed: getrealpeople
ssd - Last week in California a man was arrested for the kidnapping and murder of Sierra LaMar without her body.
Delete-yb, well-written post, thank you
@-yb
DeleteITA
yb,
DeleteThank you for expressing my sentiments. You said it much beeter than I could have.
It truly is a case of tunnel vision. They're so clearly looking in one direction only. If they have evidence, they're analyzing it with a slant. I could see it in Steve's demeanor when he said they contacted each parent before the news conference. They're not being objective, and they're openly revealing their biases. Not good at all. Of course that'll only feed the hatred toward the DiPietro family. That's not at all fair to Ayla.
ReplyDeleteIndeed.
DeleteMichelle? HAHAHA. Talking to yourself again?
DeleteOMG, thank you! I can now see. So, now that my head is out of my ass, help me out here. I should blame Justin & hope for a dead Ayla just so I can say I was right, right?! Oh, it's SO good to have no hope. How will I ever repay you for your unending kindness?
Deletelol Michelle. Again and again they answer their own questions. They ask why we don't "listen" to their views when they come to this blog and it's for obvious reasons. Their views are incoherant, rude, and offensive. They don't try to discuss, they call anyone who disagrees with themselves an idiot. And THEN, beyond belief, they go back to their blogs and chat rooms and lament over how we talk to ourselves here and attack others who express their views. Uh? See comments above for examples!
DeleteSooo...
In response to your thoughts Michelle, I agree. If MSP knows she is dead they should say so and make an arrest. It really is a disservice to Ayla if they do not KNOW she is dead for them to say anything along the lines of what they said today, in my opinion. It only further complicates everything. They effectively use their words to indicate that people should drop their hopes, but if you listen to every word said they never confirm a death, they say that it is way premature to think about bringing anyone up on charges, and that Justin is as free to go where he chooses as anyone of us. The contradiction is they express that justin knows more than he's said. Well if so, and if you are certain that the only place you should be searching for Ayla is in rivers and woods, then you ought to be arresting someone.
I can't imagine if my child were missing and although there weren't proof of them being dead I heard that LE was looking at it that way and had no hope of finding her alive. I can't imagine how I would feel if they flat out told me that they were always looking at it from that standpoint and that their search had always been focused in that direction. (McCausland absolutely said it, in response to a reporter that asked how this statement today would or might change the direction of the investigation and search.) He was clear that nothing had changed and they would continue the same kind of searches in the same areas. I know that even though she is not my child it drives me nuts.
I would be dismayed to get the call saying we're going to keep searching woods and rivers. It would piss me off if they said "we don't know that she's dead, but we're going to continue to not search for a living child somewhere in a home here or elsewhere. Because basically if someone abducted her they didn't leave behind a note. And also, we don't like the family that she lived with and they don't pass our straight face test." As a citizen it angers me because absence of evidence isn't evidence. And if they know they are right, then they need to say it and let things proceed from that point. Otherwise they are creating, as they have for months, an incredible amount of distress to a lot of people needlessly. this is not a robbery case, it's a missing toddler. approach it that way. People care.
Jayne R.
You clearly are here to stir the pot and do not care about Ayla or either family.. No one is this stupid to ignore the facts.
ReplyDeleteWe are all entitled to our opinions. If you think this is stirring the pot, fine. The exit is that way ---->
DeleteWe are all entitled to our opinions, blah, blah, blah.....
DeleteYes, your opinion is blah, blah, blah...but you are entitled to it nonetheless...
DeleteI can picture Obscure sitting at her computer with a bottle next to her. The only time she goes out of the house is to go to the store for more drink. . . .. what a life you must live OBSCURE
DeleteYour picture is not becoming at all, but probably matches what is inside. . . . .
Deletelol. <3
DeleteAnon, I have to ask... do you realize that our entire nation is built, in a way, on the premise that we are indeed all entitled to our opinions?
Would you feel comfortable with someone taking that all away...because they think that their own opinions and views are so fool-proof that no one else needs to think for themselves or apply their own logic? If so, you scare me. If not, then you are a hypocrite. -yb
So, then why comment and feed the monster?
ReplyDeleteHello....McCausland stated Justin is NOT a suspect. Trista is thankful because that is what she has wanted people to believe all along. Let's go back a little bit when Justin was suppose to give Ayla back to Trista on October 22nd, yet Ayla was still there on December 16th. If that had been my child and she was not returned to me when it was agreed upon, I would've have gone and done what it took to get her back, not wait two months. No, that's right, I have no sympathy for Trista but my heart breaks that an innocent baby girl was subjected to ignorance.
ReplyDeleteNo true.....no one has been ruled outas a suspect.
Deletecan't you read....McCausland would not say whether DiPietro, or anyone else, is or is not considered a suspect in Ayla’s disappearance. But McCausland did say that DiPietro is free to leave town.
DeleteWell, I don't know whether you're right or not, anon #2 (please pick a name people!) He did not state that. what he did state is that They have not named any suspect. Therefore, You are not a suspect, I am not a suspect, Justin is not a suspect. :)
Deletethat might later change, and I expect that at some point they will name a suspect. But right now, they have only said that there is no named suspect. Jayne R.
I believe McCausland said they have not named any suspects and have not ruled anyone out.
DeleteI believe that McCausland stated at least 3 times that;
ReplyDeleteTHIS IS A MISSING PERSONS INVESTIGATION!!!!
& we all know his favorite number is 3. I'm beginning to doubt whether or not he can count any higher than that...lol jk
DeleteYes, but he did not state a living person.
DeleteHe also did not say it's a missing dead person investigation. What's your point?
DeleteIt was stated numerous times that this is a CRIMINAL investigation where FOUL PLAY was involved and that ALL evidence points to Ayla being found deceased,they also said numerous times that the 3 adults in the home have not been forthcoming with information ...and that she was 100% not abducted from that home... seriously how much clearer can they be? I watched the PC in full without interuption.... apparently some people here did not !
Deletelets go thru this one more time....when they call it a MISSING PERSONS INVESTIGATION...then state that they believe she will not be found 'alive'....they are hoping that individuals can surmise that they mean a 'MISSING BODY INVESTIGATION'....WITHOUT HAVING TO SPELL IT OUT FOR YOU....
Deletegod bless the people on here that want so badly for this little baby to be found alive, that we cling to every word that might help us to hold on....but come on....its five months later...she's gone and we have to face the fact that we were wrong...I for one, feel like a fool for thinking she would come home...i was ridiculed so many times on Tori's blog for stating that, I lost count...the fact is...she's gone...the facts are right in front of us...stop twisting and disecting statements to make it appear that there is some conspiracy going on...are we doing that for Ayla or ourselves??? because the thought of her being dead is so heartbreaking for us to consume..
DeleteI watched the PC in it's entirety as well.
DeleteIt's obvious that you heard things I didn't.
A missing body investigation...that is a new one on me.
Deletehttp://bangordailynews.com/2012/05/31/news/mid-maine/police-highly-unlikely-ayla-reynolds-will-be-found-alive/......go ahead...laugh at the conspiracy....
DeleteNobody, nobody is laughing about anything.
DeleteYes. It is a missing person. Know why? CUS THE DIPS HID THE BODY. Until the body is found, Ayla is "missing." Common sense really. Once Ayla is found, the Dips will be arrested for murder and we can all watch the pack of losers lie their asses off some more thru their defense attorneys on Court TV every day. Then we can laugh our asses off every night watching Nancy Grace rip those scumbags apart. The BEST part will be Nancy quoting Justin's invitation to "come visit him" and spend the day with him (mind you without Ayla because he killed her) to see what kind of a guy he really is... then he chickened out when she called him on it. LOL, life is gonna be good again for Ayla and her maternal family.
DeleteThanks anon. We watched the Press conference. Day late, dollar short but thanks.
DeleteOkay, to the anon that said this:
"lets go thru this one more time....when they call it a MISSING PERSONS INVESTIGATION...then state that they believe she will not be found 'alive'....they are hoping that individuals can surmise that they mean a 'MISSING BODY INVESTIGATION'....WITHOUT HAVING TO SPELL IT OUT FOR YOU...."
Why would we have to guess what they mean when they had 3 days to nail down exactly what they meant for this scheduled news release? they stated the decision for this PC was made on Tuesday and that what they were going to say was decided on tuesday. They had the opportunity to state it any way they wished. We are analyzing what the DID say, not what you think that they meant. :) -yb
Anonymous
DeleteYou are very see through. You are straight off the pages of Tori's blog. Anyone who has believed that Ayla is alive is not convinced that she no longer is based on today's news conference. It was nothing new. A child can be missing for years and still be alive. So the time that she is missing has nothing to do with her being MORE dead. She is either dead or she is not. Based on evidence or no evidence. Where is that evidence? It is still not there. Until it is the people who believe Ayla is alive will continue to believe.
ssd - trying to understand your comment... you foresee Ayla's body being found, the Dips arrested for murder, watching the trial on Court TV, laughing your ass off every night watching Nancy Grace rip them apart, and then somehow "LOL, life is gonna be good again for Ayla and her maternal family." I understood what you were saying up until "laugh our asses off" and then nothing after that.
DeleteSad face.
ReplyDeleteNot really.
haha
At least you are fully aware that you are a monster. Am I seeing hope in your soul?
ReplyDeleteAnd yet you still come to this blog to read and comment. Wishing death on a person shows your maturity level. I think you should go back to your friends sandbox.
ReplyDeleteNo Anon, because Obscure would first need to have a soul.
ReplyDelete@ Obscure
ReplyDelete" Therefore, this blog is not going any where, and I'm not apologizing to Trista. I'm not shutting down. The only thing I'm sorry about is the fact that Ayla is missing and has still not been found. "
Thank you.
Well, that was refreshing, anon - it's usually Justin's dick that gets suggested. Good to see someone thinking outside the box. Might Lance, Bob Vear, and Justin's uncle Larry also get a turn?
DeleteHave to ask Justin, er Obscure that question. If they have a buck, Im sure he will comply!
DeleteAnon, I see your argument contains a lot of swear words... you must really know what you're talking about!
ReplyDeleteto anon....let it go...we have tried to make them understand what LE is saying about the baby....if they choose not to believe it...then just let it go...we need to step away from this blog...they will find her body...there will be arrests...let them think about the foolish posts they have written...lets just walk away...
ReplyDeleteDont let the door hit you in the tookis on yer way out anons. Oh and can you close it behind you and lock it. That may help keep the others out.
Deleteanon with the Bangor Daily News link - thank you for posting that.
ReplyDeleteI took notes from the livestream for my husband who was at work:
- It is highly unlikely that Ayla will be found alive.
- It is believed the 3 in the house and (or?) others associated with the house know more than what they are saying.
- They are naming no suspects; no one has been ruled out.
- It is way premature to speculate about charging anyone.
- They will not discuss the blood or the items found in the river or any other details.
- "We've been very clear for several months, shed was not abducted from that home."
- "This is a missing persons case until determined otherwise."
- "Justin is as free as you and I are."
Interesting choice of words. What was in the shed Justin?
DeleteI hate these kinds of comments. They add nothing to the conversation. Go away. You don't know this blogger and you are idiotic to come here and tell her what you know is "all" she cares about. Your assumptions about why this blogger looks at the case unfolding and comments about it are nothing more than assumptions.
ReplyDeleteFurthermore, your comments show that all YOU care about is yourself and winning. You are clearly one of those people who is pissed that anyone is allowed to have their own perspectives and opinions. Go live in North Korea. You'll be happy there.
Like it or not, your anger that someone can disagree with you has driven you to come here and bicker, not discuss. your taking action and commenting about it on this blog shows that you have chosen a side and are only vested in conversing to the degree that you would if you were a fan of the green bay packers giving grief to a fan of the steelers. No meat to it, just "I'm better than you because I said so."
Anon, here's a bone for you. If you believe that one of the Dipietros murdered Ayla, you might be right. I admit that.
Now, carry on and go away. Because what we are doing is discussing how things appear to us. Based on life experience, other cases, and logic. We are not saying that it is not possible that our general belief is incorrect. We are discussing the case here and elsewhere because we've yet to hear something substantial that makes us think that we are, in fact, incorrect. We are following the case because we (1) are devastated that a little girl is missing and that some people, meaning all who don't know where she is, are suffering. (2) are concerned for Ayla's safety and (3) most of us are perplexed at the seeming lack of logic and lack of applicati on of the justice system so we're talking about it. If none of these things apply to you then you really don't belong here. Find another blog. Tori will have you dear. Run along.
I would miss you Obscure. I would not miss anyone like that commenter who thinks you aren't entitled to have a perspective and thinks that verbal abuse and filthy language and wishes for your death are appropriate responses to reading a blog post from someone with their own opinion. :/
ReplyDeleteI hate reading through stuff like that but I also think that letting them post it, and then comparing it to the things they say on their own "turf" is incredibly telling. The compare and contrast is like black and white. it's not about who is right and who is wrong in their general leaning or solid opinion about what happened to Ayla. No, the black and white is everything to do with the caliber of people and the disgusting behavior they think is normal. Not only do they not see hypocrisy or the unfairness in their behavior; but they hold themselves up on pedestals for it. It's really disturbing. You should see/hear all of what they've said and done all these months to people they don't even know. It's beyond unbelievable that adults behave this way. People who chose to believe ayla may be alive, and who chose to believe that the Dipietros may well know nothing about her whereabouts are attacked and their livelihoods are the focus of repeated internet boycotting and assaults. They have maps to their homes posted, their personal identities are exposed and in the process when these creeps get it wrong they expose the wrong people who ultimately have nothing to do with the case. They are called every evil name in existence and all for simply having an opinion about whether a missing child is abducted or dead. I really thought I lived in a better society than this. -Marla S.
Anon above who says that we're clinging to words to help us hold on- okay maybe we are. There is still no reason not to. It is still an unsolved case. And so we will. If you have given up then I think it's best if you don't join in the conversations. Only because it's clearly going to rip you apart inside to see people discussing it any further. You're welcome here, obviously, and I think I speak for the majority when I say that I'm not opposed to people having different points of view. But what I am opposed to is that when *you* decide that your point of view has changed that the rest of us must also. If you can't respect our outlooks anymore (and from your pleas with us to "give it up" it seems as though you can't) then you will probably run into issues here. Because I will listen to statements that are in disagreement with me but I will not listen to people telling me that they've done the thinking for me and that if I haven't come to their conclusion I should, and if I do not, that I'm an idiot. Best regards.
ReplyDeleteMarla S.
nicely said, Marla
Deletewow...marla is a mind reader...she can tell what everyone is thinking and she speaks for the majority...speak for yourself and yourself only...you totally missed the point of what the post was stating and please don't feign interest in other peoples point of view...you accused the person of trying to change your mind when they simply were stating what was on theirs...
DeleteHow could you watch the Reynolds family reaction and not feel her pain as a mother? My reaction was to swallow the knot in my throat and shed a tear for that poor woman. Her pain was palpable! It's unbelievable that you and others here continue to slander the victims in this case in order to uphold the disgusting excuse for a human being JD! He is an opportunistic baby killer! He and all those in that house have blood on their hands and their day will come.
ReplyDeleteOh yes, I bet you shed a tear when you watch sad movies too. Give that girl an Oscar.
DeleteYou are a total douche and I refuse to believe you dont know anyone on the paternal side anymore. I also do not believe you are a female or a mother. You sound like a bitter deadbeat dad to me. I bet your sins are many. BTW this blog might make you feel better but it sickens many many more. You freekin TOOL!!!!
ReplyDeleteDing ding ding, we have a winner!
DeleteSee, some people KNOW who you are.
You can refuse to believe that, but I know the Paternal side and not one of them or any of us know who this blogger is. So what you 'know' and what the truth is are surprisingly [insert sarcasm] at odds.
Delete[But we appreciate you Obscure. I could do with less of the blog wars crap, but I realise it's in response to what the other side has done to many people, with no provocation... It's the insight and cut-through-the-crap ability that draws me back in every time.]
Guess what Raquel: Trista says that her support system is non existant and she has no friends left now, that says something about what most people who know her think of her character. Sad but true. And in contrast those that have rallied around the entire Dipietro family and their friends have done so because of knowledge of their characters, to what degree is possible. People don't have to be perfect and without faults to be known to have a decent set of morals and a pretty good compass at work. So Justin and Lance may not have perfect track records in life, but people that have known them for years are working their butts off trying to help find Ayla. They are believed to not be capable of doing something horrible to a child. Friends of those friends, even, have gotten involved and been attacked. And guess what??!! They too are known well by their social groups who are are now seeing the nonsense crap that is posted about their friends. It discredits EVERYTHING else that gets said. Because good people are being accused left and right of being evil and needing to be brought up on made up charges.
Guess what we've seen from Trista? she has a family full of criminals. Her fiance and father of her 1 yr old and his mother are criminals. Trista's friends are criminals. The people who came out in support of her mostly didn't know her at all, and have created a new persona for her. And irony of irony...most of those strangers are turning out to also be criminals! Who'd of thunk it? (like you said, like attracts like.)
Trista has issues with child protective services that are just barely being brushed upon. Trista has said that she wishes she had the support network Justin has. (She appears to have not built a sufficient one for herself.) She has not done good things with her life, and while I certainly believe that there is always hope for every person to turn things around- let's at least address what *IS* with Trista if you all are going to address the *rumors* you've HEARD about Justin. She is an alcoholic. Is a drug user. Is not a truth teller, no matter how much her new found supporters want to rearrange the things she has said to make them sound less like lies. All of the things they accuse their opposition of are exactly what they have to do to keep their train somewhat on the tracks.
So Really. Let's just Stop The Lies.
Thanks for the rambling love fest there. I didnt claim to take a side. My words were about the blogger not either parent. But since you opened the door.....Justin is everything Trista is. A drunk a liar a drug abuser. Thats how they wound up with a child after a one night stand duh"!! Both bad parents no doubt.
DeleteHmmmmm a male Tudela perhaps??? But def NOT a female or a Mother Im certain.
ReplyDeleteWell Raquel
DeleteI am a mother and a grandmother, and I don't know a single person in the paternal family, nor any friends of their's.
My thoughts and opinions on todays PC are pretty closely aligned with the blog writer. So I guess I'm a douche too, but I'm not a deadbeat dad, that's for sure.
The Tudela men are fantastic fathers so that rules out your dead beat dad theory :)
DeleteSays you. Birds of a feather Try again. Why would fantastic fathers associate with the likes of Justin? What is really going on with the assosiation of these VERY different families? The relationship does not mke much sense to me.
DeleteI do know the Tudelas. People who know this family admire and love them. They are people that if you're friends with them you *want* people to know it. Upbeat, kind, compassionate, and everyone knows it. So what sucks for Raquel is that she lives in a world where her assumptions=fact. But thanks Raquel for posting that, so that everyone from Portland to Rockland to Winslow to Waterville and beyond who have known the Tudelas for years and are reading all this "public opinion" of the CASE and wondering if there's a reason they are so vehemently against Justin.... can go 'OH. Well, then no, public opinion from random strangers doesn't mean jack shit. I have known the Tudelas for ___years and think they are some of the best people I know. If random people "see" things that are not true, and are posting them online as if they are "obvious facts", then that discredits all the "obvious" things that they see about Justin and his family." So thanks Raquel. Keep it coming. the people that you all are talking about are known by MANY and it makes it that much easier to discredit everything else you all say. :D
Deletetool is right.... they want to torment Trista and she offered up a forum...
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