4.10.2012

Sweet Memories

 Just came across this article...it's really good reading, and a few things made me go O_o
As Ayla's second birthday approaches, her parents, Trista Reynolds and Justin DiPietro, and grandmothers, Becca Hanson and Phoebe DiPietro, described a happy, energetic toddler with a fondness for music, dancing and "Dora the Explorer."
But Reynolds and Hanson also said they prefer to keep some of their memories to themselves.
Hanson said she's not willing to share her memories with the public, but said her favorite moments were lying in bed together and playing with stuffed animals, particularly six toy puppies.
Like her mother, Reynolds said she won't share other memories of Ayla.
"I've been keeping stories to myself," she said. "Maybe that's just me being greedy, but they're my memories, and I'm not ready to share them with everybody."
I'm trying to figure out why these women would not want to share their memories with the public. They've publicly spoken about Ayla, and the things she liked to do, so what's the problem now? No one has asked them to share EVERY, SINGLE memory they have of/with Ayla, so why is there a need to specifically state that some memories will not be shared? Isn't that a given?

MY OPINION is that memories will not be shared, because someone could inadvertently slip. They could say something that Ayla currently does or likes, and that will give them away. Getting too specific with memories will allow people to question their timeline and involvement in Ayla's disappearance...Kids change a lot between 18 and 24 months of age. HMMMMM

Anyway, the important thing about this post is that after a careful analysis of the statements, I have concluded that the following words or phrases indicate sensitivity: "keep (ing)", "not willing",  "my", and "I'm not ready to share".



 Be nice in the comments! Cyberbullying will not be tolerated. I now have a 0 tolerance policy for that kind of behavior (WINK).

64 comments:

  1. Jill4/10/12, 2:16 AM

    I honestly think it's just them holding something sacred in their hearts. With everything going on, memories are the one thing that can't be taken from you. Everyone has been under a microscope. We all know every detail of every person's life. I don't blame them for keeping some special moments out of the spotlight.

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    1. I agree4/10/12, 9:19 AM

      We don't need to know everything, just the pertinent information. I'm sure that there are people out there who are crazily obsessed and would want to know anything and everything, but unless it's regarding Ayla's disappearance or leading up to it... it's not our business.

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    2. TLLOM Anon Member4/10/12, 8:48 PM

      I agree with you. I find nothing suspicious about their comments.

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  2. I see right through you4/10/12, 8:04 AM

    Maybe they don't want their precious memories put under a microscope for you to twist and taint. Maybe you should just leave some things alone....you've done enough harm with your sick and twisted way of looking at things. Like I told you before, sweetheart, get some help....there's no need for you to be such a miserable person.

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    1. Anonymous4/10/12, 8:39 AM

      Why would anyone focus on your blog, it has been proven that you are just a hateful person with no knowledge of anything to do with this case. You are just here to start trouble and you have been found out. Go get some help. FOR YOUR FAMILY'S SAKE!

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    2. Obscure4/10/12, 8:51 AM

      You're currently focused on my blog. Checkmate.

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    3. Anonymous4/10/12, 9:07 AM

      I come back here out of interest on how someone can be so hateful. . . none of your information is taken by me as truth. This precious baby has been missing for way too long and I cannot for the life of me understand how someone could be so hateful. . . . and a mom at the same time ?????? Its like a train wreck. . . you have to watch it!

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    4. ???4/10/12, 11:05 AM

      Ever notice the type of people who stop to gawk and get in the way at the sight of an accident? Rude, obnoxious, blood thirsty.. Need I say more?

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    5. You're no exception4/10/12, 2:09 PM

      What kind of harm has the blogger caused? Is it harm because someone is finally throwing down the bullshit tiara on Princess Trista and her family? Everything I've read specifically references contradictory statements by her side of the family and her 'support boards'. So..it is perfectly acceptable to accuse the DiPietros of being murderers, abusers, drug dealers, drug addicts, and all around bad people? Last I checked, the only family with drug/child endangerment issues were the Reynolds'. If you're pissed off that your girl is being called out, thank your friend Jeff. He's the one who continuously takes here-say and rumors, then shits them out as facts. Afterwards, you can thank "Ayla's Angels" for taking personal attacks on people who disagree with their views. Before you try and say 'no we don't' or 'they did it to us', I have NEVER seen anyone but 'Ayla's Angels' posting pictures of someone's house, Google Earth shots, Maps, Addresses, and Business information for DiPietro friends and family. Do you not think that is going to bite you in the ass down the line?
      If you spent half of your efforts working with, rather than against everyone, there would be one hell of a support system. Compiling a list of bullshit stories from different references is not illegal. Some of the shit your friends Ashley, Tori, and other people have posted just might be.

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  3. Question4/10/12, 8:11 AM

    Imagine that a rule breaker from Trista's side of the camp again. Weird how they just can not seem to control themselves. The threats just keep coming. The nastiness just keeps showing through. And again I would like to point out I do not seem to see this same mentality and threats coming from Justin's side. So question. Is it possible that that these kind of people could plan and carry out a kidnapping? And then stand together? Just a question.

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  4. Lori B4/10/12, 8:30 AM

    The extent of your stupidity is astounding. Did ya think maybe the interviewer specifically asked about memories? NO, you probably didn't. Or maybe you did but you needed something to spin, so you're playing dumb in order to have have something to blog. Trista is keeping memories to herself...so? 3 adults from "the house" are keeping INFORMATION AS TO THE WHEREABOUTS OF AYLA to themselves. Do the math... you lose.

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    1. Obscure4/10/12, 8:52 AM

      Here's where your stupidity shows. Do you think the interviewer said TELL ME EVERY MEMORY YOU HAVE WITH/OF AYLA?

      No, the interviewer probably asked them to share SOME memories. Why would they need to say they're not going to? That's stupid, and so are you for trying to explain it away.

      You LOST when your dad forgot to pull out. :)

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    2. dont buy it4/10/12, 9:40 AM

      so only you can cyberbully?

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    3. Lori B4/10/12, 9:58 AM

      Oh sweetheart, your jedi mind tricks don't work on me. The difference you and me is that I KNOW I am not stupid. You cover your stupidity with weird "your daddy" sex talk and smiley faces. Still waiting for the answers about where Ayla is. Or did you forget that was the real topic?

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    4. Obscure4/10/12, 10:09 AM

      Go back and read what you wrote..."the difference you and me is that I know I am not stupid." Yet you are stupid, and you cannot even compose a simple sentence. I guess my jedi mind tricks made the word 'between' disappear.

      You're right though, the difference BETWEEN you and me is that you are stupid. :)

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    5. Lori B4/10/12, 11:18 AM

      Oh golly, I dropped a word... By the way, if you are going to sling potty humor my way, at least get the punchline right. I believe what you were trying to say with your 1950's joke is that my DADDY lost when he forgot to pull out. Please don't force me to correct your insults as well as your lack of intelligence, it makes me feel like I'm picking on a weaker being. Now again I ask... where is that pesky info about Ayla??

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    6. Anonymous4/10/12, 1:43 PM

      LMAO...I don't know who seeking truth is or obscure but I come here for the laughter. Clearly, some of these bloggers are no match for either of you. DHHS WORKER...That ought to piss off alot of people, lol.

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    7. Lori B4/10/12, 1:56 PM

      What's wrong pumpkin, don't want to publish my other reply?

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    8. Your daddy4/10/12, 2:11 PM

      Are you the same Lori who posted your cell phone number on Answersforayla? You know, the one telling Trista to call you?

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    9. formerlycute4/10/12, 3:50 PM

      I have to laugh at you, Lori. You are just like the rest. Inserting yourself where you don't belong. I thought Master Jeff told you all not to come here anymore? You're going to get in trouble.... Hey, the next time you talk to Trista, ask her how Ayla is for us.

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    10. alskjfsldkfjalksdfjlsdklsdaj;jf4/10/12, 5:02 PM

      It wouldn't help to ask Trista where Ayla is. Only Justin, CR, Derek Turdella and the Dip family knows where Ayla's little body is hidden. They killed her remember?

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    11. Abc4/10/12, 5:58 PM

      Say's who? Who are you exactly that you know Ayla is dead? Because even LE has no proof of that. None at all. So they might be interested to know what you have crazy person. Trista where is Ayla?

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    12. Lori B4/10/12, 7:05 PM

      No, not the same Lori B that posted her number and asked Trista to call. Hey Lies posing as formerly cute.. I really do not think you're in a position to accuse anyone of "inserting" herself into this case. I personally don't care who you are, if you're from Texas or Waterville, if you're a random weirdo or on someone's payroll. You are however highly entertaining, and that's really what you're going for, isn't it? To entertain and remove focus from a missing little girl? Well, as long as I can tie you up in the comments section, maybe you won't have time to screw with Ayla anymore. By the way (because it appears you have forgotten), Ayla is a REAL missing girl in Maine with a real family and people who miss her. Just in case you forgot why you supposedly started this...

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    13. formerlycute4/11/12, 10:01 AM

      Although I am not Lies, I will take that as a compliment. I think you are the same Lori B. I think only Lori B. would come to Trista's defense like this. I don't blame you for not wanting Jeff to know it's you, though. You know, after you praised his blog post calling for a boycott on this blog and all.. As for Ayla, we all know she is a real little girl who is missing. Some of us even believe she is really alive because there is a real kidnapper. Now, where is that babynapper hiding out, I wonder?

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    14. I like cookies4/11/12, 1:29 PM

      I take that back... I guess you must be the OTHER Lori B. I thought KJ didn't want you guys hanging out over here either... How do you weasel into these pages and make yourself important? so sad...

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    15. Red Flags4/11/12, 4:13 PM

      alskjfsldkfjalksdfjlsdklsdaj;jfApr 10, 2012 03:02 PM
      _____________________________

      you need to check yourself.
      seriously.

      only an extremely disturbed individual could write that comment.

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    16. S.4/12/12, 6:36 PM

      "only an extremely disturbed individual could write that comment".

      There are plenty of those disturbed people out there. I can't tell you how many times I've read the same thing in the last 2 months.

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  5. Where is Jessica?4/10/12, 8:31 AM

    Great question, Question. Trista's side acts like a bunch of thugs. Why?

    Why are they so aggressive, posting threats and horrible insults? Why do they want all opposing views silenced? LE should be asking themselves these same questions.

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  6. Who do they think they are foolin'4/10/12, 8:33 AM

    I noticed that about Trista and Becca not wanting to talk about Ayla and thought that was weird too.

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  7. Can't ya do better than this?4/10/12, 9:02 AM

    What's so special about your daughter Ayla? Um, er, um, duh I can tell you what I'm not.

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    1. That's better4/10/12, 11:25 AM

      How about the interviewer could have not asked such a confusing question. " Trista had been in rehab in Oct for substance abuse so can you tell us specifically what was so special about your daughter then?" Anyone ever consider the question may have thrown him off a bit? That said what was wrong with his answer? By the way go back and watch the footage. I just did. No um's duh"s er's involved. Answer was. " She's my daughter she's my child, she's my world she's everything to me."

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  8. Anonymous4/10/12, 9:02 AM

    and Justins memories of his daughter,shes my daughter.

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    1. Obscure4/10/12, 9:08 AM

      Trista's memories---THEY'RE MINE, I'M NOT SHARING...

      Trista's parenting of Ayla-SHE'S MINE, I'M NOT SHARING...

      Seems like she never grew up out of the "mine" stage. Like she's a 2 year old herself.

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    2. Selena Johnson4/10/12, 1:14 PM

      The sharing thing was something that really stuck out in that interview with Trista. Her statement that AYLA was hers and she didnt have to share her with anybody. (ANYBODY) I have also noticed that Trista seems to change the subject instead of answering the question posed to her.She will interject what she wants to "put out there' before the interview is done.There was also a very early interview with Matt L. and her very last words were something like Justin was the last person to see her alive....ALIVE.Was this before LE said anything about blood in the basement?Why on earth would she say that? The text messages do not match up with the above statement.This whole thing just doesnt make any sense unless one looks at it from the perspective of her family abducting AYLA.Could everything they have been saying be a huge smoke screen? hmmm

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    3. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa4/10/12, 7:03 PM

      How fat are you Selena? Do you look like phoebe? Are your teeth decayed from crack? CUS you sound like you're on crack too lol

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    4. Get it right4/10/12, 8:04 PM

      Nope that's Trista's mom Becca I know it is confusing. But she is the crack head. And Uncle Ronnie Trista brother sold crack out of Trista's apartment. Are we clear now?

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    5. Sticks and stones4/10/12, 8:08 PM

      What are you in kindergarten? Yup when all else fails if you are losing a battle resort to name calling.

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    6. Selena Johnson4/10/12, 9:50 PM

      @ aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

      Im really fat and have no teeth. Whats your point? Ohhhh I see. You cant back your shit up or come up with an intelligent answer so you regress to ...Oh! I am so sorry maybe you arent regressing. Maybe this is as far as your development has gotten you.OMG I am so so sorry.I am at a loss.I dont know how to explain things to you... Do you like pictures??

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    7. Janet Johnson4/10/12, 11:39 PM

      @ Selena - I suggest you go back and actually LISTEN to the end of that interview. Trista doesn't say ALIVE...she says AND ALL. Try again Auntie. Where did they hide Ayla?

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    8. Patsy4/11/12, 10:06 AM

      Janet, I think you have your interviews confused. There is more than one where she makes similar statements. She does, in fact, say "alive" in one of them. Do your homework. Don't ask for a link, I'm not doing your homework for you. Ask Trista, Jeff and Jessica where they are hiding Ayla.

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    9. Selena Johnson4/11/12, 1:06 PM

      Janet...heres you link.

      http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/29/ayla-reynolds-missing-parents-speak-out_n_1174387.html

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  9. You're not very smart. Are you?4/10/12, 9:41 AM

    And yet you cyberbully other people? What a joke.

    Have you ever lost a loved one? The last thing you want to do is discuss memories of that person while you're mourning.

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  10. derek4/10/12, 10:44 AM

    Right, don't discuss memories but dance around in the streets! Really?

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    1. alskjfsldkfjalksdfjlsdklsdaj;jf4/10/12, 5:01 PM

      Right. Sell a 25k LIP to your friend and have the baby turn up missing weeks later. Stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about Ayla. What the hell did you do to help make Ayla go missing? Think about it Derek.

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    2. Anonymous4/10/12, 5:44 PM

      She has memories of dancing with Ayla. When you miss someone you do things that remind you of them,I do things that my Dad did with me because I miss him.

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    3. Think about that4/10/12, 5:52 PM

      He is an insurance agent. That is his job to sell life insurance. And most insurance agents think life insurance is very important. So to them it is especially important that their friends and loved ones have it. Same as if you are a car salesman you try to sell your friends your brand of car it's the best, a fitness instructor sell your fitness plan, a vacuum salesman your brand of vacuum. Need I go on. Any person who does a job often believes in their product. And when they do they want their loved ones and friends to benefit first. That makes that person a caring friend. What does that have to do with a missing child? Even if the child turns up missing "weeks" later what does that have to do with anything? Life insurance can not be collected on a missing child. Think about that

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    4. Anonymous4/10/12, 9:29 PM

      Everyone grieves or copes differently at different
      times of the day, the week. Don't you have a kid that
      needs a gerber diaper change? Grow a pair.

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  11. Red Flags4/10/12, 11:26 AM

    this article has slipped through the cracks:
    http://www.sunjournal.com/news/maine/2012/04/04/state-officials-warn-costs-crime-fighting-going/1176856
    there is some intriguing info there including this:

    In documents submitted to the Appropriations Committee, the scope of the computer crime unit backlog is spelled out in detail. As of March 30, 417 computers and hard drives were waiting to be analyzed, as well as 71 cellphones.

    In addition, 54 thumb drives, 32 digital cameras, 25 memory cards, eight zip drives, eight Xbox game players, six iPods, three GPS units, two digital records and two e-book readers are awaiting analysis, along with 600 CD and DVD discs.

    “Some of these can take hours on hours to analyze," Lt. Glenn Lang, director of the Computer Crime Unit told the Criminal Justice Committee last month.
    .............
    there is also a notice on the Waterville Police Facebook page saying there was a flood in the detective's room that is causing problems..
    ................
    these little nuggets of news give me hope that LE are following all breadcrumbs.
    the cyber trail is key in finding Ayla imo.

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  12. Anonymous4/10/12, 12:40 PM

    *shakes head ... looks bewildered*




    Is this a parody blog or a serious blog.
    I'm not sure.

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  13. S.4/10/12, 1:45 PM

    You're not very smart. Are you,

    I have lost a loved one, although not one of my children.
    I reacted totaly opposite of your assertion.
    I wanted to talk about my lovesd one, I wanted to share memories. I wanted to hear other's memories. Yes that was while I was mourning.

    Does Trista have hope that Ayla is still alive?
    If it was my child I would want every single thing I could think of about my child out there. Anything, everything.
    Maybe Trista doesn't have the hope that Ayla is out there, needing to be found.
    I do!!

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  14. You are pathetic4/10/12, 3:07 PM

    No cyber bullying? No anonymous posts? I think I smell b.s. steaming from this blog

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  15. salkjfdslkjflskadjflsakdjflksd4/10/12, 3:15 PM

    Obscure?

    What is your opinion of a woman who lies about being pregnant and having a miscarriage?

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    1. alskjfsldkfjalksdfjlsdklsdaj;jf4/10/12, 4:59 PM

      Come on please answer Lies. What is your opinion of a woman who lies about being pregnant and having a miscarriage?

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    2. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa4/10/12, 7:27 PM

      Thank you for posting my question Lies, but would you please answer my question? What is your opinion of a woman who lies about being pregnant and having a miscarriage?

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    3. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa4/10/12, 8:09 PM

      figures

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  16. dont buy it4/10/12, 4:02 PM

    Where'd all your fans go? It seems all you have on here are Haters...You're probably creating another blog on another case to fee important. i feel sad for you ;( And yes I do keep coming here because I can't turn away... it's like watching crazy enfold beofer your eyes..

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    1. Obscure4/11/12, 12:12 PM

      Reading this comment, I was watching STUPID unfold before my eyes. Spell check, much?

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  17. Jenn4/11/12, 1:37 AM

    I think "obscure" will be too embarrassed to post this but here goes.

    A few days ago I was wondering why someone could be SO hateful towards the mother of Ayla and began to think it was out of jealousy. It's interesting to see now that "Obscure" has been found lying about miscarriages under phony names elsewhere.

    1. Insecure (strong indicator: always feels the need to insult the intelligence of others.)
    2. Serious mental problems (this blog says it all)
    3. infertile and seriously bitter about it
    4. or maybe has had children but her children have been taken away from her (hence all of the calling Tori an unfit mother crap)
    5. Jealous because Trista is cute. (obscure is probably overweight and unattractive.)

    You're just sooo obscure, "obscure"!
    ;)

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    1. Obscure4/11/12, 7:44 AM

      1. People act stupid, I call them on it. Doesn't make me insecure, it makes those people stupid. :)

      2. No mental problems. Just because you don't agree with a person's actions doesn't mean they have mental trouble. I'd be more inclined to think something was wrong with a person who used that logic.

      3. Not infertile at all, I have beautiful children!

      4. My children reside with me. The only involvement I've ever had with CPS has been working along side them to protect or advocate for other people's abused or neglected kids.

      5. To each his or her own. I have nothing to be jealous about Trista for. She may be cute in some people's opinions, but where has that "cuteness" gotten her in life? Absolutely nowhere. I'd rather look like me and have my life, than look like her and have her life. Got it?

      I've never faked a miscarriage, and that accusation is HILARIOUS. People have accused me of lots of things, that's one accusation that makes very little sense. I'm not too embarrassed to post this, they're your opinions that you formed with 0 credibility. If anything, you should be embarrassed.

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    2. Red Flags4/11/12, 8:22 AM

      oh dear, another 'oopsie!'
      time to move on to your next mistaken target!
      the population of kileen texas (if indeed that is where JSTL lives?) was 116,141 in 2011.
      divided by 365, if you mistakenly finger one person per day, (i know you usually wrongly 'out' more than one random individual a day, but for the sake of argument, we'll limit you to one per day),
      you will correctly out JSTL in approximately 318 days!
      keep plugging..you'll get there in march 2013 at the outside!

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    3. Selena Johnson4/11/12, 1:10 PM

      @ Red Flags

      Bahahahaha. That thar was funny!

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  18. Maine-iac at heart4/11/12, 11:48 AM

    Here's the deal, Obscure; I don't think anyone is saying you don't have a right to your opinion. Of course you do and so does everyone else. However, you do come across like you are attacking Trista when you do this kind of post. No one is perfect. I'm sure Trista beats herself up everyday for the mistakes she has made that ultimately put her child at jeopardy. I read this blog to obtain another point of view. I get defensive though when the focus isn't on Ayla. JMO

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    1. Obscure4/11/12, 12:11 PM

      I am not attacking Trista any more than the other blogs are attacking Justin. You cannot impose your double standard here, because I don't play by your rules.

      The focus wasn't on Ayla at a certain blog for about 3 days, I didn't see you comment and get defensive about it.

      Did I miss that, or are you really that hypocritical?

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  19. Obscure4/11/12, 12:16 PM

    How is this post attacking Trista at all? It's only questioning why she stated what she did. Everything I post is not an attack...Put the gun down.

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