So what is important? I think it is very important to recall the
Is this normal behaviour? Are these the actions of an innocent man? I
But as Justin always says, "right now isn't the right time."
5.15.2012
I Corrected This For You. Thank Me Later! xoxo
Why is it that certain people are so quick to judge call out Trista based
on her past mistakes when Justin continues to make has made mistakes and show shown a
total disregard for his family, friends, and most importantly, his
daughter AYLA bullshit blogs and media hype? We are all well aware that Trista was once is an alcoholic.
We are all well aware that she needs to date make babies better men when she becomes a better woman. (Obviously.)
Yes. She has made some mistakes in her life. Has she corrected them?
I'd say so no. Has she learned from them? I honestly think she has. I think
the fact rumor alone that Justin, the father of Trista's child, abused Ayla
and lost her while she was in his custody is enough of a learning
experience for story to turn public opinion against anyone. However, what does any of this have to do with
anything? Anyone with a brain could tell you that
these minuscule details involving Trista's past are completely obsolete
and not at all important relevant to determine the circumstances surrounding Ayla's ABDUCTION.
So what is important? I think it is very important to recall thefacts rumors that have been discussed ad nauseum and not confirmed or backed up by law enforcement:
the abuse, the blood, the life insurance policy. It is very important to
keep in mind that Phoebe Trista lied about her exact location the night day Ayla
went missing. It is very important to keep in mind that Justin has done
absolutely nothing work behind the scenes and out of the spotlight to find his daughter or and offer support and help in the
search for Ayla. It is very important to keep in mind that the entire
DiPietro family has been silent spoken out at one time or another. except to insult the police and
ridicule them and the public. It is very important to keep in mind that
Justin has not made the effort to put up a single numerous posters for Ayla.
Justin has not made the effort to speak publicly about his daughter,
like Trista has. Justin has not made a single effort to discuss lie about certain
discrepancies involving this case online, like Trista (and Jeff !) has. Justin has not done anything everything to find Ayla.
Is this normal behaviour? Are these the actions of an innocent man? I
don't think so. I would think that an innocent man who loves and misses
his daughter would be is doing everything he could can possibly think of to
find her and help bring her home.
But as Justin always says, "right now isn't the right time."
So what is important? I think it is very important to recall the
Is this normal behaviour? Are these the actions of an innocent man? I
But as Justin always says, "right now isn't the right time."
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Thanks for fixing it for whoever.
ReplyDeleteI agrre with the corrections.
Out of every blog you have ever written, this is the one someone needs to hand(not send) MSP. Go ahead and try to dispute a single thing that was corrected. If you want to Ayla's Angels, then be Ayla's Angels, rather than Hell's Angels! I challenge you to step outside of your damn clique and look at the FACTS. There aren't many of them. Now look at statements. Justin doesn't explain himself all the time. Why? He doesn't have a lie to cover up every lie to cover up every lie he's been caught in, like some people. You..Angels..have turned a little girl's beautiful name and her beautiful face into an object . Yes..a fucking object. If you spent half the time helping as you do hurting, we would be in much better shape. You're spewing hatred toward a blogger who knows no one. Not Trista, Not Justin. Go back to the beginning. There was no finger pointing. There was no blame. As time went by, and Trista CONSTANTLY changed her story, and Jeff CONSTANTLY changed the 'timeline', bullshit flags went up for a lot of us. I don't doubt Trista is a good person. I'm not even saying she's a bad mother. I've seen the way she looks at her babies and you cannot fake that. However, the risk of her babies being taken away was a very real scenario. Being a mother myself, I cannot imagine how broken her heart was..how scared she was. She is a human and she makes mistakes. We all are, but I do believe it is more than possible that fear drove her to drastic measures. Come on.. Look at Trista..Look at Justin. NEITHER would ever want any harm to come to their daughter. Justin was never a bad guy until Jessica, Amanda Benner and Sandy Shepard MADE him a bad person. A grieving mother and an abusive dad? The media ate that shit right up, but it's about to spit it all out, too.
ReplyDeleteThe lies will become harder to cover. The nights will become longer. The speculation will grow stronger on Trista. It already is.
Trista, whether it was your idea or not, you need to do the right thing. I understand it got out of hand..I do. There is nothing that can match a mother's love but is this the life you want for Ayla? The spring is leading into summer, and she just wants to go to the park and be carefree.
There has been a lot of time and money put into finding Ayla, but more importantly there are a lot of broken hearts.
It is time to do the right thing. It is time to be a mother, Trista. There will be consequences, sure..but you're not going to death row. You'll be responsible for part of a very hefty bill. But, I give you my word that I will personally begin a fund to help pay it off. You're not a villain. Your family members are not villains. You are were simply a terrified mother who was doing whatever she could in the moment to keep her baby...and it snowballed way out of control. You don't want to see innocent people's lives ruined(even more) because of this. If we find Ayla(and we WILL find Ayla) before you decide to step up, there isn't a judge in the world who will EVER let you see her again. You don't want that. I know you don't.
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DeleteExcellent comment. I could never have articulated it so well.
I totally agree- this needs to be given directly to McClausland. They have been so jaded by the rumors spread by the Reynolds Clan, Ayla's "Angels", Tori "I don't actually know ANY facts but like to make up shit left and right" Gifford and all of the other people trying to sway not only LE but the general public.
DeleteThis blog is fantastic. It tells the TRUTH. I know that upsets the "others"...oh well! I can't imagine living in such an altered state that I truly believe lies over FACTS. Sad. Sad. Sad.
Keep it up- you're doing a great job!!
I agree. But then again, we're all just JSTL taking to him/herself, so of course I agree, LOL! So laughable & ridiculous.
DeleteOops...I forgot to specifically give a shout out to Jeff. You know, the ignorant, narcissistic, attention monger. Jeff is a total SHAM. He never gave a damn about Ayla, Trista, Ray or ANY of the kids/grandkids until he realized he was missing out on his 15 minutes of fame. He NEVER supported them emotionally OR financially. Also- he hasn't had a REAL marriage with Trista's mom in YEARS.
DeleteWhew...I feel better!
@ Nice work
DeleteI have suspected that Jeff was this way from the beginning.
By the way, when was the last time Jeff saw Ayla? I've never seen a picture of him with Ayla...
DeleteI don't know Anon. Say, when was the last time Selena saw Ayla? Ohhhh that's right, she never has. Interesting that SHE is not accused of inserting herself into the case for, what did you call it.... 15 minutes of fame? So Jeff starts a website to help find Ayla, organizes a vigil for Ayla to keep awareness of her in the media... and Selena... umm.... bashes people and makes little smiley faces on a blog. Huh... So who cares if Selena does that, she has a right. But really you are going to call out Jeff? Those things around your face preventing you from seeing anything are called blinders. You should consider taking them off.
DeleteHi pot kettle. I have to point something out that you might be unaware of. We're going to disagree on the "why" behind this so let's just agree to disagree and move on to the point...
DeleteTrista has been in Jeffs life for 18 yrs he says.
Trista has been Aylas mom for 2 years. She had physical custody of Ayla for the first 18 months.
Justin knew Ayla was his when she was 7 months old after tristas fiance, the man who named Ayla, went to prison for burning down a building full of people.
For nearly a year all of Justins visits wih Ayla were at Tristas place and on her terms only. Justin never took Ayla anywhere with him until a weekend in the summer of 2011. Tori uses a profile pic that came from this outing if you want to referemce it. :)
Therefore Justin had November and December to have Selena meet Ayla. Those months are busy in my life amd I can imagine that there are good reasons a visit had yet happened for the GREAT AUNT.
In contrast Jeff is Aylas grandfather and had 18 months to meet her. :) so why hadn't he? It's odd. -v
I agree Throwingahailmary. Trista loves Ayla. I thinks she loves her children. Maybe she panicked after going to file for parental rights and not receiving the news she thought she would and in her panicked thoughts went and got Ayla which was her right to do. She just did not go about it the right way. And she thought Justin would just call her and when he called the police instead it all snowballed out of control for her. If this is true she can still make it right. Ayla does not stand a chance in the life she has now. What good mom could possibly want that for their child? Everyone tells Justin to fess up and tell us where she is this has gone on too long. Maybe they are all speaking to the wrong person. In the meantime making it okay for that person to live in this society and not ever have to make it right. Have any of these people even thought about how their actions are affecting the outcome? By judging one and convicting they are maybe giving the real person who took Ayla a free pass. And Ayla is the one who suffers for that. Theories are one thing. Possibilities. But condemning and then closing the door on any and all other possibilities. So sad for Alya.
ReplyDeleteI agree Open he doors.
DeleteThe Reynolds have a family member that worked at the Social Security administration for 30 years. I continued to wonder how they planned on getting a valid social for her but then I realized it's not hard to do.
DeleteWhomever originally wrote this, I understand your desire to protect those you care about. I do too. It's different for those who are not related to the people involved or to those who are unbiased to this case.
ReplyDeleteMatter of fact, not all people, including myself were "quick" to judge Trista in the beginning when this story broke...except for the FACT that her stories, fairy tales, and fables were too soon to disprove our initial judgements demolished by lies and inconsistencies. Yes, I was wrong in making my original opinions based on Trista as the victim, and believing her finger pointing tactics at Justin and his family (which were secured by the false sense of the media coverage). Sure it was easy to hear certain aspects of blood (4 drops), insurance and abuse....except that none of those things have panned out. There was no abuse, the life insurance is legit, and the blood...evidence?? Really? 4 drops from a cut? And where is motive? I don't believe for a second that someone commits cold blooded calculated murder without some motive. I've long moved past my mistakes, have learned by them, owned up to them, and will continue to follow the path that leads to the truth, one that by logic and reason point in a very different direction, towards a dysfunctional and corrupt family. Backed up by statistics which shows Ayla has a 99% chance of being alive and 1% that she is deceased.
BY THE WAY, What percent of parents and/or family members, friends, relatives etc..do you think (publicly) choose to believe and state they believe their child to be dead...just months after she is absent? Is that just a fault of their dysfunction too? Or is it something else...something that shows their desire for her to be gone...for a reason.
Justin's efforts you question? Sure...I understand. You don't know what he is doing b/c he hasn't told *you.* I am fortunate enough to know otherwise, and yes that helps me have faith in my own logic and beliefs, but even if I didn't know all that was going on behind the scenes, I still wouldn't reflect my opinions and what *I* think on what Justin actually should or shouldn't be doing. Dan Abrams of ABC News just this week made a comment that I believe is very true, (in reference to the Isabel Celis case) that, "does not believe how someone deals with the media and the public is that significant."
The DiPietro family has ridiculed and insulted LE? Ok, maybe you can say that, b/c of specific statements made, but why have they done so? Let's think about why? Maybe because they feel they are being accused of something they *didn't* do. Maybe there is some sort of history with MSP that we don't know about...there are lots of reasons for why people do things. The point is you need to have an open mind and not just come to your own conclusion.
Long post, you never mention Ayla once.
DeleteUm, I did. She has a 99% chance of being alive...something you have a hard time believing. The rest of the post is in direct reference to the original post above, which happens to be about exactly what I was discussing, whether or not I use her name, you can have no doubt that everything I do on here, which is small in comparison to behind the scenes, is for Ayla. She is my drive and bringing her home is my passion. Matter of fact, AYLA never really leaves my mind. :) Unfortunately there are a lot of roadblocks on the way created by certain people that need to be addressed from time to time. I agree that the focus should be finding Ayla though. Have a nice day!
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•Never disagree with the blogs owner. Disagreeing with them deletes your post.
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Blogging about a Missing Loved One
•Never make a post without including the loved ones names an undisclosed amount. The ratio of words and the name of the loved one are counted by other bloggers. You will be deemed an unloving, selfish and uneducated bitch. (Note to blogger: Depending on who is deeming you as such, you could be named other things, such as, crazy , a drunkard and a straw snorter.
•Never defend or comfort the loved one’s parents, as this shows that you have no feelings toward the missing loved one.
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•Always call the bloggers who back their shit up every vulgar, mean and nasty thing you can think of, as this will up your status with other bloggers and the blog owner.
•Never believe facts given by LE, unless it backs up your opinion.
•Never believe, for one instant, that the media isn’t out to make money any way they can.
•Never believe that there are people out there more educated than you in ANY area or subject.
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DeleteHaHa
DeleteWell said, Selena!
DeleteGood one Selena!! Right on!
Deletesigned: getrealpeople
Trista possibly could get a discharge of any amounts owed for rescue services by filing for bankruptcy after the bill is assessed. The money should be the least of her worries. She needs to straighten this mess out now before she causes any more distress to Ayla and all of her relatives and the community in general. Trista does not want to go down as the biggest liar in Maine history. She needs to adopt a more responsible approach and focus on bringing this situation to a mature, reasonable resolution.
ReplyDeleteAnother great post, Obscure! :)
ReplyDeletesigned: getrealpeople
If Trista does know where Ayla is, I have to think that she hasn't been able to see her. How terrible. It's been 5 months, almost, and Ayla will soon be forgetting, if she hasn't already, the face, voice, smell and touch of her mama. How incredibly sad that Trista is doing to herself and Ayla what she has accused DHHS and Justin of doing to her. She is separating them and Ayla will forget. I only hope that this ends soon before it's too late and there are too many people involved who will not risk Ayla being found for their own freedom. Ask for help, Trista. Hurry, before it's too late and it's out of your hands. Where is Ayla? Who has her? Will they give her back to you? Will they risk their own freedom so that you can be with Ayla? Ask for help! Call MSP! Call Justin! Call someone who can help you get Ayla home safely and the rest will work itself out. Please, before Ayla forgets who she is and where she belongs.
ReplyDeleteI've been thinking the same thing, Hold the Beef Broth. I also think Trista's selfishness and jealousy are so great, they overpower her love for Ayla.
DeleteI hope Trista sees your comment.
signed: getrealpeople
I agree with everything said above. If there is even a chance that Trista had anything to do with this, a chance that she will see this or hear about it Trista do the right thing for your daughter. She must miss her mommy. She must be forgetting who she is who all the people she knew were. Children her age start to adapt. Their new life becomes their strongest connection. She will begin to forget who she was and that is so sad. The problem with that is that someday she will remember. And that is even sadder.
DeleteActually, if I were Trista, and innocent in knowing where/what happened to my daughter, I would try *a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g* under the sun to find her including taking the stance of the "other side" - aka those who support the fact that Ayla was taken from her bed by someone and who believes someone in her family/or fiance's family may have played a role in this. It would be hard to feel as if I was going against the very people that supposedly loved me, but in fact, with all the dysfunction, I would have my doubts about some of these people in my life anyway...knowing that I want the best for me and my children above anything else. Even if it meant being on my own two feet and standing independent of them, if it led me to Ayla, you better believe I would try it. If it didn't, well then at least you can tell Ayla one day that you tried absolutely everything possible to find her. At this point, anything is worth a shot right?
DeleteI'm curious... does anyone know if blood or urine testing is done to see if there's any evidence of adults being under the influence when a child goes missing? I would think that could or should be standard protocol.
ReplyDeleteI believe that it's very possible Ayla was removed from the house by someone else; however, I'm having a hard time reconciling that Justin was afraid someone would take her but yet left her in a room by herself, where he could hear nothing, and left the door unlocked. Granted, a locked door wouldn't stop a person with true intent, but keeping her downstairs with him likely would have.
Ayla was in a room she shared with her cousin most nights. And her Aunt & Grandma could hear them from across the hall if they made a noise. If Ayla cried out her Aunt would get her and bring her to Justin. Works as well as a baby monitor. Problem is that if a child makes no noise when someone takes them maybe passes them out the window, maybe stays sound asleep, I know my children often did at that age I could carry them anywhere in their deep sleep, then there is no noise to be heard.
DeleteI think when we say things, like, "I'm afraid of you taking her, or someone taking her," we aren't really believing that it would ever truly happen. I think our fear is there, especially if he was threatened by Trista's words, but the reality of it just isn't. I try to think of something similar that I have said, like, when I put my daughter on a flight alone, I worry that something might happen, but never do I really believe it's going to occur.
ReplyDeleteI will say, there are a LOT of people in this world who leave their doors unlocked (I've been one of them!) and people who don't check on their kids all through the night, or may leave a window cracked for fresh air...and we do these things because sometimes we don't want to believe it would really happen to us. We somehow subconsciously don't want to admit the world we live in. And the second something does happen, we immediately think how stupid we were not to take the three seconds to lock the door, lock the window, turn the lights on outside, put our seat belts on, get out of bed to check on our kids....and we beat ourselves up! I have no doubt Justin wishes he could go back to that night and be laying by her side to protect her little body from whomever took her, or checked all the doors to make sure they were locked, or the window...or whatever he didn't do that night that allowed this person to sweep her away...but going back in time isn't an option. Learning from the past is. Fighting for her safe return is. I know, and trust, he is doing those things to make this right for Ayla, and I hope Ayla will be able to understand that he never in a million years really thought someone would walk into a house full of people (especially one where an adult was literally right down the hall from her bedroom) and take his baby girl away. I am positive with my whole heart that he will do anything to get her back and prove to her that he loves her.
Bring Ayla home, That is a very touching statement.
DeleteI agree with everything you said.
signed: getrealpeople
Thank you for the response, Bring. I understand what you're saying.
DeleteI think normally, by nature/instinct, mothers tend to fret or be more overprotective in terms of "what if" - and fathers tend to be more "laid back" about the "what ifs." That's generally speaking and my opinion based on experience. I used to live in a place that had a 2nd & 3rd floor. The 3rd floor window at the top of the stairs scared me the first time I saw it. It was a big window near the floor and I thought if anyone fell out of it they would die. I lived there with my bf, his adult son, and my 3 teenagers. One day when we were all him my bf's grown daughter, her husband and 2 little kids came to visit. Earlier in the day I had noticed that the window on the 3rd floor was open with the screen in. I spoke to my bf's son and he said it was too hot to close it. Later when he had company his son took a call and went upstairs and the oldest grandchild asked where her little brother (age 2) was. He had apparently followed his uncle up the stairs. She no sooner asked that when we heard him fall out the window. I called 911 and then froze... in my fear for the baby, and what could happen to him, but also our entire family. Thankfully he was ok, with just a slight fracture on his shoulder. Everyone but my oldest and me seemed to go on and forget about it. I was a basket case for a year, even though he was ok. I felt scared, guilty, heartsick, anxious, nauseous, etc. - even though I knew he was fine. I felt since I was worried about that window from the beginning of living there, and since I'd spoken about it being open that morning - that I should have put my foot down and closed the thing myself... but I didn't *really* believe that something would happen. (Turns out my stepson had opened the screen later also as he was trying out some new binoculars and never closed it... see, guys think less about what could happen than women do. The window was boarded up with nailed 2x4s after that and I told him he'd just have to sweat it out.)
Anyway, that proved to be a longer story to tell than I anticipated. Point being, your explanation reminded me of that... and I'm sure that Justin is sick about Ayla.
Thanks for sharing, "Really?" I know these are all real life experiences, and we are all very human! We make mistakes.
DeleteThrowingAHailMary,
ReplyDeleteLoved your comment.
Obscure,
ReplyDeleteI know I have thanked you more than once.You have no idea what a blessing you are. Your tenacity and integrity are without limit.From the beginning, you have been up front about how you feel and what you believe. I have watched you slowly unravel the lies that have been put out there and the ones that continue to surface.I have watched as you, point by point, changed your mind.You have been challenged at every post by a barrage of hateful scoffers. To watch as you have changed your opinion has been a joyful experience, only to be out done by AYLA'S return home. I know that your intelligence is greater than most posting in these blogs.Dont let that go to your head! ;) I know that there are quite a few that are extremely intelligent posting here. I also know that all of you may not have the same opinion of what has happened.The important thing here isnt what you believe now. The important thing is that you understand that just because everyone else believes something, doesnt make it true.I have never been one to swim with the flow. If I thought, for one breath, that Justin, Li, Courtney, Lance and Phoebe could change over night and become the opposite of who they are, I would stand up and point my finger at them shouting, "guilty!"
The point is, you care enough to wade through all the lies and muck to find the truth, instead of taking everyone elses word for it.
There are blogs and blogs stating my family is capable of the most horrid things imaginable and yet you open a blog that asks questions and refuses to take rumors as facts.You have brought people together who have the same intentions;finding the truth.I have no doubts that you and those with like minds will find it. The truth doesnt like to stay hidden...one just needs to have the tenacity to keep hunting.
So, once again, thank you.
To those that, I know, have the very same intentions,you are a blessing.Thank you.
Selena, Yes, Obscure is a blessing! My first experience commenting on blogs was about Ayla. I was either totally ignored, or very rudely, sometimes nastily, replied back to. All because I didn't see it their way! Then I found this blog!!!
DeleteObscure, I really believe your blog is making a difference and opening people's eyes to look at everything!
Kudos to you. :)
Selena and family, I pray that Ayla is safe, and will be found soon.
signed: getrealpeople
Selena, you basically say all of the things that I didn't take the time to. As much as I appreciate obscure (which is a lot), I appreciate you and hearing your opinion. I think obscure is very intelligent, it's evident in every post. It is reassuring to me, Justin, and our families and friends that smart, reasonable people are advocating for Ayla and keeping all possibilities open. The world needs more people like obscure. Thank you.
DeleteJustin is blessed to have friend like you, Derek. I thank you and your family for being there for him and the rest of the family. :)
DeleteYes Selena I think this needs to be said, the Tudela's (hope that is spelled right) are caring and wonderful people.
DeleteIt must be hard at times dealing with all the garbage that is spewed about them. Yet they endure it, and continue on towards what and who they believe in. That takes courage and strength.
Thanks, Selena and Derek! I truly appreciate you all sharing your thoughts here...
DeleteIf Ayla was kidnapped,and LE is looking at the wrong family,I hope Justin goes to the media,I know he doesnt want to but If LE is wrong what other option is there ? He did say when the time is right,everything would come out.When is that? It always sounds like he wants to say more but he doesnt. If she was taken, after 5 months there are no new leads,What else can be done? I know some people wont believe him,And people may twist his words ,I think he needs to show people that he wont give up.When he gave up on interviews it didnt look good,he may have had his reasons,and just figured that LE would find Ayla,and it was better to keep quiet.But if LE is not any closer to finding Ayla.And not checking into other people,I think he should try something else.Has anyone considered it could have been a stranger? And that is why LE cannot find her?
ReplyDelete@Lisa
DeleteJust because you can not see something does not mean it is not there. Or is not being done. Just like we the public do not know all that LE does ,does not mean they are doing nothing. Of course they are not! I have watched this case unfold and have been amazed at how the public has felt entitled to know all the details of what LE was doing. What was going on. How silly it would be on their part to hand that information over to the public. Perhaps to the very person who has Ayla.
Lisa, I have to disagree with you here. Justin is doing plenty in the search. It's not his priority to tell you what he's been up to its his priority to find his daughter. Every time he's gone to the media they "twist" or "speculate." he has said everything he needed to the public. That didn't work. Trista and Jeff's smear campaign was rather effective at turning this halfway decent guy into a jerk in the eyes of the public. The truth is patient. It will come out. Obscure has already unveiled much of the garbage out there. Let's be honest... The media doesn't want to help, they want to sell stories. So forget them! "This Little Light of Maine" is an organization that truly wants to help and has done a hundred times more than what any "nancy grace" can do. Justin doesn't owe the media anything. He has told LE all he knows; if they need more, they know where to reach him.
DeleteAnd as far as giving up on interviews not looking good... isn't it clear that most have made up their mind by now. An interview most likely isn't going to sway the opinion of someone who thinks he's played a role in the "foul play."
It's a nice thought and all, for Justin to try another tactic; have any other ideas. I'm curious where trista is holed up? Haven't seen that cunning face in the papers lately?!?
Agree with everything you said, Derek. Justin is doing things to help find Ayla. The reason everyone doesn't hear about it is because he isn't playing the same finger pointing game that Trista's side has played. And to be fair, it hasn't been all of her side, but several people definitely stand out. I just don't think him being in the media spotlight is going to help anything at this point, because people are so set on him being guilty. There are people who will believe Justin is guilty even when he's proven to be innocent and Ayla is found, taken by someone else's hand. They are so convinced he's guilty, that they won't be convinced of anything else. And while that's really sad, I doubt Justin cares about their opinions. What he cares about, what his friends and family care about, what This Little Light of Maine cares about, is getting Ayla home, safe, where she belongs. We have all had our names trashed in the blogs. And that's fine. If talking about us keeps Ayla's name out there, then they can go for it. Because while people are talking horribly about all of us, we are spending our time doing productive things to help find Ayla. And we will find her. No doubt about that, because TLLOM is made up of determined, motivated people who choose to believe in Ayla, instead of believing she is not alive, based on absolutely nothing solid.
DeleteAnyway, I haven't seen Trista's fake tears since Ayla's birthday party, I don't believe. It must have been hard keeping all the stories straight, so a break must be needed....
Derek you are absolutely right. Good for Justin for doing what he thinks is best for his daughter. Despite what people say he has spoken up several times and each time it was a plea for his daughter. That is more than I can say for the child's mother who only comes out to cast accusations or gain sympathy for a child she claims she just wants closure for.
DeleteDerek,I understand what you mean about the media,I dont have any other ideas.Wish I could help.This is so sad that it is 5 months and no answers.LE says no new information.Praying for Ayla and All of your familys.thank you Derek for replying back.And I hope Justin gets his daughter back soon.
DeleteHe wants what is best for his daughter? And he has a son that he knows about and doesn't have access to? And he repeatedly cheated on women or had one night stands. Why do the MSP think that his other child is so important to this case? Why is one child (Ayla) more important than another child? Maine State Police are building up evidence found in the Violette Ave. home. A home where they say no abduction occured. Foul play occurred. And it's a missing person's investigation because Ayla is missing under the premise of foul play NOT being taken. Ground/grid searches have been conducted for more evidence and the likelihood of a deceased child. That leak to the Boston news channel months ago shouldn't be dismissed.
Deleteruby,
Delete"Why do the MSP think that his other child is so important to this case"?
IF there is another child, how do you know that MSP think the other child is important to this case? I've never heard them issue any comment about another child.
IF there is another child, who said that one is more importsant than the other? Sounds like gossip to me.
"A home where they say no abduction occured"
No, a home where MSP said there is no evidence of an abduction.
Just because there is no evidence, does not mean it did not happen.
"Ground/grid searches have been conducted for more evidence and the likelihood of a deceased child"
Yes, because that is there job. They have to consider all things.
"That leak to the Boston news channel months ago shouldn't be dismissed"
I can dismiss it and I do. First because the sorces were un-named, second because McClausland stated the news report was inaccurate, unattributed, and irresponsible. .
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ReplyDeleteSo what is important? I think it is very important to recall the [facts] rumors that have been discussed ad nauseum and not confirmed or backed up by law enforcement
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ReplyDeleteHe is though. Don't you worry he is coming after Ayla. He will not let this rest until she is found. You can keep trying but no matter how hard you try your words are still just words and they are still wrong.
Delete@Daddybelieves :)
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ReplyDeleteWhat is this the new theory of the week? I guess Ray is out. New boyfriend in. Sorry Ray. You are in prison though what did you expect? But guys you are going to have to do better. The blood theories are getting old. A few drops of Ayla's is just not enough to support murder. And the rest clearly is old news and old blood from someone else.
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ReplyDelete@Anonymous Huh?? Are you drunk while you are writing this?
DeleteAs soon as those disgusting immature trashy comments are removed mine will rise above. Kind of like the truth is I think. This blog has allowed me to see what I thought was the truth, but because everyone else was so sure that Justin did it, thanks to the media, and how you get treated if you go against others beliefs, I decided to keep quiet. Til now! Watching from behind the scenes too afraid to talk...but these theories about Trista and her fiancé or her family are so real. Too real, and I cannot help but wonder if the police are noticing too. All I know is if Ayla isn't brought home to her real mom and dad soon, the ultimate price will only be put on Ayla, not Justin, as it seems everyone on other blogs are praying for. Taking a stand finally for the truth feels good I must admit. Thanks for making this easier than I thought. I hope others try it! I hope Ayla can be reunited with her parents soon.
ReplyDelete@ Anonymous but with class15.5.12
DeleteI am so pleased that you and others are starting to come forward. Taking that stand does feel good. Standing firm, in a torrent flowing against you, isnt an easy thing to do. Maybe we cant turn the whole river but just the fact that we are standing there makes the flow recognize we are there and has to go around us.Perhaps, eventually, there will be enough standing that the course of the river will finally be shifted. Thank you for finally speaking, Anonymous but with class.
Welcome
:) Don't be afraid to speak out against them. They are doing nothing but spewing hate. Here, we use logic and reason to focus on what is most important- Ayla. I believe law enforcement is watching all angles. I wish we knew what they know, but since we can't for obvious reasons, I have to believe that they know more than they are letting on. I truly believe in Justin's innocence and think that the more Trista's camp speaks out, the more questions there are that get people thinking. I think they realized that also, which is why we haven't heard from them lately. Truth will always rise above the lies... and the truth is what is going to bring Ayla home.
DeleteSo I guess what I am reading from your post is that it is TIME TO JUSTIN TO GET TRUTHFUL SO AYLA CAN BE BROUGHT HOME TO HER MOTHER WHERE SHE BELONGS!
DeleteAnonymous17.5.12 You just gave a perfect example of how statements get twisted to suit your own needs. Anyone can clearly see that statement does not say that
DeleteLooks like JSTL is smoking the same stuff the dipshits are. Once again she fails to remember that it was on J's watch that Ayla went missing on. She fails to remember numerous "accidents" that were on his watch as well. I feel sure that this was finally the accident he was scared to report. Cowards. All of them, including you, JSTL.
ReplyDeleteYawn. Did you get lost on your way to the Ad Nauseum room? It's ------that way------->>>
DeleteWe've heard it all before. You who obviously have never done anything wrong & are perfect parents in every way. Oh wait, maybe you wanted the We Are Perfect room. You can find that down the hall from Ad Nauseum.
You're welcome. Have a nice day.
*snickers*
DeleteLOL..thanks Tour Guide.
DeleteReports that all came from the Reynold's family and can not be verified. And have been changed time after time. And need we remind you. Ayla did not just "go missing" someone stole her from his house. That means someone else is the coward who snuck in under cover of darkness and snatched her from her bed causing thousands of people, thousands of LE man hours aside from causing Justin's family to be allowed to be thrown under the bus.
DeleteWell I believe it was on Trista's watch that she had to leave her children in the care of someone else's hands to go to rehab as intervened by the State of Maine...wasn't it? If you want to point fingers make sure you know what's pointing back at you. Not that pointing fingers without fully discussing the situation for what it is will do Ayla any good. Help spread the word for Ayla why don't you? Then your efforts will be respected. Here we are having open honest factual conversations like grown mature adults. Leave your trash at the door please, and then I do believe you will be welcomed here. It's that easy.
DeleteAnon: Trista didn't even tell Justin about Ayla for months and months, and then only because she had to file for financial support when Ray was incarcerated. Do you hold the same standards for Ray then too? That is really sad that Justin wasn't even contacted by Trista to allow him to be there to witness the birth of his daughter, or to even know her until Trista decided she needed something from him. When given the opportunity, Justin stepped up to the plate (or "manned up") to care for Ayla. Yes, it was on his watch when she went missing, but that doesn't mean he wanted that to happen, nor caused it to happen. Once again, I've yet to hear any reason why people hate Justin so much other than they need to hate someone to make themselves feel better about the situation of Ayla being gone while Justin was *caring* for her. Justin, Elisha, Courtney are all good people. They haven't lied, they haven't gone around smearing people's names. They work, they go to school and most importantly they *all* love their children. They aren't the type of people it would take to conspire something like this. They simply aren't. They also haven't given up hope that she is alive...and that she will come home to both of her parents.
DeleteoooOOOooOOooOOoo I think the brave ANON is gonna go caps on us!! Stand back! This could get ugly.
ReplyDeleteYou give yourselves way too much credit if you think Trista would post here, you're all a bunch of baby killer lovers
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet way to state your opinion. Thank you for being ever so eloquent and kind. Do you kiss your granny's cheek with that mouth?
ReplyDeleteWell usually when you are that pissed off for someone you are pretty close to them. Please pass the message on to Trista. Thanks :)
ReplyDeleteOh because Trista is too busy looking for Ayla? Right. What is she doing to help? That's right, she's cutting the cake.
ReplyDeleteYikes...who let the Linnell's out on a daypass last night? Looks like I missed lots of craziness! Sad...*sniff sniff*
ReplyDeleteDear Anon's,
If any of you have proof that Ayla is dead- please call the MSP. Otherwise, feel free to go back to YOUR blogs where comments pointing fingers at the DiPietro's (Their name is NOT "dip") are welcomed with open arms.
And...as far I'm concerned....Trista may very well be posting here. You say she doesn't have time. Hmmmm. She has time to knock boots with random people while her loving "fiance" is locked up. I'd say she has time to post on blog's.
Have a rockin' day!! XOXOXO
I wouldn't go too far with that "knocking boots" comment given that we now know Justin has at least one more kid (according to that childs mother and her paternity test). That makes 2 women and 2 babies in the past 2 years... which puts that 5 year relationship with Courtney into question, don't ya think? Oh and before you go all "prove it" on me... go ahead and ask Justin himself.
DeleteWhere did you get Justin has been with Courtney for five years?? That is crazy. Those are some mixed up facts.
DeleteThat is not the same as sleeping with one guy while you have one finance in prison who's baby you just had and a new boyfriend on the side. Busy, busy girl she is.
DeleteThe 5 years is per Angela Harry. Should I not believe her blog? And no Mixed Up, you're right. Trista is WAY more culpable than Justin for... ummm... doing the same thing? My point is, everyone here seems to be holding Justin to a higher standard while calling Trista.. well you know what people call Trista here. Just wondering when some of you will realize the he has lied about many things and to many people. It's not to say that others haven't done the same, but why does everyone here turn a complete blind eye to him? Why the blind belief that he is a perfect angel?
DeleteWhen you say someone is holding another person to a higher standard, it means you expect more out of them than anyone else. If we're holding Justin to a higher standard, then we expect him to do more in order to be acceptable.
DeleteI'm sorry, but some anonymous poster claiming they know all about a child Justin fathered is not going to be proof enough to make it so. Perhaps if we lower our standards to the degree that you have for Trista, we'll believe rumor & innuendo over facts released by MSP, and we can all jump on the hate bandwagon against Justin. Yeah, no thanks.
Even if it's true, people make mistakes, especially hormonal young men & women (apparently only Justin had the one night stand, and not the female participant? You sexist pig), and yes...I include Justin in that. You don't know personal conversations between him & his supposed son's mother, or what led up to the separation, now do you?
My brother has a daughter he hasn't seen since she was an infant, he signed his rights to her over to the mom, and there are many, MANY factors as to why he did that. Outsiders could speculate all day long & be dead wrong. So you all just need to quit spewing hate. It's blinded you.
Ok, completely willing to entertain your post, Kettle. Can you please first give me examples of Justin lying related to this case, and two, where or what makes you think people here think of Justin as an angel? thanks if you can follow up. :)
DeleteKettle,
Delete"everyone here seems to be holding Justin to a higher standard while calling Trista.. well you know what people call Trista here".
EVERYONE?, no not everyone here has called Trista anything at all. No, not everyone holds Justin to a higher standard than Trista, and he is certainly not sn angel.
I do believe though, that he loved and cared about Ayla just as much as Trista.
"Just wondering when some of you will realize the he has lied about many things and to many people"
I haven't heard Justin say very much at all. Of the little he has said, I've found truthful.
Re: where did they get the 5 years from? Answer: They continue to say that "justin's camp" or Angela H put out a "timeline". Fact is that they never did, and Angela never said that anywhere. They can't produce a comment by her or any kind of "timeline" from Justins friends--- but they refer to one over and over again that never existed. One of the many ways Tori and pals show how stupid they really are. They refer to comments that weren't made as their basis for what they believe about people. Crazy. It's funny how they make up things that have supposedly been said by Justin's family and then rail against them changing their story or calling them liars when those things appear not to be true. But when Trista and family repeatedly lie or change things around, it's completely brushed off and totally ignored. If you can get anyone to answer you it's the old standby: "But Ayla went missing on HIS watch!!!!!!!! !!!!! !!!!!!"
DeleteTo which the logical reply is a head scratch. "Yes, when someone wants to steal a child from someone else, they tend to do it because the child is in the custody of that other person. Therefore, the child goes missing while in the care of that person from whom they were taken. Round and round the ferris wheel goes..."
No one says Justin is an angel. I personally do not think any human is an angel. However I do not see the lies you are referring to. And I also do not see what people are "calling" Trista here. I have seen people state facts here about Trista that are true. That is not what I consider name calling. And if Trista does not like those facts about herself well then she is the only one who can change them.
DeleteFor those in the know: Who discovered Ayla missing? I've seen Elisha, Courtney and Justin all mentioned. Have the DiPietros acknowledged that the doors were unlocked or is this an assumption based on LE saying there was no sign of forced entry? Why didn't Justin call Trista the morning of the 17th to either ask if she had Ayla or inform her Ayla was missing? Has Derek confirmed that he was at the DiPetro home on the 16th and saw Ayla that day as Heidi Tudela wrote on facebook?
ReplyDeleteI'm not somebody "in the know" - but I remember discussion about the phone. Trista didn't have one, she would sometimes borrow other people's phones to call or text Justin. Trista's family was informed at 10 in the morning, and although they knew who Trista was with and what phone they could reach her on, they were unable to get her until 11:30. I don't know if he tried to call her, or why not if he didn't - but he may have not known how to reach her... or perhaps was leaving it to the police to contact her.
DeleteI don't remember any specific discussions/confirmations about your other questions.
Please don't insult our intelligence with your questions. Justin doesn't owe any explanations to anyone in the public. It is not your job to know the answers to these questions. LE has the answers and can verify Justin's statements. Please, just don't expect that anyone here will feel the need to give you information so some vile nasty person can take it and twist it into a disgusting blog post full of damaging conjecture. When I say damaging, I mean towards Ayla. Any words that imply she is dead are damaging to her. Unless, you don't want her found, that is...
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DeleteI would assume Justin was doing what a normal person would do. Panicking and looking for his daughter and then calling the police. And as to the rest LE knows who saw Ayla when. About the door don't know. Again I am sure LE is all over this though as well who discovered Ayla missing. Why should any of that matter to the public?
Tori has minions too- I'm no one's minion, and I've never been rude to anyone posting here. The question of who discovered Ayla missing arises from DiPietro family supporters. Angela Harry wrote that Elisha was first to check on Ayla, then corrected to say it was Courtney. Selena posted that Justin discovered Ayla missing. The same with the question as to whether the doors were unlocked. I read that here. Heidi Tudela wrote that Derek saw Ayla the afternoon of the 16th. All my questions concern what has been said by those who support Justin and his family, and that is why I am inquiring here. Why does asking these questions lead you to believe I don't want Ayla found?
DeleteKindly stated, Eve. I'm not THMT, but I read the last part of what s/he said as a general "you" - not you specifically.
DeleteActually "eve"... If mom reallly said afternoon she was mistaken. Consider it CONFIRMED I saw Atla that Friday morning.
DeleteAngela H did not say that. You all just continue to make up things. Find a screen shot. You can't. Stop making up things and attributing them to people so that you can THEN say "see, this wasn't true, so they are all liars". Your tactics have become totally transparent.
DeleteYou, Eve, misunderstand what was said. She did NOT correct it and say that Courtney was first to check on Ayla. And when YOU actually know what was said, the minor and simple correction that was made...then you might see how silly all of the claims of her and others being "all liars" really are. A minor correction by an univolved 3rd party who was simply putting up a website for photo exposure was attacked as a spokesperson and treated as if what she relayed was in fact an official statement from the Dipietros to LE. It was no such thing. And while the commentary was what she understood to have happened that morning, and did need a minor clarification when the armchair investigators launched their attack- it still was never the Dipietro family or C.R. saying anything to the public.
Furthermore, to this day it still is not relevant to the general public, in reality. Who went to check on her first? Who went down the stairs first? All of that was answered repeatedly from the family to LE directly. You can not attribute lying to a family because a uninvolved cousin of a friend who lives over 600 miles away doesn't nail down the best way to relay the moments as they transpired.
Same with Phoebe's mistaken comment to CNN which she tried to correct before they aired it and they aired it anyway because a changed story makes for better ratings. Phoebe had never changed her story to police. She had always been up front with her wherabouts and was trying to follow advice from LE about what to say or not to media at that early point. That simple fact continues to be twisted and used as the public lynch mob sees fit. If they say you lied to everyone, you did. If they call you slime, dirt, evil, worthless, and in need of electrocution, then you are. No judge no jury no trial, just their made up facts and their decisions handed down.
Thanks but no thanks. Russia would love to have you though!
Eve,
ReplyDeleteFrom what I gather... Li checked on her and found her missing. Li told Courtney and Courtney told Justin. The door was, more than likely, left unlocked. Two sets of keys were eaten by Justins vehicle.They would leave the door open for each other. There are four doors at the entry landing.(basement door straight across from the entry door, the kitchen door to the left and a coat closet door beside the basement door but off set to the left.)
closet _ _Basement
Kitchen | _ Entry
Needless to say,the person entering the front door would face three doors.They would have to know which door to enter to get to AYLA without disturbing anyone.There is a straight pass through the kitchen, down the hall and into AYLA'S room.Li has mentioned the window being open.This is not a normal thing to occur,in two toddler's room in December.AYLA could have been passed out that window.I think I would trust myself taking the path past the basement, Li's room and into AYLA'S room. I wouldnt trust a 20 m0nth old to be quiet past them.I would hand her out the window if I had help.I purposely stood in front of that window both inside and out.That window could not be placed better to allow a small child to be passed from one person inside and one out.Another thing I noticed was, when Phoebe and I went down in the basement to have a cigarette and a coffee,on the couch,that there was plastic over the basement window just under AYLA and Gabby's window.It was that black or dark greenish color.I asked Phoebe about it and she said that the window had been broken quiet awhile back. She used the plastic until she could get to it.(You know, the quick fix when shit happens and you forget it needs to be fixed cause more shit happens, fix??)
You cant see through that plastic. Its the only basement window that someone down stairs in the basement, wouldnt be able to see someone standing at the girls window.I asked where Justin had his bed.She said right here.Justin may or may not have turned his light on...or left the light near the washing machine for Courtney to go to the bathroom if she had to.They may have had the bathroom light on.Would make sense for the girls and Courtney.Whoever went in there had a lighted path.
Thank you for your reply, Selena. I appreciate your taking the time to answer.
DeleteLi said that Gabby was a very light sleeper.At that time, Gabby was actually taking a nap. As time passed, I stood in the doorway to the livingroom and said something which , immediately Gabby started crying because my voice woke her. My words... "Damn she is a light sleeper."
ReplyDeleteGabby woke up, around three, the night that AYLA was stolen from her bed. Li woke up and then just snuggled her closer and they both dozed back to sleep.At about the same time there is said to be a neighbor that heard a car drive up and a dog had a barking fit. There was a tip that said,at around 4 or 5, two black men and a white woman were seen walking from 29 violette ave. The woman was carrying something wrapped in a blanket. I have heard that this lady, with the tip, has been talked to, by LE,several times.
I know , if I were awakened by someone tellin me that my 20 month old daughter was missing,under the circumstances, I would have been a wreck.I think,the frantic search and the realization of pure wtf,wouldnt leave much time to think about Trista, who has assured me, is 60 miles away and was sans vehicle.Police and Mom are quick help.Justin is on the phone with LE and everyone is searching. There is no time for him to call Trista, he is on the phone. LE gets there and starts to question Justin, Courtney, Li and Phoebe. No time here either. ( I wonder what was on the last 911 call...hmmmm...perhaps who Justin thought stole AYLA?)Why would LE make that call for Justin to TRista? Why wouldnt LE let Trista hear that last message? Why indeed.
Selena, if this is not your comment, please let me know. It went to spam, but I posted it under the assumption that it was truly yours.
DeleteThis is mine Obscure. Thank you for asking. :)
DeleteEverything about his life is now public knowledge and will be until the day he dies. No right to privacy anymore. His privacy was rebuked the second his daughter was missing. Just like the Ramsey case, no privacy. It's the publics business now until the end of time or he returns Ayla to Trista Alive, as long as Ayla is missing he better start talking or risk the consequences, which will be severe. Right now he is white druggy trash to all bit a select few, probably less than a dozen people are on his side. Thousands from across the country hate him and the people covering for him. Watch out DiPietros the wrath of a nation and a world is upon you.
ReplyDeleteHow about Trista talks? Only this time about something other than herself and Ayla being dead. How about it Trista tell us where Ayla is. By the way have you even read her "reviews"? Talk about the wrath of a Nation. She is not a well liked person or mommy right now.
DeleteHow does privacy get "rebuked" ? Haha. The ignorance of the Tori minions is really comical.
DeleteOkay, and somehow your veiled threats toward people you don't know is hunky dory? Do you feel pretty tough calling down the wrath of many onto a few?
DeleteSee, that is the difference between us and you. You all love to spew hatred, assumptions, and lies. We want to find the truth, believe that Ayla is alive, and that her dad (and even mom) love her, even if it's not the ideal situation or circumstance. Will you please just grow up & stop acting like trailer park trash gangs? Because you are seriously crossing lines & making yourself look like complete lowlifes.
Go back to your trailer park blog & let us do what we do here without your ilk flooding the place with your ignorance.
It's my understanding from a previous experience that a life insurance policy cannot be cashed in without a body.
ReplyDeleteThat's right. Nor can it with foul play involved.
DeleteJSTL, can you check the spam folder for one of my replies to a post above? Thanks.