I made it VERY clear that I did not have access to both sides of the conversation when I published the first round of text messages. Even just reading one side, there was information to be gleaned. Trista divulged information about her support system (or lack thereof), her mental stability (or lack thereof), and her support of Justin from time to time--among other things. I published the messages because they directly contradicted some of the media portrayals and statements that were out there. I did not make up anything about Justin's demeanor or try to act as though he was being polite and Trista was raging. I did not publish things incompletely and out of order on purpose. I did not allude to my own assumptions and knowledge of the situation as though they were fact. You, Tori, cannot say the same.
None of the accusations made by Trista have been backed up by court documents (unnecessarily redacted ones at that), medical reports, or text messages. The text messages show Justin responding to Trista in a manner that should almost be expected. She has said horrible things in the media, and in the text messages themselves, she accuses him of being a baby murderer. How does one respond politely to that? Should Justin, or anyone for that matter, ignore the atmosphere and just respond to the text messages as though there is no back story? Only in fantasy land.
Do you really believe that Justin only realized that his texts were being monitored after I published the first round of text messages? So when MSP had his phone and other electronics, he didn't think they would be looking at his communications? Well, I'll be damned! Also, nevermind the fact that Jeffrey said text messages would not be published because they could play directly into the investigation...what happened with that? *blank stare* You cannot expect us to take your word, or Trista's word, for the last few text messages. He is quite obviously responded to questions that were likely posed to him in an impolite manner. To only show his responses---and then couple them with a post about verbal abuse---is about as far out there as you can get. I expect nothing less from someone who has first-hand knowledge of theft devices. Just sayin'...Even your own brainless drones see the irony in that.
Now, the text messages and my commentary... I have grouped the ones together that were sent as part of the same text. Most phones limit you to 160 characters or so, therefore Trista's texts look like she sent a lot. In all actuality, she sent one long text and the carrier broke it up for delivery. Justin is in red, Trista is in plain text, and I'm in italics.
Date:2012.6.28.8.59.43
Hey its Trista so we are going on to five months you ready yet to tell me where or what happened to Ayla? i am so tired of not knowing if my Daughter is okay And not one person can give me hope that she is still alive even with all the evidence. I just want to hold her again look into her blue eyes see her beautiful Smile kiss her soft cheeks wake up to her jumping in her crib reaching her hands out yelling mommy mommy with a big smile on her face. I want to feel her touch Ayla didn’t deserve what happened to her. She was so amazing sweet funny out going a very well behaved child. i really want to know where she is i want her Home with me where she belongs. What bothers me the most is i trusted you to take good care of her and you let her and me down. I just don’t understand what Ayla did for this to happen. i swear if i never went to rehab or fought with you to be in her life she would still be here with me right now. What am i suppose to think when all of the evidence points to the worst. Not one person including you can give me that little bit of hope that my baby girl is Alive and alright and coming home to me . The pain i feel everyday is unbearable.
This is the same cookie cutter, REDUNDANT speech she has given in the media. I don't wish this pain on anyone, but at the same time, why would you text someone about it when you think they are the cause of your suffering? Trista has said all of this on TV, without any emotion, and I doubt she wrote this text message while crying herself to sleep.
Date:2012.6.28.9.14.32
Is it true that your trying to collect Aylas life insurance? Because if so that is Fucked up Justin
Again, she is the one starting drama. She had to have been looking for trouble when she sent this text, and she found it. She is not afraid of Justin or how he might respond, obviously. There were better ways to ask about this, and maybe Justin is tired of being confronted with baseless rumors.
Date:2012.6.28.8.51.3
I still pay it thank u very much because im hoping she will b home and until proven otherwise im going to continue too. Eat shit i have one on myself too. It has nothing to do w money never has
I see nothing wrong with his reply. Obviously, the IT he is most likely referring to is the life insurance policy. All you have to do is read the exchange, and that is what is being discussed. It's not rocket science, even those of you with a GED should have been able to follow along. Reading comprehension. Got any of that? Anyway, if Justin stopped paying, that would be used as proof of his wrong-doing as well. You all are never satisfied. He's damned if he does, damned if he doesn't; a classic catch 22.
Date:2012.6.28.9.0.19
Today is farther’s day and the one little girl you should be spending it with is our daughter and you can’t because you and your girlfriend and sister murdered Her. Hope your thinking of her today and what you did to her. you don’t deserve to be recognized as a farther because you are a poor excuse for a farther. You know i still have the very first farthers day card Ayla and i bought for you two years ago. Your a joke Justin i hate you.
For fuck's sake, it's FATHER'S day. Again, it is Trista who is stirring up trouble here, and being verbally abusive. Why text someone this garbage on Father's day? For no other reason than to get them to lash out at you. See, Trista likes attention. She is not old or wise enough to recognize that all attention is not good attention. As long as Justin is talking to her though, she's okay. A mother who had to abandon her children to go to rehab has NO ROOM to judge the next person's parenting fitness.
Date:2012.6.28.8.46.25
I will never give up trista and i dont speak those words its not an option and thats the difference you gave up on ayla a long time ago
Again, nothing wrong with this reply. He is not accepting that Ayla is gone, and he is not giving up hope. What's the big deal?
Date:2012.6.28.9.9.47
I have not Given up i Pray for Her every day i did carry Ayla for Nine months a mother Nows when there is Something wrong with there child. I will never give Up on Ayla. She is my world she is my life. I keep going every day because i know its what Ayla would want.
Oh, really?
Date:2012.6.28.8.45.52
Whats wrong w u ur boyfriend dump you? What do u want? Ive told u everything trista
This seems so out of place with the discussion. There is obviously a text or two missing, so I'm not sure what to make of this. Perhaps Trista acts a certain way when she gets dumped? idk
Date:2012.6.28.9.6.55
No one dumped me where did you get that?
From the same place you find all of your rumors and assumptions? Just a wild guess, on my part!
Date:2012.6.28.8.57.19
I want her home before anything justice will take care of itself y do u think shes not alive why even speak those words
Again, telling Trista to remain hopeful. I see nothing wrong with this either.
Date:2012.6.28.8.56.50
U look like youve been eating
This is also out of place with the discussion. He just randomly said this, or did Trista say something dramatic, like I can't eat or sleep because I'm missing Ayla. Hmmm...another glaring example of text messages missing.
You supposedly have all of the other texts, but conveniently do not have the ones preceding the most volatile texts from Justin? I call BULLSHIT.Trista said she asked Justin where he was on the 15th and the 16th and where was Ayla?
Date:2012.6.28.8.55.29
Ur questions are redundant and retorical o wait let me break it down in your terms ur questions are fuckin retarded and ive answered evrything i know She was at my house and i went there after she went to bed to get my bed you idiot people saw her friday so good try U got more stories than dr suess do u have voices in ur head telling u this shit
When he says "let me break it down in your terms" that lets me know that she said something equally as hostile to him in her prior texts. If Trista asked about the 15th AND 16th, Justin's response about going to get his bed was probably referring to the 15th. The 16th was Friday, so he is obviously discussing a different day when he says that. Justin summed up Trista's whole game---she has more stories than Dr. Seuss, and there is a 99% chance that there are voices in her head!
I see nothing abusive about the texts; he gave as good as he got. What WE didn't GET is the entire conversation to base an opinion on. We have Tori saying she will release both sides, but she failed to do that. There are SO many red flags in these messages, that it makes me wonder why they are trying to craft this story in this manner. Say what you will---I did publish one-sided text messages. I did not promise to reveal both sides objectively, because I knew I didn't have the other side. Tori, you should have bowed out when you had the chance!
Okay, I believe that the timestamp on each text is the date & time (i.e. Date:2012.6.28.9.9.47 = year, month, day, hour, minutes, seconds), so looking at it that way, they are DEFINITELY out of order.
ReplyDelete@Michelle
DeleteI think it’s odd.
Justin’s response about the life insurance was sent before Trista asked him about it? HUH!!! The time stamps don’t match up!
Tori has hedged around the questions about this, and her story keeps changing. I’m sure, after she reads here, “they” will get it straightened out, before they post the rest of the texts. What are they up to?
Signed:getrealpeople
There is also a difference I think between these texts and the ones released by you from Trista. Trista's texts stood on their own. You really did not need to see the other side of the conversation. Most of those texts were simple statements. They did not seem like any of them were things Trista was saying out of anger or because she was provoked. Or in response to a question and that is because what usually happen in those early weeks that Trista and Justin "were not talking" Trista would call and do most of the talking and Justin would just listen.
ReplyDeleteGreat post, Obscure. Im not liking Tori at all. Tori, Justin was around when I was having problems with " I beat you because you make me." He was very supportive of me.Not that you asked for it but here is my opinion of you. You are a busy body who loves to stir shit up and stand back to watch it swirl. This is not your high school cheer leading team you are messing in. When all is said and done...you WILL be answering to all that you have said and done. I will be the first to put in my two cents in court against you. I may be , in life, a quiet person...but ill be dressin in my best heels for that party! :) I gotta go find me a party dress.
ReplyDeleteSo are you implying that this is the correct way for Justin to speak to a mother that has had her daughter killed? Is this is the way to speak to another human at all?? What the hell kind of behavior are you and this family condoning? Are you saying that YOU believe Justin has NO IDEA WHAT HAPPENED TO HIS DAUGHTER??? Because if you are, you are a PATHETIC person Selena... you and this whole family may already be aware of how pathetic you all look to society, Im not sure.
DeleteDo you or anyone else know who saw Ayla on Friday? Who was with Ayla when Justin left to get his bed when Ayla went missing?? if you dont know these answers among others, HOW IN THE HELL *as a human/loving family member* can you continuously have Justin's back?? or at least deep down not "suspect" he COULD potentially have SOMETHING/ANYTHING to do with his little girls death or 'missing' status?? Now granted, if Justin OR ANYONE answered some of these questions, the general public wouldn't automatically look at him as a suspect... common, no one should have to explain any of this to anyone..
IS the answer here: "LE knows everything that Justin, elisha, courtney, etc, etc, etc knows?". If it is, DO you REALLY just take their word on it?? JUST because he's related to you??? BS, this friggin case has been cold and YOU ALL are the reason for it.
But Let me put this in perspective.. IF one of my nieces or nephews went missing.... I would trust the words of my brother or sister, BUT I WOULD NEVER disregard the possibility of foul play... NEVER!!! And that is seemingly what you along with a few others are implying.... that Justin still has NO IDEA what happened to his daughter... I would love, just LOVE for once to see that Justin's own family is now taking it upon themselves to think a little critically of Justin... Not because they are "afraid to lose another family member(s) due to jail time" or whatever, but because a missing toddler is STILL missing and someone from her paternal father's side did something that NO ONE ever has done for her in the past.....
..... and that is help her!
"this friggin case has been cold and YOU ALL are the reason for it".
DeletePleazzz, actually your whole post is upseting to me.
I just do not understand how some people think. Nor how their conscience allows them to say some of the things they say.
Time for me to depart for now.
Some people think logically...... Conscience allows the most insane people to think clearly....however, the true perception is lost. Has that happened to you???
DeleteWackdoo 13.7.12
DeleteJustins family knows him. We didnt ban him from our lives. lol
You dont like me? Whoop dee doo!
ITA Selena. It's quite telling that Trista's family and friends wanted nothing to do with her before this happened.
DeleteTo the anon that posted the following, I would like to answer it point by point:
Delete"So are you implying that this is the correct way for Justin to speak to a mother that has had her daughter killed?"
Ayla is not dead. If YOU know she is dead then you should be in jail for not giving this pertinent information to LE which would bring this case to a close. Law Enforcement officials have been investigating this case for over 6 months and can't find anything definitive to name suspects or bring charges on anyone for this MISSING child's disappearance.
"Is this is the way to speak to another human at all?? What the hell kind of behavior are you and this family condoning? "
My reply to that is yes, it's certainly understandable to reply in that manner to repetitive texts accusing him of things he hasn't done-- when an innocent father has been publicly condemned without evidence, and when the mother of Ayla has many, many, many times called him guilty of murder Trista antagonizes him and some day when the truth is known, all of you that overlooked her behavior will disappear without a word of apology or shock.
"Are you saying that YOU believe Justin has NO IDEA WHAT HAPPENED TO HIS DAUGHTER??? Because if you are, you are a PATHETIC person Selena..."
I think she is saying that. I know I am. I believe that Justin, Courtney, Elisha and Phoebe have no idea where Ayla is. They have NEVER given up hope that she is still alive and that if this is handled extraordinarily carefully she just might be found. I have lots of cases I can direct you to for review. Yes, I believe these people who have no criminal characteristics and who are KNOWN to love not only Ayla but all the children in their lives. I believe that there is really a chance that Ayla was taken by someone else. I believe it is possible that LE has made a mistake in their determination. Why? BECAUSE IT HAPPENS. Investigators do NOT always have it right.
"...you and this whole family may already be aware of how pathetic you all look to society, Im not sure. Do you or anyone else know who saw Ayla on Friday? Who was with Ayla when Justin left to get his bed when Ayla went missing?? if you dont know these answers among others, HOW IN THE HELL *as a human/loving family member* can you continuously have Justin's back?? or at least deep down not "suspect" he COULD potentially have SOMETHING/ANYTHING to do with his little girls death or 'missing' status??"
Are YOU society? They do not seem pathetic to me. They do not seem pathetic to many of the people I talk to who follow this case and who do NOT know them. No they don't spend a ton of time in front of cameras. They seem like they realized at some point they needed to look for Ayla on their own and that is what they started doing. Yes, people did see Ayla on the Friday. But those people have been implicated by the public as assisting in murder, imagine that! Get this through your head. We all realized a very long time ago that no matter what they say or do they will NEVER please you and therefore they didn't bother trying. They worked on trying to find their little girl without your help. While this little girls mother thanked you for your pity about her dead daughter. And asked for closure with your condolences. (7 weeks after) And said she was going to move away and get a new start (at the 10 week point.) And started memorializing her daughter, despite the lack of evidence. So let me ask YOU how pathetic is it for a mother to give up hope like that? And don't feed us the line about her double talk of sometimes throwing in a 'Oh, I still have hope...." followed up by more interviews wanting to know "how she died". Bleh.
Jeff and Trista know why police believe Ayla is dead.
Delete@ Anonymous13.7.12
DeleteYa... I believe everything those two say. I would rather hear a few words from my family than 6 months worth of BS from that family!!
Seriously, the police told Jeff and Trista exactly why they think Ayla is dead. Jeff and Trista get inside information from MSP, don't you know? It is all over the other blog.
DeleteWell, since they can't arrest Justin, he is still equally entitled to that "inside information" and police really can't ethically keep inside information from a parent that they have not named as a suspect or arrested in the nearly 7 months since his daughter's disappearance. Therefore, since Justin hasn't been given this information, it either does not exist or they are unethical for giving it to one parent and not the other.
Delete@Anonymous13.7.12
Delete"Some people think logically...... Conscience allows the most insane people to think clearly....however, the true perception is lost. Has that happened to you???"
Your comment does not make sense!
signed:getrealpeople
@time will tell
DeleteYou said it all, nothing more to add! Great post :)
(Keep up the blogs Obscure! You are one fine person. Kudos to what you do here.)
signed:getrealpeople
@Anon
DeleteReally? "Jeff & Trista get inside info? It is all over the other blog. Don't you know?"
Well if the other blog says so than it must be true. Because as we know everything you read on a blog is true. And of course that other blog is backed by Jeff & Trista themselves. And of course they would never tell a lie. . .
I think the "you look like you've been eating" is the response to "no one dumped me where did you get that?"
ReplyDeleteAccording to Tori, these were forwarded from Trista's phone to Tori's phone. Then Tori sent them to her computer but couldn't open the text file. So Megan worked on it all night. She said there were 86 messages to sort through. She later said some of them duplicated. I only saw about 25.
justin does not look likes he's been eating. :( This is so sad, so unbelievably sad. When will we finally have answers and when will Ayla be brought home? I pray every day about it.
DeleteP
@ the space between...
DeleteI think its possible that its "you look like you've been *dating*" with the e accidentally put in place instead of d. It sits better with the "no one dumped me" comment.
That's possible, Luci, but how would someone look like they are dating? I wondered if maybe she eats when she's single? I saw another explanation the other day that made even more sense... they perhaps didn't post a text wherein Trista could have said something like, "I can't sleep, I can't eat" and that was the response.
DeleteAnyhow, it's hard to follow - and given that they were texts forwarded by Trista to Tori and from Tori to her email and put into some "program" and from her email they were dissembled and "put in order" by Megan and then posted... Trista admits to "not having" some of the texts and Tori said she herself had 86, and that she'd post them all together but only posted 25. Seem like we're missing information and being misled? Yup. However, PH at SA (ya know, that "scientific" site?) thought it worthy of "analyzing" (ya know, so it would fit his theory).
As someone pointed out, a text transcript can be requested from ones cell carrier. If they were interested in divulging the complete text conversation as they have stated were, that would be a really great way to do that.
Your right space...
DeleteThat is a good possibility. I feel the texts were submitted that way intentionally as you put it "to be misled".
WordMan says:
ReplyDeleteJuly 13, 2012 at 9:18 am
This is the first confirmation I have seen where Trista has come out and said that Justin,Elisha and Courtney murdered Ayla. If she is releasing these texts, then we can logically deduce that these are her true feelings.
We can logically deduce that? My logic didn't come up with that. So, supposedly her "true feelings" are that J, E, C all murdered Ayla. How would that play out? Oh, I know, only in someone's head.
wordman says that if she says it and is releasing the texts then these are Trista's true feelings? I guess that's what he believes, but Trista has said SO many contradictory things that I don't know how anyone would deduce anything from her words, frankly.
DeleteThe texts, to me, seem much more like she's sent them with the intention of riling him up, and with full knowledge that she will be able to hand select them for release to further "solidify" her support base. Which does not include many real life friends, oddly.
Hey Jeff, oops I mean Wordman, you said, "This is the first confirmation I have seen where Trista has come out and said that Justin,Elisha and Courtney murdered Ayla. If she is releasing these texts, then we can logically deduce that these are her true feelings." And that means.....what?
DeleteLE did not want them (Reynolds clan) to release text messages because it would hamper the investigation. I guess they (LE) changed their mind and it was okay to do it now?
When Obscure posted text messages,there was a copyright violation filed, so the original text messages had to be removed. Why is it different now? Where are the other 61 messaages Tori?
One of U4A followers says, "I urged Tori to release the text(s) from Trista that prompted Justin’s crass replies. Now I’m told they weren’t saved in her outbox and thus no longer exist."
WTH!!!
signed:getrealpeople
This is all so, so sad and I'm crying right now for Ayla. If anything, Ayla needs both her parents to come together to find her, fight for her and not fight each other. Initially, I did think that Justin had something to do with her disappearance or knew something about it, especially after hearing about the limited evidence that MSP gave out, it all pointed in his direction...but after reading some of these posts over the last few months, I'm starting to believe that he is just as lost as Trista and I don't believe Trista had anything to do with her disappearance either. I can understand why Trista is looking to him to give her answers...I probably would be too (it's a natural reaction). I can also understand Justin's frustration because he doesn't have them. Like I said before, they are not together as a couple, so they are already distant from each other, throw in their respective families and friends in the mix, don't forget the media and blogs...the situation becomes volatile. Therefore, you have two people who are distraught and frustrated and looking for answers and fighting each other when the best thing to do for Ayla is to come together, unite for her and fight for justice for her. I hope and pray that they can put their differences aside and do this for their daughter.
ReplyDeleteVERY well said.
DeleteI agree, well said, and great advice.
DeleteI just don't know if they can do that now after all that has been said.
@ S.....you're probably right and that makes it truly sad :(
DeleteAnon- i tend to agree that while Trista's deceptiveness on so many things does not seem logical, it could simply be a result of her mental framework. Ultimately this could be a case where she's lashing out in belief that Justin is guilty when it would have been far more productive for finding their daughter if she had held out some actual hope that the messages she was getting from LE were too narrow in scope. If she had steadfastly stuck to what she KNEW and admits that she knew, which is that Ayla's father would never hurt her, and that Ayla was safe with him and that he is a good dad-- then maybe LE would have considered some alternatives when they came up with dead ends initially. But she so quickly turned against all that she knew of Ayla's father; and spoke to horribly of him so many times. No one sane could ever expect him to have anything but angry feelings towards Trista. HIS daughter is missing TOO! And he's been demonized while she's ridden on a gold paved road to martyrdom. Is she truly innocent? Maybe. And thankfully Justin has never once come out and accused her of being guilty of taking Ayla and sending her somewhere. Because he's been accused of murdering her by the masses and has never once had the soft cushion to land on that Trista has. It's a real shame.
DeleteTrue. Many people who have refrained from judgement (because in all honesty there isn't enough available to make a judgement with) have seen Justin as taking the high road by not accusing. Maybe he truly believes someone in the Reynolds family took his daughter. Maybe he thinks so but knows he can't be positive. Therefore he has stayed somewhat off the radar and appears to be dealing with the situation the way many people deal with these kinds of crimes and tragedies. No matter what the others want to spout off, not that many parents spend a great deal of time in front of the media. Frankly, whether they like it or not, his staying out of the media more than not while Trista got in front of cameras at every opportunity created even more of a twist that kept her story in the headlines longer than most missing cases get. Really, whether intentional or not, the way he handled it probably gave Ayla more coverage. What did it matter how much he spoke to the news, since Trista was doing it enough for the both of them? Most times only one of the parents (when the parents are together) is really the media person anyway. I don't know why they make it such a big deal that he does less of it. Clearly with Trista out there all the time it was just as much and more than the amount any parents of any missing child does media.
DeleteThink BEFORE you speak... Good advice, and a good title for this post.
ReplyDeleteWhich I think is great feedback, and pretty much common sense.
I'm sure that Tori didn't expect the many negative responses she got from her post of one sided text. Nor her poor attempt to place Justin in Portland the night of the 16th.
Justin's text being abusive and manipulating...No, what I read was frustration.
So your saying that the way he expresses his frustrations is the correct way? Is that how YOU treat people when your frustrated? seriously?
DeleteThe answer here is NO... this is exactly why all of these ridiculous statements left on this blog here are complete GARBAGE! I don't know of ANYONE considered to be "sane" that would say that the language he used was "ok" because he was just frustrated... S., YOU must be another loyal family member... there's a name that basically sums up this whole group... Pathetic. The only family member that hasn't shown that side was eliminated.
No, I'm not a family member. Not a friend. Don't live in Maine.
DeleteWhere did I say it was correct?
I said the text where not abusive or manipulating, and to me reflect frustration. Which I totally understand.
? "Is that how YOU treat people when your frustrated? seriously?"
DeleteYou might want to reflect on how you express your own frustrations.
No, S is correct. I think Justin showed great restraint. Trista's words were unconscionable.
DeleteIt was not meant for you to take offense to, i am aware posts can be taken out of context but your assumption of my frustrations are false!
Delete#1; Trista and Justin are not a couple, are not married
Delete#2; How can someone judge someone when they are not going thru what they are going thru - Trista is angry and looking to Justin for answers and Justin doesn't have answers and is frustrated.
#3; It takes two to tango and if you look at the texts as a whole, they are both in the wrong.
This is not a HE SAID SHE SAID game. This is a childs life and her parents who are having a hard time (understandably) dealing with it. Again, they are not a couple and you can not expect them to deal with this situation as a couple united. Unfortunately, "S" is correct and probably too much has been said for them to put their differences aside and work together.
txting a man on fathers day and accusing him of killing his daughter...on fathers day, when he has stated someone took her...stole her...and there is NO proof of anything else happening... is unfathomable. My discription of a woman that would do that isnt pleasant. She is lucky that is all that was said. My opinion of that woman is building steadily.Keep talking and proving stuff, Trista. I am listening. Your BFF has walked away...people are starting to ask questions...of YOU.
Delete@ Selena - step back just a moment and put yourself in her shoes...now I'm not accusing Justin nor do I think Trista had anything to do with it. However, as a mother, wouldn't you be loosing it by now? Wouldn't you lash out at the other person closest to your child who is missing and all you've been told by MSP that your child is more than likely dead? As much as you want to have hope, all you feel is despair. Unfortunately, Selena, you're too close to the situation to take a step back and have an objective view and I understand you coming to your nephews defense, I certainly would. I'm sure Justin is dealing with his own feelings his own way. I don't think there is any right or wrong way and I hope that they are both getting the counseling they need and if they are not, hopefully Justin and Trista's close family and friends should urge them to. I don't agree with either way each of them have sent these texts to each other, but I'm not in their position and can't say whether or not how I would react. Unfortunately, Trista and her so called bff Amanda, whatever happened to their friendship probably started happening before Ayla disappeared and I'm sure Amanda probably put that aside at the beginning, but whatever was going on, I'm sure it was still there and could be a number of things compounded. I know, this happened to me and my so called BFF around the time that I was getting married.
DeleteAmazingly they do it over and over again and are blind to their...um...blindness.
Delete*accuse the blogger here of being any number of horrible things. Hateful, malicious, and full of lies, primarily. When in actuality this blogger is watching the circumstances around a missing child case and responding with much clarity and insight and backing up every darned thing he or she says with FACTS and REFERENCES.
*accuse all the commenters here of being idiots, hateful people, and somehow connected to Justin's family. When in reality we are people who have become riveted by this case and want to discuss the logic and lack of logic displayed with regards of anything that comes up in connection to the people involved. We have minds that work well and have made us successful people in life. But if we disagree with these people who barely have a grasp on the language they speak, we are idiots and biased by the connections they imagine we have.
*And most importantly, they continue to overlook every single thing that Trista does while simultaneously trying to railroad Justin for the same. The whole point so many of us make is that Trista does things and it's excused, Justin does them OR is rumored to have done things and it's inexcusable.
Exhausting. anon. Trista has a missing child. Justin has a missing child. Trista has accused Justin of horrible things and in her "frustration" she uses terrible language and accuses him of murder and tries to get a reaction out of him. But because you have decided Justin is the villain, you excuse what she does. What you are BLIND to is that Justin has a missing child and you have excused her using that "communication style" with him and are here admonishing him over replying to her in kind. It's just... exhausting.
Thank you Polly Anna:) Very good post!
Deletesigned:getrealpeople
Ditto, to what Selena said.
Deletesigned:getrealpeople
...frustration...
DeleteAwesome Selena! *WORD!*
DeleteI am so sick of the harassment people bring here to dish out to you and your family. I can only imagine how you feel about it. They have another place to go to spew their bullshit. I've been on this site with you from the beginning. My experience of you is that you love your family, you have reasons to believe the way you do, and you listen to other opinions stated respectfully. I don't find you to be close minded at all.
DeleteThanks Space.
DeleteMy filter is dirty...What do you say when you have spoken everything you can possibly think of to say about something and someone wants and believes there is more? There is nothing more to say.There is only so many ways you can say something...
Step back...your to close...I have stepped back and that is the very reason I am not pointing fingers. I do not know who took AYLA.I dont have the luxury of knowing where to focus my pain and anger...will it be the next anon? Who has asked me the same questions over and over and I answer over and over...who calls me ABUSIVE names...over and over and you know what? You others either watch or you chime in...and you dare come here and call Justin abusive....lol lol
Well, Selena, it's obvious that some only come in here to harass you. It's disgusting. You're not a suspect and you've not done anything wrong. You still carry yourself with dignity even with a "dirty filter" - you are much kinder to them than they are to you.
DeleteI know you don't tend toward saying anything about Trista, but I can. That "abuse list" from yesterday with Justin's supposed "abuses" highlighted - if one was highlighted for Trista there would have been a lot more. I find it ridiculous that Trista is put out there as a paragon of truth and virtue and Justin as a monster.
Selena, what makes you say Trista and Jessica's home was abusive to Ayla? Why was she really sent to live with Justin after Trista left for rehab if she was safe with Jessica? What did Jessica mean by sending the daddy's princess pajamas? Why did she accuse Justin of abuse and then disappear?
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DeleteDrugs...hard drugs were and are used by the women in that family. Would you leave your kids with any of them? They are addicts.Phoebe bought the PJ's that AYLA was wearing.She has the receipt. I dont know why she accused and then split. The answer to that could very well break this case wide open. Why indeed did she do that. GT says that is a sure fire sign of guilt...but not in this case apparently. This is the case that is upside down. All guilty signs do not matter when it comes to the REynolds.
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*gives the best raspberry of her entire life* You are abusive in your words and manners. You dont count at all anon. I gave up people like you a few years back. You are not worth the energy.
ummmm That was my damned raspberry! Figures....best in my life and my names not on it! errrr
DeleteTo funny... I dont even want to explain...This instant posting is a bit weird to get used to...ok Ill explain! after I posted. only half of my post was showing...the bottom half.I thought I left signature as anon!
Delete....nvm. *laughs at herself and walks off*
selena-if justin thought trista took ayla then why didnt he call her when he woke up and she was gone and ask her if she had her?
Deletea convo like this
justin-trista ayla is gone, did you fucking take her or what?
no call to the mother.......interesting.....
this sounds innocent to me.....ummkay..
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DeleteSimple. He was being told by friends and family and then LE not to. To let the police handle it. Calling her and then showing up at her door is exactly what he wanted to do. Not that he knew for sure it was her- he didn't know which Reynolds family door to show up at, nor did he know where to find most of them. Not that difficult to understand. He thought that SINCE someone had broken into his home and TAKEN his child, that he should think as clearly as possible about the ramifications of every step he took. And everyone around him was saying to breathe in, breathe out, let the police handle it. He never, ever, for one second thought it was going to last longer than ONE DAY before Ayla was located.
Thats where you WRONG... No Matter WHEN these kind of statements are make, HOW these statements are made, WHOM these statements where made to, or WHY these statements are used, it IS BOTH abusive AND manipulating....IF Trista said these type of things, SHE would have been abusive or manipulating... what I DONT understand is how someone/ANYONE can accept this and pass it as "frustration"
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is that the pot calling the kettle black? look how YOU are RESPONDING to this post! You're basically YELLING because some people may have a different opinion than you!!!!!! If you look at the texts as a whole, they are both in the WRONG with how they are addressing each other.
DeleteSeriously anon...stop yelling! Lol;-)
DeleteAnon... TRISTA did use that same abusive language!!! Good grief. Are you really totally unable to see through your own biased perception? Listen to yourself. This conversation has become redundant. So let's talk about the texts now because I'm so over reading these anon's railing on and on about HOW HE TALKS TO HER. She talks to him in an ugly, abusive, antagonistic way. You can't see that? Awesome. But please go find a blog to talk on that accepts your kind of logic.
Deletemy take on these texts is that Justin is sick of being asked by Trista the same things over and over about his missing daughter, when he's made it clear that he doesn't have the answers. He was dealing with her obvious ploys to get him riled up, and it seems that he was doing what most people would do, which is getting irritated at someone whose intention was to irritate. He has a missing child, and she thinks she can goad him endlessly. (by the sounds of the anon posters here, she can get away with just that and they will justify it for her.)
Justin should be frustrated. and it appears that he is. He should be devastated. It appears that he is. He should be looking for answers. I have knowledge that, in fact, he is and has been for many months regardless of what happens on these blogs or in public opinion. He believes that his daughter was kidnapped and the people employed by the state to help him clearly gave up many months ago. He is scared, but more of Ayla never being found than anything else. Of course he's probably scared that he will get convicted of something he didn't do- that's a reasonable fear. All one has to do is look at the details of this case and you can see that it's a possibility and it would be twice the devastation. The biggest fear is that Ayla will be missing for ever. Was she sold? Is she being raised by a lunatic? Is she being raised by some very nice family who has no idea they have a kidnapped baby? Is she being fed regularly? WHERE is she??? Obviously he's angry and frustrated! And who wouldn't be in his situation? She keeps asking him about things that the answers have been given for again and again. If she doesn't know where Ayla is then fine, she's entitled to ask them. But for anyone to think that she's allowed to be angry and frustrated but Justin is not..that's just idiotic.
Very true @ "gimme a break". I think that what those people are missing is the ability to even view it in the perspective of "He's in the very same boat that she is in." Their inability to do that, their certainty that they are "right" about his guilt (despite 7 months and not an arrest to be had)... renders them incapable of the clarity we have.
DeleteTrista has been accusing Justin of abuse and murder of his daughter for seven months. Can anyone person reading here today say that if you were him you would not at some point have started to lash back even just the tiniest bit. And really she has not only been doing it for public view as we all know but now we can see she has also been harassing him privately as well. And her and her family have threatened him in public and been verbally abusive her own dad threatened to kill him. He has said not one word except to swear back a bit in a private conversation and for that we should judge him??? There was certainly more he could have come out and said or done but he did not. From all the dirt we have now seen on Trista and her family he could have come out and slung quite a bit of mud of his own and he would not have had to make one thing up. But he did not. I say sometimes even the best of us swear when pushed to the edge of our patience.
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I took 6 months before anyone knew about this baby
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I'll never give up hope that they will find Ayla.
That was so sad. Amazing that it seemed like an acceptable thing for that mother to do. Drugs do terrible things to people, don't they? I have to also wonder if there were underlying mental issues aside from her drug habit. I'd imagine so. Thank goodness the police found that little boy.
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Hmmm....this woman never heard the man come in the house.....strangers do enter homes and abduct children
ReplyDeletehttp://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/07/10/sierra-newbold-terry-lee-black_n_1663424.html
I saw that on Nancy Grace. The man knew how to get in, he knew where he was going once he got in, and he was out in less than 8 minutes.
DeleteTell me again, why is kidnapping ruled out in this case?!!!!!???!!!
I don't know and I'm so angry that I just could scream sometimes. No child deserves this kind of stone walling by a police department that feels like they've got the answers locked up long ago and are just going to sit by and wait now for someone to unravel. This is so unfair to a beautiful little girl. OF COURSE she could have been taken by anyone. Stranger. Family member. Neighbor. Why is it okay to sweep these cases under the rug when the answers don't paint themselves in yellow highlighter paint across a parking lot? Detectives need to detect and Investigators need to investigate. And the jurors have NOT been called for yet so everyone of the ones that have been prematurely doing their jobs need to go home and rest up.
DeleteBecause of all the blood that was found! Open your eyes!
DeleteThis is the kind of thing that my friends and I have discussed so many times. It's just, scary, to think that this could happen to anyone. And not just the kidnapping, but the handling of the case by local police! Or state police. Or whoever is responsible for the way the case went. At one point I was so outraged that LE wasn't looking elsewhere (I mean, it was obvious); and then I started thinking (In about March) that the reason HAD to be that they had, in the 2+ months time up to that point, discovered absolutely convincing evidence and that their vague statements had to mean that they knew Someone in Ayla's paternal family or the girlfriend had actually killed her. I then felt stupid for spending weeks being angry at the way this case was appearing, and thought I'd simply been naive.
DeleteBut March turned into April, May, June, and July. I paid super close attention to each thing that was said, and by June I knew with as much certainty as a person can have that this is NOT a case where investigators KNOW what happened to this little girl. I mean, look at the facts alone, first.
Justin lives with two other small children very close to Ayla's age. If any one of them, or Justin were actually clearly guilty, they would have made a statement or made an arrest. They can't just allow such a dangerous person to remain free. To that point, one of the statements made in that last press conference (in response to a reporter) is that "Justin D. is as free to move or go where he wants as anyone here" (I'm kind of paraphrasing, but that is what was said.) They also said there are now only 2 detectives on this case. Well, that meant one of two things. Either they had all the evidence they needed and were literally about to arrest someone; or they truly do not have evidence that leads to a clear conclusion of whether Ayla is alive nor who is responsible. A month and a half has passed since then. If they had what they needed someone would be arrested by now. I don't know how 2 detectives are going to pull together the rest of the much needed evidence to give them the arrest and solid conviction that they need at this point. This delay can only mean that they do not know anything definitive. Sorry to those who think otherwise. I still can't believe how many people jumped on the insane train and started calling for arrests, having children taken from parents, burning down their homes, physically harming the Dipietro family, etc etc. What person in their right mind thinks that kind of behavior is rational?!! Holy freaking moley.
My eyes ARE open Anon. That's why I'm still here. There wasn't "all" that blood found that you are alluding to.
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DeleteIt is frightening to me to know that LE may work against the innocent, and not to know where to turn when your child goes missing. *This* is *not* the world I want to live in.
May I note, there is no evidence that Ayla is deceased. There is no evidence other than, Ayla disappeared the night of the 16/17 th.
Everything else is speculation at this point.
99% of missing children are returned home safe....now that is a fact combined with hope, which I choose...and what
do you have? A chance.
Ayla deserves a chance. Those who believe, will agree.
LE has never not once said they do not believe Ayla is alive based on blood found. LE has never not once said they do not believe Ayla is alive based on evidence found. LE has not ever said they believe Ayla was not abducted based on evidence. They have only said they have no evidence to support an abduction.
DeleteThat is not true. LE has said they believe Ayla is dead because of the amount of blood. They may not have publicly said that, but they are telling Trista that exact thing.
DeleteAre they really? Even Trista has not said those exact words. That LE has told her that because of the amount of blood found of Ayla's LE believes her to be dead. I feel as though if this were true Trista would have made this statement. She has said anything else that she wanted to. Why not state this? Perhaps because that might be pushing the envelope too far? And again why wouldn't LE make this statement themselves? Seems to me that lots of info comes through the mouths of Trista and Jeff. Until it comes through LE as far as I am concerned it is not a fact.
DeleteHmmm Weird another "truth" that LE is only telling to Trista. It is very interesting that LE would give information on a case to anyone. Yes even a parent. Especially when McCausland himself has said no one has been ruled out as a suspect in this case. No one. Seems like a not savvy move on LE's part if that were the truth.
DeleteTrista did make that exact statement. The proof is out there on the internet even now.
DeleteWhere is this proof? Trista said no such thing. Liar.
DeletePlease post the link. Because I would like to show another example of Trista stating her "truth". I really think LE should see all of their so called words they have spoken to Trista in print. So please show me the link where Trista says this. I do believe they are keeping closer track of this than Trista thinks.
DeleteI don’t understand the point in posting these text messages.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Obscure, and others, there is nothing abusive about the texts from Justin. There is also nothing incriminating or damning towards Justin. So, again, what is the point?
How did all the dates and times get messed up? Obscure, you didn’t seem to have a problem posting the texts you had. Hey, might be a moot point, but I’m not very trusting of this group.
Trista continues to tell the media, Justin won’t talk to her, she texts him and he doesn’t respond. Yet, there are now 86 text messages, between Trista and Justin, just made recently.
I just can’t help feeling that Trista knows something about where Ayla is.
Signed:getrealpeople
If Trista and Justin were still "seeing" each other up until she went into rehab, maybe someone found out and wasn't very happy about that. What better way to get revenge (sound familiar) than to take something that belongs to both Trista and Justin (remember Justin was getting threatening texts). Definitely a possibility.
DeleteI keep thinking of mamamen's thoughts about the commenter who wanted to write Ray. I think Trista would protect him.
Deletesigned:getrealpeople
Anon..that is such a frightening thought. Do you think he could have convinced anyone to do that for him- while he sits in jail? That's so hard to imagine someone getting involved with who wasn't (a) the type of criminally minded person who would have attempted kidnappings in the first place (b)somehow obligated to Ray (c) driven internally to take Ayla for some reason. Nonetheless, if that is a possibility then it's an awfully scary prospect because I would think in that circumstance there would not be a live child to find. :( I do hope that those possibilities have been uncovered. I also would love to know what Ray and Trista's conversations were like during their visits after Ayla went missing. It would give some insight to everything.
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Conversations both before and after. I have felt all along the texts Justin says he had been receiving were related to Ayla's disappearance. I believe the plan was to have Justin take the fall and it hasn't happened. Just my opinion and I pray everyday that Ayla will be found alive.
Deletesome very interesting comments on statement analysis
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No, those are not interesting comments. They are more of the same that we have always heard from them. My eyes certainly are wide open and I've seen more than I'd have ever liked to in terms of outrageous and illogical behavior- and those people are the starting point. They are totally unable to consider that their stance could be wrong. They are so personally attached to their opinions that they can't begin to see through their self adhered wool bandages. They are hateful, vicious and violent under a guise of intellectual sounding vocabulary [dependent upon the commenter.] It makes it that much worse to trudge through what they have to say. Eventually you learn that they say the same things over and over, and that they look to Pee Hyatt for pats on the head after they lavish him with praise. To anyone else, Hyatt seems like a self aggrandizing kook. But in their world, he is the king of know it alls and they aspire to be just like him. I know I must meet people like them every day but I wish that were not the case. IT pains me to know how many people out there honestly think that they can evaluate things from afar, and know the truth of anyone else's actions or internal make-up.
DeleteIt's absurd. By placing these links everywhere as he always has, Pee Hyatt has inserted himself in the case and sent his little page view ticker into the stratosphere; and has therefore assuaged his ego needs. His ego is clearly one that needs to be refueled often because he lacks internal goodness. Being an internet personality he has this group fooled into believing he's a terrific guy. I would bet dollars to doughnuts there is a deep void there created by some heavy hitting secrets from the past.
Anyway, no the commentary really isn't interesting to us, "Eyes". It would be interesting if they made valid points. Instead they use a collection of assumptions, [intentionally?] overlooked details, rumors turned "fact" and loosely connected facts to create a scenario that doesn't even exist. They have done it repeatedly to anyone involved in this case and in many others. It's a sickness. I have to wonder if there is someone out there talented enough to analyze the statement analyzers need to analyze others? The very fact that they engage in this really says a lot about those individuals. But that’s for another blog. I will address this one comment though:
""What is very meaningful is that while Justin camp carried on with "Trista did it, Trista'a s sister did it" stories (whichever would stick, for them) apparently, this is not what he must be thinking because there is not even an angry allegation from Justin, the "concerned" father to Trista in the text messages, demanding Ayla to be returned to him. Telling, huh? Would you like to bet that after reading this, his texts will be more blaming:) He needs to be consistent to be believable, after all. It's too late, though, Justin.""
Justin did state something along the lines of "WHERE IS my daughter, Trista", which invalidates the commenters point. Additionally, he clearly is not willing to go all over the media accusing Trista because despite what he suspects, he is intelligent and rational enough to know that he simply does NOT KNOW where Ayla is or who took her. So to go on the attack these past 6 months would have been as unfair and unproductive as... what she and her cronies have done to him and his family. But it is worth noting that the commenter thinks Justin will suddenly start being more accusatory because of her comment. (a. self aggrandize much, like your king Pee Hyatt?) b. Justin has been absolutely consistent in his actions and non-actions. That is a nonsense statement she [or he] made. Trista is the one who has been fickle and contradictory all along, responding at all times to what is said on the internet about her.
Bleh. We don't like SA kooks. Stop spamming here Peter.
DeleteI'm beginning to think Trista went to Waterville that night, got into a huge fight with Justin (3:30 noise) where Ayla got critically injured in the process, then booked over to her future in-laws house to hide leaving Justin holding the bag and the body. Justin did a quick clean up and at first tried not to blame Trista and even asked for immunity for her. But now she is continually throwing mud at him, and eventually, he is going to get pissed and tell the truth, prison be damned.
DeleteOr I could be just as deluded as the rest of them. I give up. I have changed my mind so many times during the course of this case I'm scared my brain is being blended into mush.
Well said, Pescara! (That page view ticker is more than ego, it is also money. Some of the stories he runs can't be fully seen because of the ads encroaching them.)
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Thinking about Amanda Benner: I did notice during the vigil in January that Amanda Benner seemed very distant towards Trista, almost as if Amanda was taking it all in with some skepticism. Although I found Amanda's cold demeanor towards Trista striking, I then thought that I must be wrong in my interpretation.
ReplyDeleteBut now that Amanda says she views Trista as engaging in a major wrong, to such an extent that Amanda will never speak to Trista again, I think my initial sense about Amanda Benner was correct. Amanda does not support Trista at this time, and whatever the reason for that it is not a minor matter, is not something that should be overlooked, and likely has to do with Ayla's disappearance.
Exactly, Adrianna. It couldn't possibly have been something minor that led her to this kind of major turning point in their friendship. Even if there was something *not* related to Ayla's disappearance that had caused it, Amanda seems intelligent and I can't see her having chosen to make that kind of statement in a public forum at this time. It seems obvious that Amanda is skeptical of Trista's version of things as most of us are. The back-pedaling on Trista's families part over recent months has been glaring. The lies and strange actions are just piling on top of one another and Amanda seems to have known something was wrong with the situation before the rest of us did.
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@Adrianna and Veronica
DeleteMaybe, whatever she knows, or thinks she knows, has been gnawing at her all this time. Strange that she showed up and said what she did.
signed:getrealpeople
Especially given the fact that Amanda Brenner is not above breaking the law herself, or helping someone else who has either. So whatever she suspects Trista of doing must be very bad indeed.
Deletedid you see the look of sheer seething disgust on amandas face in the sentinel photo, when she looked at justin. her face said she thought he was the biggest piece of scum she ever saw.and trista is there hanging all over him like a lovelorn puppy. amanda prob couldnt take it anymore, trista gushing over that slimeball.....trista resting her head on his shoulder, trista droolin.. i feel sick just typing it.
Deleteis there anyone in this sad saga that isnt a drunk, a druggie, an abuser, an abuse victim,a criminal or is dating,married to one,related to one, or has one as a baby daddy or mama? poor kids....! what ever happened to the american dream of having a married mommy and daddy who love each other, who are law abiding and hard working living in a little house with a yard and a swing set?
DeleteYou probably should look at that photo again. That look of disgust may well be directed at Trista for the sham Amanda thinks she's concocted and dragged her into. Obviously Trista believed Justin was a good father (like she's said) and believed he would never hurt Ayla (like she's said) and there is still no real reason to believe otherwise. And yet here Trista is trying to frame Justin. And then acting like she's not trying to frame Justin. And then saying she'll never give up. And then saying there is no reason to hope. And then saying that no one should be judging her for any of her reactions or anything because no one else is going through what she is. And then she condones judging Justin for his words or actions. And,and,and...the merry go round keeps spinning the most convoluted charade ever witnessed. Maybe Amanda is giving her the stink eye, not Justin. ;) I would be. Maybe Amanda is the first one to call BS from within that clan and that day was the beginning of her realization.
DeleteActually Amanda is on probation for trying to break her hubby out of jail. There is too much drama around Trista these days and her probation officer probably advised her to cut trail and stay away.
DeleteI think it's the oter way around, Justin trying to frame Trista and her family. There is no way I believe anyone was balsy enough to enter home where several cars ere in the driveway and take a chance of waking people up when walking across the creaky wood floors in thattiny house, especially since Trista believed Pheebsie had gun in the home. How would that person know what room Ayla was in since it was said she was sleeping in a room shenormally wasn't in, Pheebsie's room? How would that peson know she wasn't downstairs in the basement with Justin? There was no evidence of an intruder, that anyone knocked anything over stumbling in the dark.
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DeleteYou may not know anyone that is ballsy enough...but in this one case we have people ballsy enough to a hell of a lot more than that. Just because this shit doesnt exist in you picketed fence world doesnt mean it is not out there...this just tells me that you are not one of Trista's peers.You kow how some middle and upper class people rent air planes to take them on top of a mountain to ski down slopes never skied before.Its for the adrenaline rush.These crimes happen everyday around the people Trista knows.EVERY day.To some its a means to get money,its a living...others its the high of doing it and not getting caught and to others they do it just cause they can...you havent a clue about these people....how bout adding in the highest rate in the country for use of prescription drugs? These people poppin that shit down their throats and then doing this stuff.My advise to you is dont walk the streets at night in their neighborhood. You are an easy target.
Amanda stated that she came on this blog because her husband was being talked about. As for her friendship with Trista, there are many reasons why they could have parted ways, not sure it's related to Ayla. It could be, or could not be.
ReplyDeleteBonnie, while under normal circumstances that could be true, I beg you to realize that pretty much NO ONE would abandon their friend publicly on a highly viewed blog in the midst of their friend enduring the tragic disappearance of her baby girl.
DeleteUnless they suspected that said friend was playing a horrific game and she wants no part of it. And wants to publicly distance herself.
Perhaps their friendship had already fizzled over the years, they grew apart, but came together again briefly during tragedy.
DeleteExcept that Amanda and her husband were Ayla's God parents so how much could the friendship have "fizzled" ?
DeleteI am glad to learn that Selena will see to it that her family files a lawsuit against Tori Gifford. Tori is a slanderer of major proportions and she should answer for all the hate and pain that she has inflicted on innocent people.
ReplyDeleteTori should have a slew of lawsuits against her. She may not realize it but there is actually a set of laws that protects citizens of the United States of America from her kind of hateful malicious behavior. Can't wait to see her get what she deserves. She is certainly in first place for most obnoxious and least law abiding of the lot.
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Man oh man. I’ve been doing some research, and I’m NOT happy with LE in regards to Ayla. Here’s the recap:
According to the Portland Press’ account of the timeline, the FBI arrived in Waterville on Sunday, December 18…the day after the reported abduction.
On December 27, CBS News and The Huffington Post broke the following story:
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-57348647-504083/missing-maine-toddler-ayla-reynolds-was-kidnapped-police-say/
So…ten days after the abduction, LE states that Ayla WAS kidnapped, clearly with the input of the FBI.
Bob Vear says he knew of Ayla’s blood on December 24. If this is true, than LE KNEW about the blood and STILL believed Ayla was kidnapped.
Why won’t LE explain the 360 on their original story? That is a VERY fair question. I jumped on Phoebe for changing her story…now I’m calling LE out on the exact same grounds.
Most importantly, why no comment from the FBI? I was under the initial impression that the Feds poo-pooed the abduction theory. Clearly, I was wrong. Their findings DID point to a kidnapping.
Regarding:
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The REPORTER stated that Ayla was kidnapped--NOT law enforcement. Did you read mckeekitty's followup comments too? CLEARLY after writing the comment you cut and pasted, mckeekitty realized law enforcement, and the FBI never stated that their was a kidnapping. The article went on to say, "CBS Boston reports Massey would not hypothesize on whether her abductor was a family member, someone who lived in her father's house, or a stranger."
Police Chief Massey's actual words were:
"At this point in the investigation, we are confident that Ayla did not walk out of the house by herself."
"We believe that someone removed Ayla from the house and that is where our investigation is focusing," says Massey. "I don't want to speculate beyond that, because we do not know who took Ayla out of that house and under what circumstances she was removed."
Why don't you post her followup comments?
I meant 'there'--not 'their'.....
DeleteI didnt want the rest of the follow ups, Rose City. Who jumped in and added their two cents?? Wordman...Did McKitty question that idiot? No...She just kept right on babbling. Bleh bleh bleh. Keep a tight reign on them wordman...they are starting to question stuff!
DeleteMy posting her babbling didnt have much to do with what she was saying so much as it was why she was saying...Things are starting to get shaky over there. I wouldnt want Mckitty breathing down my shirt.Questioning stuff. There is a tiny trickle of doubt, Jeff. Not by some anon...by one of your regular commenters...DOUBT. That is gonna knaw at her until she finds answers....Then she will, in her hunt, find more...thats how it happens...
"CBS Boston reports Massey would not hypothesize on whether her ABDUCTOR was a family member, someone who lived in her father's house, or a stranger."
ab·duc·tor (b-dktr)
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1. One, such as a kidnapper, who abducts.
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/abductor
TIn reference to the online dictionary definition you posted, the words 'abduction' and 'kidnapped' were used by the REPORTER--not law enforcement. Paraphrasing an individual's statements inaccurately is unfortunately not unheard of even in mainstream media.
DeleteIn, not TIn.... That's what happens when trying to write on an Android touch screen phone with a sleeping toddler's head resting on my arm.
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DeleteSomething is happening. "There is a tiny trickle down of doubt". Questions are being asked and eyes are starting to open!
signed:getrealpeople
Agreed, getreal.
DeleteYes, and it's about time.
DeleteI would have given up on that lot a loooooong time ago. *whispers* shhhhhh Thats the wackadoo nesting ground.If they werent born there...they blog hop to get there. Instinct thing... like salmon spawning.
DeletePLEASE don't beckon them over here by talking about them. not that they don't already post as anons. I just would so much rather discuss the case than their deeply lacking personalities and intellect. :(
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DeleteYeah!!! Let this child be found. Let all the doubt be looked at and the answers found for this child and her family!
ReplyDeleteThe pressure needs to be put on WPD and MSP. They ultimately are in charge, and they better have Ayla's best interests at heart, with nothing else standing in the way. What would be so detrimental if they were to start over and admit this might actually be a kidnapping and that someone *did* walk into that house, take Ayla and walk out leaving no physical evidence. It **has** been done before. LE **has**been wrong before. It wouldn't be looked at as wrong if they were to change their stance back to an abduction/ kidnapping...matter of fact, I think the public would welcome and embrace that. I know I would gain more respect for them if they would be open to reviewing their investigation thus far from day 1. Especially since there were very detailed eyewitnesses of Trista with Ayla that have been brushed off by LE. It would, of course, be in the best interest of helping little Ayla come home. That is their only goal,right?
ReplyDeleteITA Bring Ayla home, please14.7.12 ITA
DeleteThere is one posting as Brig AYLA home on the other blog...this person is planning on posting a floor plan of my sisters house. WOW... so any wackadoo that wants to go grab Gabby or knife Li or what not...has a complete floor plan...Great thinking!! Idiots. Great minds over there...I tell you.
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DeleteHay, WTH none of the dumb people.
DeleteThat is uncalled for. You ought to be more than ashamed.
I usually say nothing to the likies of you, but ..you disgust me.
I hope that Obscure deletes your comment.
none of the dumb people who allows men to beat her14.7.12
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wow...just wow and I dont even have to see the post to know how much class it took to write that.
As usual, I'm confused, bc I never go over to the ugly side to read comments....is someone else posting as Bring Ayla home? Thanks for the heads up...I might know who it is, although I don't care, I just don't want to be confused as the same poster...happy to change my name.
DeleteSelena,
DeleteJust FYI, that is not me. I would never post someone's floor plan. I don't own that type of ignorance. That could lead to someone being vulnerable to crime, especially one who is already susceptible to same. Not my style...I prefer to protect people. I'm sorry if there was any confusion!
CC
Glad someone has some common sense.
Deletehttp://www.onlinesentinel.com/news/waterville-mansold-cocaine-nearschool-say-police_2012-07-13.html
ReplyDelete;P
Selena, I'm missing the connection to that article. Sorry, I'm kinda slow this morning/afternoon.
Deletethis is Ashley Pouliots fiance
Deleteselena where did justin put ayla? why dont you find out and end this already.
DeleteWas any one of those children hers that were with him when he was selling?
DeleteAs usual, almost all of the Justin attackers are criminals. And *this* is who LE is aligned with in terms of mindset? GOD HELP AYLA. :(
Delete@ a taxpayer- are you serious? lol. As noted time and time again, Selena and her family and their supporters believe Justin didn't harm Ayla. And a good case can be made for that theory. Why don't you start hounding the police to put the Dipietros on the backburner since more than six months have passed and they have yet to figure out this case? If they can't make an arrest, maybe you are wrong. Maybe the investigation took a wrong turn. What makes you so sure that you couldn't possibly have it wrong? nevermind. You'll just regurgitate the same old list of piecemeal crap that we've heard all along. Newsflash. If it was valid, rather than piecemeal crap, they'd have made arrests by now. Don't sing yourself any fairy tale lullabies about that either. There would be.
Deletesure. elisha may say that publicly but she knows her brother was involved.that is why lance got pissed when she questioned justin.justin who said he smoked the poly publicly but joked with his buddies in portland about bombing it. i am sure jeffrey dahmers parents didnt want to believe he did the things he did either... no one wants to believe their friends or relatives are monsters, right?
Deleteseems to me the 'story' has changed so many times because it's just that a 'story' , a made up scenario, cooked up in the kitchen of violette ave.
seems kinda hinky pheebsie and elisha are protecting themselves with the same lawyer but justin isn't included. they know and are covering their own asses....
This is such a nonsensical comment. By your logic then, Trista's STORY keeps changing because it's a made up scenario. I agree with that, so thanks for pointing it out!
DeleteName ONE change in the DiPietro's story? Please back up whatever you find with links so the rest of us can follow along!
Thanks in advance!
I couldn't believe how obscenely short Trista's short shorts were that she wore to the walk today. The last time we saw her she had on a top cut so low it was outrageous.
ReplyDeleteFor Trista this is obviously still about her being the drama queen and how much attention she can get for herself, whether through skimpy clothes, dramatic acting, or otherwise.
Trista seems so desperate for attention that I would put nothing past her.
^ Oh look. Another of Tori's trolls posting garbage to make commenters here seem like this is what they talk about and care about.
DeleteNOTE to readers- when you see this kind of topic arise, have no doubt that it is coming from those who wish to make commenters here look as ignorant as they themselves are. If you go to their stomping grounds you will find that what they post is nonsense, what they believe is nonsense, the stories they make up are nonsense. Since they can't handle being disagreed with by people who have SUBSTANCE to discuss, they come here pretending to be us and posting...you guessed it...nonsense.
http://bangordailynews.com/2012/07/14/news/portland/trista-reynolds-keeps-attention-on-ayla-with-portland-walk/
DeleteThey aren't that short, but if I were her I'd try to look a bit more 'motherly' when I know I'm in the public eye.
Doesn't that look like Jessica on the left? The pregnant women is Trista's step-sister.
http://bangordailynews.com/2012/07/14/news/portland/trista-reynolds-keeps-attention-on-ayla-with-portland-walk/
DeleteNot to stick up for Trista, as I think she has many faults of her own, but you sound like a typical catty and jealous female. It has been boiling hot. People tend to wear less clothing when it's hot.
Deletebystander-there is nothing wrong with her shorts. If your ass wasn't a double-wide I am sure you'd be trying to squeeze into the same.Shorts are called shorts for a reason-they are short pants. short-shorts or daisy dukes are cut more like a bathing suit. these are not them.you are just looking for a reason to bitch.
DeleteThe fashion police obviously overlooked this fashion fuck up! Not that it matters, but you know your shorts are too short when you look in the mirror and see your vagina lips forming a camel toe. Where I'm from, we call those "coochie cutters." It is hot outside, so I understand the need to wear less clothing. That can still be done tastefully while allowing your va-jay-jay to breathe! More importantly, this is not the way to portray yourself and your reproductive organs in the media!
DeleteJust saying...
Her shorts aren't inappropriate at all. They're short, but no shorter than most seen on many women when the weather is in the 90's like it is. I think that's quite unfair to Trista, and I'm no fan of her. She doesn't even have a lowcut top on. I see no reason for it to be mentioned & dragged out as damning evidence against her. Unfair & unreasonable.
DeleteI agree Michelle, her shorts aren't inappropriate. It is hot outside.
DeleteI am going to have to side with Obscure on this one. What you wear and how you present yourself says something about yourself. Trista has appeared in low cut shirts, tight mini skirts leaving not much to the imagination. You name it. She most times seems to be more concerned about fixing up for the camera, makeup done to a tee. Even in the early days. Sorry but to me that all sends a strong if not odd message.
DeleteJust because the weather is in the 90's does not mean you have to wear your "daisy dukes" to your daughters walk. There is a time and a place for everything. I do not wear my bikini walking down main street even though it is perfectly appropriate for the beach. Just saying. Have a little class.
DeleteObviously, it's pointless for us to debate this. You think they're daisy dukes. I think they're shorts that are a little on the short side. Daisy dukes, to me, are more like underwear, so that part of the buttcheeks would show if she bends a tiny bit, or if she was just standing there. Sorry, but that is not the case here. They're not modest shorts, but geesh...Trista's not a nun.
DeleteGive it up with the sexist slut-shaming. You guys wonder why your gender is laughed at and exploited so much. Look at how you treat each other!
DeleteUmmm...what? What does that even mean? I don't see anyone slamming anyone. For all you know, the people replying with gender neutral IDs are guys, along with the girl names. We can make our names anything we want here. I'm really a big hairy guy named Ed for all you know...lol.
DeleteWell I will agree with you there Michelle Trista is not a nun you are right about that.
DeleteAnd Anon our gender is "laughed at and exploited"? Hmmm seems as though you have your own low opinions of woman. However I do not agree that people are immune to exploitation based on gender. Only based on behaviors and choices.
Anon re "sexist slut-shaming" - bullshit - if Justin would have worn a speedo and a shirt undone to there at any function for Ayla that would also be inappropriate. Would anyone be saying "well, it was hot out?" to those who said "but, but, I could see his willy?" I believe we'd be hearing it wasn't appropriate for him to be dressed like he's out to pick up chicks at an event for his missing daughter. That's not "sexist" - it applies to both of them. How she puts herself out there is a valid point of discussion.
DeleteOur "gender" is "laughed at and exploited" because of how we treat each other? Such as you've witnessed here? I don't see it anon, nor the sexist part - until your comment. Perhaps you'd be more comfortable posting with the male dominance feel over at SA.
Are we looking at the same picture's of the same person? Follow me for a minute here. I personally was not commenting on her looks but since you brought it up she is not really someone most women would probably be getting jealous over and that is the nicest way I can put it. I believe however that what people in the comments above "were" trying to point out is that her choice of clothing have been less than classy under the circumstances.
DeleteI've seen a lot of talk about why Justin didn't call Trista.
ReplyDelete1. Trista didn't have her own phone. He probably did not know who to call. I have not seen one statement in the REAL MEDIA that Justin only called 911 that day and no one else.
2. Phoebe's first comments were that she was afraid that Justin would KICK IN DOORS. This obviously points to the family suspecting Trista.
3. Trista was not allowed to listen to the 3rd 911 call.
4. The police were at the Motel immediately, and Trista couldn't even be located via telephone by the police for 2 HOURS AFTER AYLA WAS REPORTED MISSING.
Does it take 4 hours to get to Machiasport from Waterville? Im too lazy to google it, that is how sick of this story I am. In order for Trista's story to be believable, LE starting calling her 2 hours before she finally woke up, and she was halfway there. Then it took her another 2 hours to get back to Portland. If Waterville is 1.5 hours away from Portland, this puts her 30 min. outside of Waterville, right?
Yet Trista went to Portland, not Waterville. Why?
Good points!
DeleteGreat great points!!!!
DeleteBelieve it or not, they are waking up to Trista's bullshit over on SA.
DeleteObscure, is that you? You go girl!
anon, I went to check but didn't see where anyone was "waking" up over there, seems more like just the same old rhetoric to me, other than some anonymous comments
DeleteMy Father was a detective in Chicago. Many a case was sent his way for review...why? Not because he had the answers, but because he had a fresh set of eyes. No one was too good that they couldn't ask for help.
ReplyDeleteMSP: we can only hope and pray you've done the same. In the name of Ayla Bell Reynolds we pray.
It appears that Jessica Reynolds was at the walk yesterday. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EL077dWjw4M&feature=youtu.be
ReplyDeleteohh my i thought she was in hiding, mia, disapeared without a trace, lifted onto mars by a stealth spaceship so she could hide ayla .....
Deletelooks like none of those rumours are true. there she was in public no less with cameras rolling...thought people were saying her family wanted nothing to do with her, didnt know wheres she was a holed up...DONT LOOK THAT WAY TO ME!!!!!
more rumors debunked: if that was her, it's yet another lie by the Reynolds clan confirmed. THEY are the ones who said they weren't in touch with her because of some issue or another. Nice try, though.
DeleteExactly, Michelle. The REYNOLDS started that rumor on their own (or through their brainless drones), so all this confirms is that Jessica either a) came out of hiding for this public event or b) never was in hiding.
DeleteThanks!
You want to know why Jessica came out of hiding? They were selling t-shirts and bracelets and she wanted her share.
DeleteJust saying.
A question for Selena: Trista has said that Justin told her in the weeks before Ayla's disappearance that he feared someone was going to take Ayla. Do you know if this is true?
ReplyDeleteOf course I don't know if this is true or not, nor in what context he may have said this to Trista. We don't know what their conversations may have been about.
DeleteHowever if he did, I can think of a simple reason why.
As far as I know Justin didn't have full legal, court ordered custody of Ayla. He may have feared that Trista or one of her family members would come and take Ayla from his home. Perhaps at a time when he wasn't at the home.
Trista has told us that Justin did tell her he was going to go to court to legally get custody of Ayla. This would have given him legal rights and legal recourse in the event that anyone did try to take Ayla.
Perhaps Justin told Trista that he was going to go for full legal custody, because he was worried that someone would or could come to take Ayla, and he would have no legal recourse.
It makes sense to me.
It could also be why Trista went to file paperwork herself for PRR when she did.
Eve...
DeleteI cannot vouch for anything Trista says anymore. When she first started saying she trusted Justin and he was a good Dad and AYLA was safe with him....I agreed 100%. Now when I look at Trista's statements...everything she says has the look and feel as if she is scripted from one page...and these same things get said over and over.Its like she is stuck on certain phrases.I also noticed that these certain phrases were echoes of what others who know nothing about the case have said in the media.To me this means that she knows what the media is saying and in order to push forward she simply repeats everything she has seen in the media.This gives her instant... acceptance.I dont believe that most of what she says is from her.Something that backed up this thought was her comments to Justin in the texts messages.I believe she is being pulled along like a bull with a nose ring...by her "friend" Jeff and others.I have felt this all along.
I have heard conversations of the "feelings of being watched".Cars being parked where they shouldnt be for hours.These are all things that are hind site in these convos...from neighbors.What Justin texted Trista...I dont have first hand info on that.It would definitely be a fear, while trying to get full custody. I agree with S. wholeheartedly.
Tori flat out said in her article that Trista is working with police, not being pulled by Jeff.
DeleteAnon.
DeleteThink about this. If it was/ is the case that Trista is working with MSP, why on earth do you think Trista would want Tori to advertise that fact?
Tori said under the recommendation and guidance of MSP. Sure sounds like Trista was working with them to me.
DeleteThey obviously released the texts because the original plan to provoke Justin into giving up the whereabouts of Ayla didn't work, so now they are trying to make Justin look bad.
"now" they are trying to make Justin look bad? That started back on December 17th - and has been a steady force ever since.
Deletethe reason Trista's attitude toward Justin has changed is because of the way he has stayed away from telling anyone what happened in that house!
DeleteSee if this makes sense (hypothetical). I have removed the middle of Trista's long text to shorten this comment.
ReplyDeleteWe don't have the opening text(s) from Trista. This begins with Justin sending multiple, smaller texts to Trista in response to a diatribe sent the day/night before. Sitting, alone while others eat breakfast, he replies to Trista's comments/questions in individual texts.
...Date:2012.6.28.8.45.52
Whats wrong w u ur boyfriend dump you? What do u want? Ive told u everything trista
...Date:2012.6.28.8.46.25
I will never give up trista and i dont speak those words its not an option and thats the difference you gave up on ayla a long time ago
...Date:2012.6.28.8.51.3
I still pay it thank u very much because im hoping she will b home and until proven otherwise im going to continue too. Eat shit i have one on myself too. It has nothing to do w money never has
...Date:2012.6.28.8.55.29
Ur questions are redundant and retorical o wait let me break it down in your terms ur questions are fuckin retarded and ive answered evrything i know She was at my house and i went there after she went to bed to get my bed you idiot people saw her friday so good try U got more stories than dr suess do u have voices in ur head telling u this shit
...Date:2012.6.28.8.56.50
U look like youve been eating
[I didn't want to add any of my own thoughts on this, but I can't help this one. I suspect this is in reply to Trista saying she can't eat or sleep. Ouch!]
...Date:2012.6.28.8.57.19
I want her home before anything justice will take care of itself y do u think shes not alive why even speak those words
Just as he finishes the task at hand, responds to all of Trista's yesterday prompts - these today prompts roll into his Inbox...
Date:2012.6.28.8.59.43
Hey its Trista so we are going on to five months you ready yet to tell me where or what happened to Ayla? ... can give me that little bit of hope that my baby girl is Alive and alright and coming home to me . The pain i feel everyday is unbearable.
Date:2012.6.28.9.0.19
Today is farther’s day and the one little girl you should be spending it with is our daughter and you can’t because you and your girlfriend and sister murdered Her. Hope your thinking of her today and what you did to her. you don’t deserve to be recognized as a farther because you are a poor excuse for a farther. You know i still have the very first farthers day card Ayla and i bought for you two years ago. Your a joke Justin i hate you.
Here, Trista is replying to Justin's first morning text messages (the ones on top)...
...Date:2012.6.28.9.6.55
No one dumped me where did you get that?
..Date:2012.6.28.9.9.47
I have not Given up i Pray for Her every day i did carry Ayla for Nine months a mother Nows when there is Something wrong with there child. I will never give Up on Ayla. She is my world she is my life. I keep going every day because i know its what Ayla would want.
...Date:2012.6.28.9.14.32
Is it true that your trying to collect Aylas life insurance? Because if so that is Fucked up Justin
The last message is shit-icing on the storm-cake. Trista had to have prompted the response from Justin, that she is now replying to. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
What say all of you?
posted by pogamen 7/15/2012
I think it was Courtney writing the texts, Justin isn't that bright!
Delete@Obscure, Did you get my email story, and are you able to post it on the new page, or do I need to break it down in several posts? I already see where I left out a few key sentences, but no big deal.
ReplyDeleteNo, I have not checked my emails yet. Give me a little bit of time, I'm working on a case brief. I should have your concern addressed later tonight!
DeleteNow, follow me on this hypothetical...
ReplyDeleteI don't believe the following text message is from Trista. I'm not sure what to think about it, but I do believe that Trista would have known that Father's Day was June 17, not June 28. Then there's mention of a card purchased two years ago. It's wording, doesn't seem like Trista at all.
Date:2012.6.28.9.0.19
Today is farther’s day and the one little girl you should be spending it with is our daughter and you can’t because you and your girlfriend and sister murdered Her. Hope your thinking of her today and what you did to her. you don’t deserve to be recognized as a farther because you are a poor excuse for a farther. You know i still have the very first farthers day card Ayla and i bought for you two years ago. Your a joke Justin i hate you.
@Obscure - thanks. Did you know this page has a script problem?
@pogamen - I thought that was odd, too. Firstly, because of a message Trista put on facebook that appeared in a blog wherein she was talking to Ayla and referred to "daddy Ray." Secondly, why does Trista have a card that was supposed to be for Justin?
DeleteMaybe she bought the card, was about to send it to Justin, and changed her mind
DeleteThen she held on to it for 2 years---after moving multiple times and even being homeless.
DeleteYeah, okay...
@pog not aware of the script problem, not even sure what that is! ?
DeleteAll of the text messages are showing a date of 6/28 - that date is not significant.
DeleteWhen was Ayla born ?
ReplyDeleteHer birthday is actually 4/4
DeleteAyla was only 2 1/2 months old on Father's Day 2010. Did Justin even know Ayla existed then?
ReplyDeleteComparing these texts to the previous ones Obscure posted, it doesn't seem to be the same person.
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signed:getrealpeople
No, it seems more likely that Ayla and Trista would be getting a Father's day card for Raymond Fortier.
DeleteAnother thing I find "interesting" is her statement that "Justin is no father" vs writing to Ayla and referring to "daddy Ray." I guess it takes a man to set fire to an apartment building with sleeping children in it to be a daddy.
DeleteHadn't it been mentioned that Justin didn't know of Ayla's existing until she was 6 or 7 months old ?
ReplyDeleteYES! TRISTA put that information out there, so why would she have bought a Father's day card for a man who didn't even know he was a father?
DeleteMORE LIES, MORE SPIN, DECEPTION INDICATED...DO NOT PASS GO, DO NOT COLLECT $200.
And weird that Trista "still has the card" Aren't you supposed to GIVE the card to the father?
DeleteBINGO!
DeleteJustin's camp is the ones that stated that he didn't know Ayla existed until she was older. . Trista has always stated that Justin knew she was pregnant and wanted her to abort Ayla! Get your facts straight, you people are the spinners of lies! I can see Trista buying a card for Justin as she so wanted a father figure for her! She was blind to the fact of how big of a loser this guy was! It happens!
DeleteTHANK YOU to whoever caught the Father's Day card faux pas...
ReplyDeleteSelena- thanks for your reply to my question. I remember in the HLN interview Phoebe saying words to the effect that it was disconcerting to think that someone had been watching the house. I was wondering if this was something Phoebe figured might have happened only after the fact or if the family had seen suspicious activity beforehand that led to Justin telling Trista that he feared someone was going to take Ayla.
ReplyDeleteToo bad one of them doves didnt shit in tristas hair that would have been funny
ReplyDeleteif Trista does hear voices in her head then what might she have done. i don't put a question mark at the end of that thought because i don't want to hear any of the answers to that question and no one should even have to imagine the possible ramifications of that line of thought.
ReplyDeleteTrista is not mentally stable and has not been for many years. her choices and lifestyle exhibit more than the usual fluctuations of a typical youth. she is not simply mercurial, she is bi polar to the extent that she requires medication..a medication she inexplicably says she will not take. she is also an addict who is not in treatment.
her dysfunctional childhood has also left its scars on Trista's behaviors and psyche.
Trista is a blunderer. she has never made a plan she carried out. everything she starts springs from an impulsive decision. Trista is mostly an inactive and 'woe is me' person, a perpetual victim who always has a reason that she can't take care of herself and the children she has created (also as a result of a selfish and reckless spontaneous impulse). she blunders along from one terrible decision to the next (fugitive arsonist fiancé? really?) and drags everyone she can claw onto into her whirlpool of drama and despair.
Trista is a classic toxic personality.
her family has been through the wringer with her and had closed the door. it is said her 'farther' would not allow her in his house at the time of Ayla's disappearance, (she might have stole things to pawn for her drug addiction?)
when Trista is backed against a wall, there really is no sound predictor of her next jump into the abyss, because it is 'impulsive' and without rhyme nor reason. there is no foundation of logic behind her 'decisions'; only a road selected solely because all the previous others were all dead ends.
Trista acts only out of desperation. her procrastination and avoidance of the hard realities of her life are legendary.
if Trista does hear voices, i would guess they are not whispering kind words of encouragement and praise but angry words of masochistic, abusive self depreciation that amplified with bi polarity, ramp up to howls of revenge and bitterness and blame.
Trista believes her life has been full of injustices since she was born. Ayla is just her latest crisis caused by a cruel world beyond her control. she loves to bitch about it and then pats herself on the back for her imagined bravery to 'continue on with her head held high' through years and years of (never self-imposed) adversity while she blunders and attacks anyone within reach with her street talons and vicious speech.
her dysfunctional family put her at a disadvantage she feels she can not overcome. she does not ever accept responsibility for her ongoing dramas, she will always blame anyone she can for her own mistakes.
i would also guess that those voices are not rationale as it is patently clear that Trista is non compos mentis and has not been for many years.
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Deletefixed:
i would also guess that those voices are not rationale as it is patently clear that Trista is non compos mentis and has been for many years.
Ayla is not the first person to 'go missing' in Trista's life under very dramatic circumstances.
ReplyDeleteAyla is not even the first person to 'go missing' in Trista's life under newsworthy circumstances.
Front Page Headline Newsworthy circumstances in fact!
Think about that for a moment.
That realization took me by surprise too.
Has anyone here ever had two people from their closest, most intimate relationships go missing and make headlines in seperate incidents??
Two incidents only a little more than a year apart. Both following mental meltdowns that involved law enforcement and caused serious ramifications. One arson, the other a sisterly brawl.
This is actually Trista's second time on the missing person merry go round when you think about it.
This is her second time intimately associated with a major news story. Notoriety for a nobody with no money, no where to go and no one to turn to…nobody will listen….and suddenly your life is on the front page? heady stuff!
First her fiancé, now her baby!
And this is her family's second trip around with her!
Maybe that is why the Reynolds family appears so rehearsed..they've already ridden on this merry-go-round. They had to explain to friends and neighbors once already why Trista is involved in the FRONT PAGE news.
What happened when Ray Fortier was a fugitive from justice?
He was being hunted down by Law Enforcement and had fled to the Florida panhandle where he was in hiding.
Trista must have wondered where he went?
Or did Trista KNOW where he was hiding?
Did Trista contact Ray while he was missing?
Did she think she could contact Ayla too?
Trista must have had trouble sleeping and eating and was consumed with the worry…she must have asked the same questions she is asking now?
"Where is my love who is MISSING?"
Trista must have been interviewed by Police? (just like now)
Trista must have had to provide an alibi and fill in the blanks of the story line? (just like now)
She must have read the news reports? (just like now)
She must have read the hurtful online comments of readers? (just like now)
Trista must have been in the midst of a HUGE DRAMA what with her fiancé 'gone missing'. I bet everyone wanted to know what happened and where he was.
JUST LIKE RIGHT NOW TRISTA IT'S GROUNDHOG DAY
Trista loves the limelight, drama and attention. She adores being in the position to offer 'inside' information that no one else is privvy to.
I wonder if Trista went to Ray's trial (draama!) and if she is looking forward to attending another news making FRONT PAGE trial.
After all of Trista's worrying about her MISSING fiancé, guess what happened?
Ray wasn't MISSING at all! he was hiding!
UsingTrista-logic, Ayla is hiding too.
New search today. . .good luck to you all. . . hope when all is said and done you can all live with yourselves for what you have been doing for the past seven months! Sure this won't be posted since I have been being deleted for my opinions! good luck to you all. . . I pray for Trista and family!
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