Okay...
I do have some questions (thanks to a commenter), and hopefully someone will be able to help...
IF Justin was keeping Ayla away from Trista and if the broken arm was suspicious, why would he pick Trista up (she has no car) and bring her to not one, but TWO, doctor's appointments about the arm? Why would he call her and let her know he was taking Ayla to the ER? That surely doesn't sound like Justin would NEVER let Trista see Ayla, as she claims...
Does that sound like person who is hiding a "suspicious" story or trying to cover his tracks? Why bring Trista to the appointment if the arm was broken due to abuse? Most abusers either don't seek medical care, or there is a delay. Why, why, why would he bring Trista if that was the case?
Why didn't this injury cause Trista to voice her concerns of abuse? At this point, she claims to have already witnessed TWO injuries caused by Ayla. Why not pull the doctor aside and say "Justin has a history of abuse"? If she was scared to say that while Justin was there, she could have called either that doctor or DHHS on her own once she got home. She could have asked the doctor if abuse was ruled out with this injury? Why was it important for the pulled leg muscle to be reported to DHHS, but not the broken arm?
Trista says the doctor initially suspected abuse. Why isn't that indicated on the follow up report? Where are the ER documents, Jeffrey?
FULL DISCLOSURE, or none at all.
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All good questions Obscure.Shows the character of both parents here.
ReplyDeleteIf in fact DHHS was contacted by Trista as she stated for the leg injury why was Justin not contacted by them? They would have followed up on that it is required. They did not. My assumption is that we can add that to her list of "inconsistencies".
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ReplyDeleteCurious..How do you know that Justin was not contacted? When did Trista say that HE was not contacted. I think one of the doc appointments she rode with other relatives. So Justin gave Trista a ride once, whoop de doo. Trista may have been trying to BELIEVE the stories that Justin gave about the injuries.
ReplyDeleteHe was not contacted by DHHS. Ask Trista if he was....
DeleteAsk Justin if he was would be more appropriate. I don't think was answering his phone or recieving his mail.
DeleteI don't think TRISTA was answering...etc.
DeleteDHHS would have found him. LE has known where he is at all times. And I still think Trista should answer. She is the one who put it out there. And DHHS would have told her that they followed up on it. And as a concerned mom I am sure she checked to make sure they did. So let's see what Trista's answer is.
DeleteIf you believe everything Justin says..ask him. Duh!
DeleteCurious,
DeleteRead the article, we are talking about the time frame before the "disappearance". LE was not tracking Justins every move at that time.
Also, if you read the articles and news report about the DHHS involvement, you will find that Trista had been blown off several times by DHHS and the lead DHHS representative in this case has come into question several times for her actions. This prevents us from using "DHHS" didn't contact him as a viable discussion point. Too many variables on both sides.
So now DHHS is conspiring against Trista so we will never know I guess. Just like the Lewiston LE they apparently were against Jessica also. And when they said everything went without incident they were wrong according to Reynolds version.... Hmmmm
DeleteCurious,
DeleteYou tell me, according to the doctors report, he reported suspected abuse by the father! Yet Karen Small or whatever her name is ignors pending abuse charges and simply hands a baby over to the abusing father. If you don't believe there was a pending report, then what was DHHS there for in the first place without an open investigation. Either way it should not have happened the way it did. Lastly, if you trust the Reynolds and Hansons side of the facts the handoff did not go smoothly. I have not seen the LPD report saying everything went smoothly. I personnally don't pass judgement without more facts or evidence. The facts only say that yes DHHS, specifically Karen S, is definitely conspiring against the Reynolds for whatever reason I don't know but I could speculate if you want.
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ReplyDeleteWell, if Justin was contacted by DHHS it could be safely assumed that there would be a set of things that would have happened as a result. And that someone would know about them and have "reported" them somewhere. On a blog, on a personal/open to the public facebook page/ during one of 4 dozen interviews. Someone would know that DHHS called him and ___. But they didn't so there is no 'and___".
ReplyDeleteQuestion for find Ayla: Why is it that anything that is presented as a reason to consider Justin may not be the malicious, vindictive monster he's being painted as is met with "whoop de doo" not relevant? That's the answer? He gave her a ride. It is inconsistent with the picture painted and the words used by Trista. answering to that with "whoop de doo" says a lot.
In that giving one ride does not constitute him being consistantly cooperative in setting up visits between mother and daughter.
Deletewhere did you get this info that he gave her a ride...If I remember correctly, one of the appointments she went with her mother and her brother..
DeleteIf Trista didn't list Justin on the Birth Certificate as the father and she was the only person previously bringing Ayla to the DR's appts and if Trista was the only person listed besides Ayla on their MaineCare account, the DR's office may have required Trista to be there to give permission for Justin to bring Ayla. If the BC was not able to be used for proof she would have needed to sign a release. Maybe Justin had no choice but to bring Trista
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DeleteThis is not my post.Obscure will you please delete this.I can speak for myself...Thank you.
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SelenaJohnsonMar 26, 2012 11:50 AM
hindsight is always 20/20, isn't it? No one can answer these questions except for Trista. So ask her. Why not ask Justin the questions, too. He could probably fill you in.
Haha I guess there is only room for one Selena Johnson. Just because someone used that name to post, doesnt mean they are implying they are you so get over yourself. This blog is so full of the blind in every possible way. Apparently you people even think LE is lying. No matter what the evidence says, and I mean evidence not blog speculation, you all just come up with any means to justify the Dipietro's actions. Regardless of whether they are guilty or not, they are not cooperating with the investigation and that alone makes them horrible people. I dont even know why I am posting because the Blog Nazi will probably delete this.
DeleteI believe that the arm injury was an accident, and happened just as it was said to have happened. Of course that's just my opinion, but I think facts bare that out.
ReplyDeleteHospitals & Doctors HAVE to report suspected abuse. It would have been noted on the reports. Hospitals & Doctors are very careful about that.
The pulled leg muscle, .. I have questions about. Who told Trista to wait for a week before taking Ayla to the Dr.? I find it hard to believe it was a qualified medical person.
Trista is the one telling the Dr. it occured just after a visit to Dad's. I can't say she is lying, it may well have.
Because she waited 6 days, I question it & I question whether she thought there was abuse by Justin.
What happened in those 6 days?
If the Dr. felt there could have been abuse, he or she is mandated to report it to DHHS, did he or she? Justin would have been contacted. (I hope)
Also if Trista thought Justin was abusing Ayla, why on earth did she not bring this up at the team meeting with DHHS?
The broken arm may have been an accident, yes. The pulled leg muscle, it was stated by Justin or someone else that he admitted that they were, Horsing around when it happened. I understand that Trista called the doctors office, and i am not sure who she talked to, but a nurse could have suggested that she wait a few days. I have done this myself, called and asked to speak to a nurse for advice. Who is to say if the concern of abuse was or was not brought up at the team meeting. Justin joined in via phone and would have given his imput on that. They were not face to face so who is to say if it was brought up kind of hard to tell if he was forthcoming with his answers.
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DeleteI don't think I'm wrong in believing that an RN, or any medical professional, would be very cautions about advice given over the phone. Perhaps a nurse did suggest that Trista could wait a day, or 2 at the most, to see if Ayla improved. Especialy if Ayla wasn't in pain, had no swelling, or temp. I just find it hard to believe a medical professional suggested waiting a week, when your child suddenly developed trouble walking.
Of course I can't say that is not what happened. I just find it strange.
If I thought my child was being abused by her father, I'd want her seen right away. Documentation made right away....But I'm not Trista so..She's young.
No, I have no idea what went on at the Team meeting.
I can only hope that if Trista beought up her fears that Justin was abusing Ayla, it was considered, noted, and discussed. There was an atorney present, and 2 doctors, along with DHHS.
At the end Justin was allowed to keep Ayla.
I have seen no evidence that Justin was abusive to Ayla.
I think the broken arm was a totally innocent accident, just as it was explained by Justin. My cousin fell with her baby on the stairs just like that. Only the mom's arm was broken.
ReplyDeleteAn explanation for the lack of success in finding Ayla is that LE has it wrong. LE is looking for a dead baby in the streams, woods, ect.. LE has had tunnel vision focused on the DiPietros since the start.
If LE broadened their horizons and actually considered that maybe Trista and/or her family or friends took Ayla we might finally have some success in this case!
There have been cases all over the country in which LE got it wrong. They are only human after all. I think this is one of those cases in which LE has gotten it wrong. LE needs to AT LEAST CONSIDER that this could be a custody abduction. I think that unless and until LE will consider that possibility and end the tunnel vision, this case will drag on and on, with more time, money and resources wasted.
But, hopefully, at least Ayla is okay, since I don't think that the mother would allow Ayla's caretaker/concealer to do anything but take adequate care of Ayla. I just hope the caretaker is not a druggie or alcholic, then that presents a huge risk factor for Ayla. Since the mother is also an abuser, she might not act if the caretaker is abusing. This is my biggest fear for Ayla.
LE says that the blood evidence is concerning. It sounds like they mean there is enough blood there to suspect something else had gone on rather than an abduction. I think actually KNOWING the fact of the amount of blood, not heresay, would allow peoples minds to go in both directions. Each parent may have had motives for hiding Ayla
DeleteFind Ayla, I do think that both parents had a motive to hide Ayla. It is just that Trista's motive to take Ayla was much stronger since she did not have the baby in her possession. And Trista is crazy enough to do something like have her child snatched back and not tell anyone and create all this drama. That is quintessential Trista.
DeleteAs for the blood evidence, that is the wild card. No one knows at this point how much there was, how much of it was Ayla's, how reliable to testing was. But just because someone bleeds does not mean that they died. In most cases were blood is shed, the person does not die. Unless there is actual evidence that Ayla is dead, I will continue to believe that she is alive. Since all indications are that this was a custody kidnapping, that is what I will continue to believe.
Le is has also looked into almost 1000 leads. Why would they waste time and resources if they did not believe there was a possibility they were looking for a live child. It is their jib to look in all directions.
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ReplyDeleteOr the truth is the truth. And it is already telling itself. Justin is just a nice guy.
ReplyDeletehmmmmm Now that will freak people out! huh. Why else would people defend him as they do? .... like a cult....hmmmm mayhaps they know him. They know his character. They know he would never hurt HIS baby girl.Thats a long shot but hey...its a possibility.Its a possibility that bloggers just may have their view of Justin warped by rumors and have turned them into fact...
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ReplyDeleteMost of the people on the Internet attacking Justin DiPietro are complete, total strangers. Yet they demonize him, a man they only imagine they know.
ReplyDeleteI don't know Justin DiPietro personally. But what I hear from those who do know him paints a very different picture. Justin Dipietro is a very nice young man, who loves and treasures his baby girl Ayla Bell and is enormously proud of her. He was just learning how to be a daddy when Ayla was snatched from him.
He was taking his own baby steps on the road of fatherhood, learning how to watch over his toddler, how to keep her from falling, learning when it was not okay to let go of her hand, learning that he really couldn't take his eyes off of her even in the house. These are things that a woman knows instinctively, but a man must learn these things.
Justin was working, going to school, had his own apartment, and doing what he could to establish a relationship with his new baby daughter. Of course he loved her. It would be impossible not to love Ayla, and for any father she would be the apple of his eye. It was no different with Justin. Justin moved from Portland to Waterville to make a permanent commitment to being Ayla's parent full time.
Justin apparently thought he would be the better parent, given Trista's substance abuse problems, bi-polar mental illness, behavioral problems and homelessness. Trista had such little support due to her behavioral problems that none of her relatives would take her into their own homes. She was not even allowed to enter inside some of their homes.
Of course Justin did not want Ayla living in a homeless shelter. No responsible father would want that for his daughter. And a homeless shelter/battered woman's shelter was the best that Trista could provide for Ayla at the time. The alternative was the street.
So Justin did what any loving dad would do and stepped up to the plate to be Ayla's full time parent and moved permanently to Waterville. There Ayla was to have stable housing, a baby girl cousin to play with, and a loving grandmother and aunt to help take care of her as she grew. He gave up his own singles apartment and moved back in with his mother--something many young single guys would be very reluctant to do--out of love for Ayla.
Folks demonize Justin because that makes it easier to then pin the blame for Ayla being missing on him. But if you take away all the malicious, false, concocted allegations, underneath it all is just a nice young kid who was trying to be a responsible new dad.
Justin DiPietro has done nothing wrong, as far as I can figure. I highly suspect that Ayla was taken by the maternal family as part of the very heated, ongoing custody dispute. The blood in the basement is likely a red herring, in that it relates to a prior injury occurring while Ayla was running around the basement.
I look at the overall picture and what I see is a very troubled girl with mental and substance abuse problem, who runs with a crowd of criminals, and who was hell bent on getting her daughter back.
In my view, the answers to this mystery lie with the maternal side of the family and their friends. LE needs to start looking there.
wow...I am speechless.
DeleteThe FBI and Maine State Police differ from you in their opinion on what evidence they have and that it points to no abduction. You do not know either of the parents and are making assumptions based on a biased opinion which blinds you to the evidence and blinds you to the point where you think law enforcement is just playing a game.
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DeleteWhere to start? You are so wrong on so many points.
Para. 1 People are not attacking Justin, the facts and evidence are doing that. People know how to read and listen
Para. 2 Justin loves and treasures and is proud of Ayla but there is an undetermined blood stain belonging to Ayla that was beside his bed. Is that love and treasuring?
Para. 3 "These are things that a woman knows instinctively, but a man must learn these things." Stereotyping as an excuse is not being truthful with yourself. I am a man and I knew immediately when my children needed attention either by thierparents or by medical personnel. It is an instinct!
Para. 4 Justin was working, going to school, had his own apartment, and doing what he could to establish a relationship with his new baby daughter. When did he have his own apartment and how is 5 visits in about 8 months building a relationship.
Para. 5 Justin apparently thought he would be the better parent. But yet, when first interviewed after the "disappearance" Justin felt someone thought they would be a better parent to Ayla and it was much later when he started annointing Trista as this person. Why did he not say this up front!
Para. 6 Of course Justin did not want Ayla living in a homeless shelter. No responsible father would want that for his daughter. I agree with the thought in this sentence but Justin has done nothing responsible for Ayla. The bruises, leg injury, arm injury, disappearance, etc, this all happened in his care. That is nowhere near responsible!!!!!
Sorry, I am getting tired of pointing out these anomolies in your thought process. I suggest your read on your own, the news articles, the LE press releases, view the videos on your own, and most importantly, do not assume the people who do know Justin are telling you the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
Selena, Obscure, & Ivy
Delete"The blood in the basement is likely a red herring, in that it relates to a prior injury occurring while Ayla was running around the basement."
a blood stain that size from a missing child is never a "red herring", NEVER! Especially when no medical treatment was sought.
"Justin DiPietro has done nothing wrong, as far as I can figure." Well I figure it is wrong that he has not once spoken out FOR AYLA> Hell, he even asked for immunity for the kidnapper! What kind of man/father would ask for immunity of a person who has stolen his child and who knows what else?
And the two of you are happy with this post by Ivy? WOW....I'm speechless too!
Find Ayla,
DeleteI think either they all went to diner together, or the battle of common sense is lost on the senseless.
Curious,, I agree. I just cannot fathom how blind people can be to ignore the evidence. It's one thing to look at both sides but to be SO biased in the face of the blood eveidence etc. is foriegn to me!
DeleteI can't fathom it either. The only thing I have ever seen as pathetic as this group of followers was what I saw in SWA! Even there if you harmed a child, you got sentenced immediately, to death!
DeleteI am good at understanding peoples differances, my friends are diverse but there are few times when I cannot comprehend an individuals behavior. IE The 56 year old high school teacher who is obsessed with MICKY MOUSE. He wears Micky Mouse cloths and watch,has Micky Mouse throughout his house and car and was like a child when he was going to disney, to MEET Micky Mouse. I don't get it.
DeleteMy initial reaction when I first her of Ayla missing and a very general discription of the dynamics i thought she WAS abducted. As the evidence rolled in and I saw at Justins behavior I had to look at both sides.
IvyLynn
Deletei agree completely.
LE has wasted 3mths waiting for the snow to melt. Maybe now they can investigate certain characters instead of concentrating on ground-work that so far has produced no results.
As a child i was taught "if its not working for you, then you're doing something wrong". The investigation it seems doesn't seem to be yielding any solid evidence, so maybe its time to entertain other possibilities.
If only mother nature can cooperated and left the ground bare for the winter here in Maine. There are more searches planned. If it's not working? Not easy to find a little girl..she could be anywhere regardless of who hid her.
DeleteI wonder whaat the FBI determined in this case?
Oh You truely are Lucifer on Earth aren't you. How can you possibly say there is no "solid evidence"?? WWhere have you been for the past 3 months. There has been no wasted time at all by LE who has done nothing but search for the facts of what happened and where is Ayla. This is almost the dumbest comment I have read today. Second only to IvyLynn, I guess that is why you agreed with her so much.
DeleteQuestion for both of you, do you two share the same set of horse blinders because your comments sound like they came from a horses back end!
@More curious I guess. The kind of father who asks for immunity is the kind who wants their child home more than he wants the kidnapper to not return her because they are too afraid to. And weird how he ask for this without "speaking out" for his daughter. When exactly did he ask that then? In which of the interviews that he did not do was this? It is funny to me how everyone keeps saying he has not spoken up for her yet continue to quote him from different interviews. Which is it people?
DeleteHe did not have his own apartment, he lived in a bachelor pad with 3-4 other guys, the place was not fit for a baby. Where is the proof that Justin is a good guy? The only people who came out to say that are his family and his best friend and Derek's family. People that were friends with Justin think he did it and no longer answer his phone calls. LE has called him a liar, don't you think that they have valid reason to do so or does LE make it a practive to make uninformed decisions for the hell of it? What reason do we have to disbelieve Jeff Hanson and what he says about the blood? LE has not stated that Trista's family hasn't been honest with them. If LE thought that Trista was involved don't you think that they would be saying the same about Trista, that she was not telling the truth? A loving father would be out searching for his daughter and pleading with the kidnapper to bring his baby home not wait 2 weeks before addressing them. An innocent family does not hire an attorney immediately if they have nothing to hide and why isn't the same attorney representing all 3 of them unless maybe it is a conflict of interest and defending one will implicate another? A loving father does not buy life insurance on his toddler and have her disappear with blood, no matter how much, by his bed and before it was confirmed to be Ayla's it was first Phoebe's or from Ayla's cut foot, Christ, Selena even commented on A4A she bled in the basement before.
DeleteHere's what Jeff Hanson said on J4A "Double Standard" article:
Delete...It is apparent that IvyLynn knows Justin, if not intimately.. but here's some things she missed:
"Responsible dad"?
Justin did not step up to the plate until his mother dusted it off for him.
"Folks demonize Justin"? Justin has sent text messages to Trista saying that we are making him look like a monster.. Trista's response was, "you don't need our help".
..and the statement that IvyLynn made saying that none of Trista's relatives would take her into their own homes is (and was) false; Trista and Raymond have been living with me since January 7th.
Justin, start speaking for yourself so we can bring Ayla home.. Stop filtering your guilt through your strained imaginations.
Jeff
DeleteWhy then?? Why wait until the nation started looking at you? How old was AYLA when she went missing? hmmmm 20 months...twenty months of life with Mama struggling with food clothing diapers wipes formula addictions and pretty much homeless.Yup... I see what you are willing to do for your grandchildren...
What was Phoebe doing? Was she sending Diapers and wipes or formula for Ayla? Was she going to visit her? What about world's best auntie Elisha? Justin wasn't doing shit either.
DeleteThere is a thing called tough love and maybe Jeff and Becca were unfortunately making sure Trista did things on her own and not take her in and giving her the easy way out, they were making sure she was accountable for her actions not coddling her like Phoebe does her kids. Whether or not Jeff took Trista in has no bearing on this case, Ayla didn't go "missing" because Trista was staying in a motel or a homeless shelter. Ayla went "missing" because either Justin did something to her or wasn't taking very good care of her and someone came in and took her.
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Deletespin spin spin-tough love, really? Letting two young children live with a drug/alcohol addicted mother and Jeff and Becca are not going to intervene because Trista needs to become accountable for her actions and not take the easy road out?
I thought Trista told Justin when she found out she was pregnant with Ayla that Ayla wasnt his?? Lie?? Or she just didnt know whose child it was? How long did she hold this secret?? Hmmm I dont know but by the time the Lil Ray was there and his daddy was in jail...Trista decided to go after Justin for child support.That takes a few months off the twenty doesnt it? Did Trista ask Phoebe to help with these things or was Phoebe and family kept at a distance and only placated with seeing Ayla for short amounts of time?? Phoebe would expect for Tristas family to help her.Is Phoebe a psychic?? Ummm NO! Tough love?? Ya I bet AYLA and lil Ray appreciated that!What were you trying to teach those wee ones?? You dont show touch love to babies!! You cant eat today sit there and cry...Your mom needs to use her drinking money for diapers so you get wet pants and diaper rash...WTH?? What?? Phoebe coddled her kids?? huh?? Repeat that??
Deletehttp://dictionary.reference.com/browse/coddle
cod·dle [kod-l] Show IPA
verb (used with object), -dled, -dling.
1.
to treat tenderly; nurse or tend indulgently; pamper: to coddle children when they're sick.
Why....isnt that what Moms are suppose to do?? That cant be right...That would make Phoebe less of a monster...huh...perhaps you should reiterate that.
"..and the statement that IvyLynn made saying that none of Trista's relatives would take her into their own homes is (and was) false; Trista and Raymond have been living with me since January 7th. " YOU BROUGHT THIS UP IN YOUR LAST POST. Apparently it has some bearing on the case if Trista wasnt able to provide a safe loving home and her parents wouldnt even help her...It has enough bearing for you to dispute it.
You have doubt....why? Why is there doubt in every statement you write...you end off everything after yelling fowl...
EXAMPLE: "or wasn't taking very good care of her and someone came in and took her."...."
CONCLUSION
"Justin may not be guilty of anything more than being an unsatisfactory role model but it seems that he has been influenced by someone to participate in Ayla’s life."
.... you seem rather shifty to me.You float about as does Trista with what is out there...So if AYLA is found...YOU wont look like a fool as you added these lil tid bits.Gotta save that image...you been working on.Every interview that has been had with any of the Reynolds sound like an echo of what the public has already been said ...as if...people cant argue with what is said because it is what has just been said...That is where all the inconsistencies come from.I ask that someone look at this! Look at the papers and then the interviews.Reynolds have not had one thought on their own!!!They are drifting with a currant in hopes of making it down river.Read and then listen...you tell me.
Spin that!
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ReplyDeleteWe figured that out already. LOL
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ReplyDeleteExcept that there was a delay in Justin seeking medical care for Ayla. What does that prove? That he abused her.
ReplyDeleteNo it doesn't prove that he abused Ayla in connection with the delay in going to the ER over the broken arm. The same thing happened in my family and there was no intentional delay in seeking treatment.
DeleteMy grandmother hit her arm on something. She lives with my family. We did not realize it was broken until the next day. There was no swelling or discoloration until the next day. Then when we noticed her arm looked funny we rolled up her sleeve and saw that the whole arm was terribly discolored. Then we took her to the ER, but we felt funny that we had to tell them at the ER that we didn't notice anything until the next day.
The nurse at the ER told us that it is TYPICAL for the swelling and discoloration not to arise until the day after the arm is broken. The DiPitros story seems strikingly similar to what happened in my family.
Do you think that a grandmothers bones are the same as bones of a baby? They are completely opposite. I'm sorry for whatever happened to your grandmother and don't doubt it, but a grandmother's bones/body can't be compared to a baby. You can see how your grandmother just hit her arm on something and her bone broke easily. It takes much more force to break a toddler/baby bone, which would most likely cause much more bruising/swelling, due to the force needed.
DeleteNot to mention Daisy, your grandmother is able to tell you if it hurts or not when you ask. Ayla would just be crying. I am sorry for your grandmothers injury, but this is two entirely opposite events.
DeleteThe same thing happens to people of all ages. When I fell and hurt my foot when I was a kid there was no bruising or swelling right away. But it hurt like heck so we went to the ER right away. They said I had a broken bone in my foot.
DeleteThe next day my foot was dramatically worse, it was swollen up hugely. It reminded me of a football. My foot had by then turned purple and blue. The following days it started to turn black in places.
Check out what happens with friends who have had broken bones. Or call your local ER and ask them if there is a delay in bruising and swelling when a bone is broken in a child or adult. Based on what I have seen and what I was told by the nurse when my grandmother broke her arm, I believe it is established fact that it is typical for there to be delay in bruising and swelling when a bone is broken in humans of all ages.
As for Ayla crying, yes she did. Trista said that Justin told her Ayla was screaming over the incident. But you don't take a baby to the ER because it is crying. You go to the ER when there is a sign of injury such as bruising or swelling. Since it is commonplace for there to be a delay in the bruising and swelling showing up, I can understand why they did not take Ayla to the ER until the next day.
Actually when my young son broke his arm he did not cry at all. And the story was also very similar. We almost did not take him to the doctors at all. It was in fact only because we also noticed bruising much later and a little swelling that we realized it was more serious. He was only slightly uncomfortable and moving it around not crying at all. It did turn out to be broken though.
ReplyDeleteBut you took him. So did Justin. The problem is in fifty days or so, a broken arm, a leg injury, multiple bruises, and then to top this trend of injuries of, an undisclosed and untrested blood stain on the floor beside the bed that when viewed in pictures had justin "running out" of the police station. One accident is human nature, 2 maybe acident prone, that many injuries in that amount of time, all I can say is that there no way in hell if you look at the whole picture you can tell me that this all was one big accident! NO-WAY
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DeleteBroken arm was accident that has been attested t by doctors and LE. "Bruises are hearsay, leg injury could very well have happened on Trista's time. And blood stain is not said to be evidence of harm. Justin did not run out of station that was media twist. He stayed and answered all questions. Not adding up. No way not enough to convince me
DeleteLook at the photos. Bruises are not hearsay. You can see them on this precious baby's face.
DeleteTake a look: there are no photos of bruises on Ayla that were caused by the father. If there are photos anywhere that I have not seen, consider that maybe the bruises were caused by something else or by the mother or someone else who had access to the baby.
DeleteWhat photo's are you referring to? They are claiming multiple bruises. Where are the photo's? Have not seen them? You would think these "photo's" would be everywhere to back up their claim.
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ReplyDeleteSince my statement was deleted earlier, I justn wanted to throw it out again-Ivy Lynn is Courtney. And HT and Ah are unhinged!
ReplyDeleteKLB, then let me reiterate that you are a liar. You have not the slightest proof or even a basis for belief that I am Courtney. Yet you make the accusation anyways.
DeleteFor the honest people on here, I will state that I am not Courtney, I do not know her, nor have I ever met her in my life.
What people like KLB do is make false accusations of who the poster is to discredit the poster's views and make them seem biased. Their obvious tactic is childish and just plain silly.
"getrealpeople"
DeleteNo need to to explain IvyLynn. Ignore these people, like KLB. They have nothing to offer to this case. Don't respond to them. They have nothing to say but hateful words if you don't agree with them.
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ReplyDeletewow... lots of name calling and from who? What is it? You cant force your opinion down someone elses throat so you start name calling? Because others disagree with you it gives you the right to personally attack other bloggers? If you do not like Obscures blog...go away. Shew... This is the adult table...go back with the kiddies. You go be with like minded people.People who talk the same language as you. Your input isnt needed here.
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DeleteI do not go to other blogs and post anon. IP addresses can attest to that. Im not forcing my opinion down anyones throat. I have simply stated my opinion and have let everyone else go and gather their own evidence and facts.Why? because no one would believe me if I did rattle on about these things. If they go get their own facts...if the care enough about Ayla then they will see for themselves.I do not have to do anything.Why would I ask Trista if I can do anything?? Im not her Aunt. She has her own support network.Her own loving and supporting family that have been always been there for her and her babies. You know...the ones who banned her from their lives until a nations spotlight was clicked on...and are now jumping in to "help".
Listen well my friend.Phoebe,Lance,Justin,Elisha and Courtney did not murder Ayla. LE has been looking in the wrong direction but it is a direction they need to look because thats only good police work.
I find nothing funny about this.
I willingly step to Ayla's defense.I willingly step to defend my family.I dont have to come here, post and take peoples ridicule and abuse.Why do I? I do so because I know that what is being done here is wrong!I would hold more shame than imaginable if I came upon these blogs and did nothing....said nothing when I knew with my whole being that what is portrayed here as my family is a lie...and spread by mass media. I cannot stand by and watch as others rip my family apart when they are already in more pain than imaginable.
I wont back down.I wont stop.I wont let you bully me.I wont let you look down your nose at me from your pedestal.Ill be in your face until they find Ayla.Get used to it.
I am not allowing anyone to do anything...I have no say over what others post.None.As far as I am concerned I find anyone who resorts to name calling juvenile. Example : " I doubt you and the whacky bitches".
I dont need a support team.I would stand my ground against a nation and am doing so. Each of AYLA'S support team will stand solidly alone if they are of any worth.ALONE.This is NOT about how many people stand on one side or another.This is NOT about following the crowd. This is for AYLA. Period.Who would I be if I shifted with the wind? Is that the kind of Aunt I want to be for Ayla? Is that the Sister mother daughter friend...I want to be for anyone?
What kind of "Christian" would I be if I wavered in my beliefs? Listen well again... I DO NOT CARE WHAT THE CHURCH THINKS OF ME.GOD IS MY ONLY JUDGE.PERIOD.
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DeleteSelena's support team will be there for her in the end and so will God. God knows all and that is all that matters. You will learn that the hard way. I have not seen Selena talk bad about Trista. Do not confuse her with the facts that others and the media have put out there regarding Trista. And just to be clear if those facts do not sound nice maybe Trista should rethink some of her ways.
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DeleteI agree with you Selena, in that God is your only judge, the only one that really matters anyway.
DeleteBe proud of yourself for standing your ground in your beliefs. It's not easy when you are in the minority.
Hey Selena, It is crazy what is happening and I have stayed out of it. I just want to say that I agree with you standing up for your family (including Ayla) You have to be there for family, you have to want to believe in your families innocence. I am from the area and I am sure you know who I am by my name. I grew up knowing you and always found you to be a nice person. Unforunately there are to sides and I have to say that the complaints about people trashing your family on here are crazy, as is the ones against Aylas Mothers family. It is a playground battle of childish adults calling names....on both sides..... "but they started it" is what the children will say.... Good Luck Selena, I pray that LE is wrong because the thought of her coming to foul play or an accident covered by foul play is just to much for me to handle. My 8 yr old still wakes occasionally crying because she thinks someone is coming to take her away.... we live 4 blocks away and 2 of her friends live on Violette ave and the talk about it.
DeleteTo everyone that is attacking Selena and her beliefs, I do not agree with her but I hope she is right about Ayla being alive. Just remember that this is her family and all of you do not know anything except trash (that goes for those on this site and the blog master who attacks Aylas Mothers family) You are all guessing and do not have a clue. And the name calling and negative attacks have to stop. That is what Ayla would want, I can guarantee it.
Take care Selena
@ Lauryls little brother
DeleteI have mixed feelings about your post Little Brother... I am pleased to hear from you.Its been a very long time,my friend.I hate the thought that little ones wake with this nightmare.Please give my love to you and yours.
Thank you.
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DeleteLauryls little brotherMar 27, 2012 03:27 PM-The "blog master" is not trashing Trista. Bringing up inconsistencies (and/or lies) told by Trista and/or her family is not bashing. Foul play does not mean murder. LE has said nothing that points to Justin murdering his child! They need to be looking at both sides of the family. You apparently are guessing!!!
Look at the facts, and the facts only! LE saying they don't believe the three in the house are telling them everything, is NOT a fact.
The blood found was "more than a small cut", then "more than a cupful" are NOT facts. (Trista's and Jeff's words only.)
The bruises and limp before Trista went to rehab are NOT facts. (Again, Trista's words.)
Didnt mean to cause mixed feelings? I reread what I wrote and think I was too brief in trying to express where I am. I just feel that on all of the blogs there are hate and discontent about the others. I suppose it can be seen as venting but to many it is hurtful, as you know. I do not agree with what they are saying about your family. They take one bad point in your families past lives and run with it. Some....very few are respectful and state their side. The same with this site going the other way. 99% of what is said in no way helps Ayla or her whole family. I dont know what happened, I wasnt there. I trust the MSP to get to the bottom of it.
DeleteI started to read the blogs because I heard that you were responding in them. I read through them to see how you were doing. You are doing what any Sister or Aunt would do. The hate that spewed towards you for your beliefs and support for your family. You handled it better then I would have. I truely respect you for that and did not expect you to respond any other way. As I believe, the truth will come out, so do you. You need to support your family, I know I would support mine until proven otherwise and then.... well they are my family.
When the hate started to spew at you I had to reach out and let you know that my thoughts and hopes are with Ayla. I know that is number one in your mind, I just dont believe there are very many others in these and I mean ALL these blogs that feel the same. I just want the name calling to stop and the focus to be on Ayla. In no way is any of it helping to find her. I wanted you to know that I hope she is found safe.
I hope that straightens things out. I am done blogging now forever. If you are ever in town, look me up, stop by and meet the kids. they would love to hear some stories about my sister.
I probably wont read any more of the blogs from now on for either side as I do not get any enjoyment out of them as others seem to. Hate has never been my thing and there is too much out here.
Good luck to you. I hope this let you know where my thoughts are... Ayla
To everyone else on here:
Please lets hope Ayla is found safe. Hate will not bring her home.
@ Anon "get real people"
DeleteI compliment you on your response to me. Though you did not need to defend Justin to me, it was respectful. I did not want to respond but because it was respectful... I will and then I am done with all of this.
When I say trashed.. I mean the namecalling like "twisted Sista Trista". Namecalling like this does not in anyway help Ayla and is used only to hurt. A persons view can be seen when they attack someone this way. It does not show an open mind but one already decided. I do not agree with namecalling of any of Aylas family. I do not see this blog master have any names for Justin. But yet it claims to not be on either side. And I know.... "but the other side is doing it".... again we are not on a playground. Can you disagree and be respectful? All of you. I didnt in anyway implicate that I believed Justin was guilty yet someone defended him immediately. I did say I did not agree with Selena but meant I do not know what happened and I have not made a decision and will let LE find the truth. I just hope she is safe. I could speculate with little truth and a whole lot of guessing but that is not my job nor anyone elses. LE will find the truth. If you dont like someone.... that is your choice. If you are going to talk about someone or to someone in an open forum like this then do so with out sounded like your an angry 5 year old.
To the Blog master: I am not attacking you and you alone. From what I have seen... all of them ARE doing it. Be the first one to stop it. You can get your point accross without the namecalling and be more respectful.
And I will say it again. I hope she is found safe.
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ReplyDeleteLook at the Brianna Lopez case, she was viciously abused and murdered and even though her little body was covered with signs of abuse her mother still called 911..did that suddenly somehow make her a loving, caring parent?
ReplyDeleteI'm sure if we could check, we'd find cases where an abused child had been taken to the hospital or to see a Dr. by the very person who was responsible for the abuse, because they believe, or at least hope, they'll be able to pass it off as an accident, and some probably have gotten away with it.
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ReplyDeleteI did not know they allowed computers in the insane asylum Anonymous go back to your cell and take some meds...
DeleteIs it a full moon?
DeleteThank you for my weekly dose of crazy.LOL. Can't wait for a Grand Jury and for all of this to end.. Will you create another blog on something else? another big case, to make you feel important??? Let me know. I need my weekly dose of cra-cra and yes, it makes me feel better about myself. poor poor Ayla. My heart aches for her.
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ReplyDeleteI am speaking here on my own.My support system? I havent asked anyone to back up what I have said.If you are reading my posts then you know that I dont approve of the name calling and crap that is going on.I have asked only that every angle is looked at as thoroughly as the public and LE have done with my family. I cannot help if what is brought out is not what everyone wants to hear.I simply ask that what ever is stated has facts to back it up...no matter who and what it is about.If it makes you feel better....
DeleteI do not appreciate or condone smear tactics and name calling of anyone involved in the abduction of my niece.
People are going to post what is in their hearts.Im afraid and disheartened to say that there will be... now and in the future... people who spew exactly what is in their hearts and it isnt pretty.I think I am an expert at watching someones character... a families character being assassinated.This isnt something I need to be reminded of.
As to what my family is doing...doesnt matter what I post here...I am not believed and my words are twisted by others.I would rather sit...and let the people who do not believe me pick every nook and cranny apart to find out the answers for themselves...why???because they dont believe me when I tell them the first time.Why post more?? Why say another word? My words fall on deaf ears...The only way that you will believe me is if the answers come from you... from your research...your search for the answers...heh... If I post... lets see... you will say that I am being deceitful...that there is no evidence to back up my posts.. Then you will try to prove my words are untrue because you have your own ideas of what I meant.... and in that research to figure out what I meant you will back your thoughts up with facts.... not rumors but facts....(cause you wont let me be right) if I sit here long enough you will eventually come up with enough facts to figure out what I said....what I meant...and my intent.
Apology accepted.
"My words fall on deaf ears"
DeleteSome people do read your post with interest.
I appreciate hearing what Justin's family & friends have to say.
I don't have a fixed opinion as to what happened to Ayla. I so hope & pray that she is found safe.
@S. You know exactly what I just said...
DeleteI hear what your are saying Selena. I will add tho that no matter what the dynamics of the relationship was between Trista and her family before this happened, tragedy has it's way of pulling people and families together and I am happy that her family is there for her as well. It has been speculation, just like alot of things surrounding the families, on what the dynamics were with her family. Many families have their ups and downs.
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DeleteI hear what you are saying as well....and agree with it. Thank you for that addition.
Is it True that Justin and Courtney are getting married??
DeleteThat's what J4A and PH are saying on their new posts.
Is this to prevent the court from compelling them to testify against one another?
Is it true about the rumors CR is pregnant???
What is PH?
DeleteNo it isn't true. This is just another example of an irresponsible person like Tori Gifford using her website to spread baseless rumors.
DeleteNonsense @6:18
DeletePH is Peter Hyatt of Statement Analysis which is the ultimate NONSENSE.
Bystander,
DeleteI couldn't agree more.
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ReplyDeleteWhy are some people saying all these injuries occurred when Justin got Ayla while Trista was in rehab. According to Trista everything, but the broken arm, happened before Trista went into rehab. And, if it really happened on Justin's watch, would anybody out there that is a mother, let your child go this person! Doesn't make sense.
That is why Justin and his mother set it up with thier DHHS friend to take Ayla while Trista was not there. She did not have the chance to say no!
DeleteAs far as no injuries except the arm... did you forget about how often Ayla had to have been bleeding to create the blood described by MSP and Heidi herself. Pretty sure that was on his watch also!
And lastly, if the DHHS agent would have checked, there was a doctors report pending on Justin which would have negated DHHS involvement. Instead K. Smalls(?) handed an innocent child over to a parent that according to ALL EVIDENCE is guilty of at least obstruction and hindering in the case of his own missing daughter. Sorry, but that is not the man I would ever support. Change your name to get reality people and maybe you could see the whole picture instead of the bits and pieces that have blinded your ability to process reality!
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ReplyDeleteDont know of any white van. She never owned one. LE knows exactly where she was.
ReplyDeletedidn't get to read the message that you responded to but the white van referred to is from a street-scape image on google earth. the image itself is from 2010 so they're all barking up the wrong tree.
DeleteThe image is actually older than that. According to Google Earth it was taken in 2007! I highly doubt it has anything to do with Ayla's disappearance. Some people just love speculating about everything.
DeleteI guess that makes the car even older and less relevant. Thanks CC
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Come back and see me AFTER you turn twelve, kiddo, and talk to me about "old people" being "tired"..
LMFAO!!
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ReplyDeleteyep....that was the very last question I will answer. Go find your own answers.
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ReplyDeleteAre you just deleting every comment except your own?
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty sure she clearly states at the bottom of the blog post that she will be deleting ALL Anonymous posts. Some people just can't read or comprehend.
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ReplyDeleteThese are the types of people around Trista:
ReplyDeleteTrista's best friend and the godmother of Ayla, Amanda Benner, was arrested at gunpoint and has been up on charges for helping her husband Shawn escape from a prison work-release program while in the custody of the Maine Department of Corrections. The husband Shawn Benner had to serve ten years in prison for various crimes, which he claims were all about "protecting my daughter." He got out last spring.
Here is a recent update on their crimes. Shawn lucked out that the prosecutors screwed up so badly that he got off on a technicality. But that does not change the facts.
Gee, I wonder if Shawn hung out in prison with Ray Fortier, Trista's supposed 'fiance' and the father of her baby boy, who is serving 9-18 years for arson. Sounds like a Trista family affair at the prison.
http://bangordailynews.com/2012/03/15/news/midcoast/judge-throws-out-rockland-prisoner-escape-case/
Do you think this is something people haven't heard of? It's old news. Try again! Ray Sr. is probably waiting for Justin, the baby murderer in prison. Maybe that's why Justin is so afraid to tell the truth. Maybe he's safer out of prison than in. It's true, he is. No matter what prison he goes to, baby murderers are not welcome.
DeleteAre you going to be commenting on the entire DiP Family, once they ALL go to prison? ALL of them. Not just Justin. Justin, Phoebe, Elisha, plus the in-law Courtney. Her sister is already there waiting for her sis. How many of her family members have been to prison? Did you forget to check into that? It's been posted everywhere. Go check it out.
Plus don't forget the Tudela's and probably AH after she gets arrested for fraud.
Before you start comparing family arrests, do a little research. Not to mention the ENTIRE family soon to be arrested on baby murder charges.
Why do you think Ray sr even cares? He seems quite happy to put anybody's life in danger, having lit a fire and walk away from it with a potential of killing 14 people, some of which were children that still suffer from nightmares. Guess that doesn't matter though. this man is trista's fiance. Nice choice of boys to bring home to mamma.
DeleteDid it occur to you that Ray sr has been in prison since 2009? Did it also occur to you that Ray jr was born last year. Maybe, just maybe Trista got lucky during a conjugal visit hmmmm? Perhaps she should get a dna test for Ray to prove him as daddy. It gets real lonely out there on your own.
and seeing as your defensive of Trista, you must be real close right? family? Maybe you should tell her to straighten up her act and start hanging out with people who are upstanding, hard-working citizens. Perhaps you could start by providing a good role-model. then again, maybe not.
Selena, I can understand defending your family and at least initially accepting their word on the issue of whether they (or any one of them)murdered Ayla. My question to you is how do you reconcile their changing version of events (explained in a minute) with belief that they are innocent? When they don't ask for information from the police about Ayla, when Justin declines to make public statements asking for Ayla back, when he says the time isn't right and the info will come out when it is- no matter how patient or trusting you are, it's hard to believe you really believe these statements and even if you somehow can, you must realize how bad they make him look. Are you telling him that? Are you encouraging him to get out there and tell the whole truth- whatever it is that he says the time isn't right to tell- to either police or the public depending on what it is and who needs to know in order to find Ayla?
ReplyDeleteBy changing statements above, I am referring to his initially saying to the person who took Ayla he/she/they weren't her family and might think what they're doing is right but it isn't/then later apparently saying in texts Trista and her family took Ayla.
I also can't understand, if Justin says Ayla wasn't murdered at 29 Violette, why doesn't he give a public explanation about her blood being in his bedroom. She only lived there a very short time; he would naturally remember every cut she got while he was taking care of her as would his sister or mother, so why not just say the blood was there because...?
He just makes his situation worse and worse by remaining silent.
Seeking Reason, I don't know Justin DiPietro or anyone in his family and don't speak for him or them, but here is what I think about the issues you raise.....
DeleteJustin said from the beginning when he released his written statement that he did not know what happened to Ayla or who is responsible. Then a while later he went on TV and said he thought someone who knew them might have snatched her--in the sense that someone thought they could be a better parent for Ayla than he was, so they took her. He did not accuse Trista apparently because he had no proof to be certain who did this.
But apparently since then his information, views and perceptions have changed on this, as they would evolve with any ongoing mystery. That is probably why Trista says that he texted her saying that his family now knows for a fact that she is behind Ayla being snatched and that Trista cannot hold out forever.
I don't think he is being inconsistent, but like everyone else is experiencing an evolution of views and theories as more information is uncovered.
As far as Justin not being out there in the media, well I would probably do the same thing. Every time he opens his mouth someone twists and spins his words and viciously attacks him and his family. A good example of this is Peter Hyatt's many articles about the DiPietros, where Peter pretends to be able to analyze their statements and divine the truth. Silly stuff, but a lot of people seem to read it.
His mom too was terribly attacked all over the Web after screwing up her CNN interview. And Elisha has been horribly attacked as well on various places on the web. They will get attacked no matter what they say, and I really wonder about that. Is someone trying to intimidate and silence them? Why the constant barrage of attacks all over the Web against this family when no one really, truly can be certain at this point what happened? I have to wonder if it is the same few people using sock puppets on many web pages to create this image of an angry lynch mob against the DiPietros. Whatever is really going on, it surely must be stressful and intimidating for a family whose child is missing and whose home has been vandalized.
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DeleteAgain...I am speechless. I actually had a very lengthy post but have no need to post it now.
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ReplyDeleteYeah, Selena is cool no matter if she is the real Selena or someone here using her name.
ReplyDeleteOn the other topic, can someone have a conjugal visit if they aren't married? Are you sure Ray has been in jail since 2009? Maybe he was out on bail when this happened. This is a good question for Mr. Know-it-all, Jeff Hanson.
He went to jail for 9 years in Sept. 2010.
ReplyDeleteRay skipped town to Florida where he was picked up by US marshalls. What was he doing since he was arrested on 03/23/09?
DeleteJanice his mother was released on bail, but what about Ray?
It looks like Trista got pregnant immediately before he went on trial facing up to 18 years in prison. The timing makes the pregnancy look intentional. She may have had that baby on purpose even though she knew that she would have to raise it alone and live on Welfare. The girl is definitely strange.
ReplyDeleteImagine the mindset of a guy who would set an apartment building on fire with people sleeping inside, including women and children. Who could do such a thing? He was charged with the arson along with his mother, Baby Raymond's paternal grandmother.
ReplyDeleteThis guy sounds like a monster from a bad seed. And this is who Trista chose to have a baby with. WOW!!! That says a whole lot about Trista.
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ReplyDeleteWTF does that have to do with.. ANYTHING??
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ReplyDeleteRay Sr has nothing to do with this, neither does Amanda B or anyone else the Dip Squad try to bring into it. It is nothing more than attempts to deflect attention. It works for a little while, but the facts of the case are still the facts of the case. Once the firing squad drudge up other peoples past, that have nothing to actually do with Ayla's case, then others drudge up poeple from the DiP side, that may not have anything to do with the case. It is a waste of time really. It is only being done to deflect attention off Justin and his crew. You can keep trying the deflect tactic, but it is short lived.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry but unless you know exactly what really happened in this case, which you obv don't since Ayla would be found, how can you possibly say they don't have anything to do with this case? You can't. They very well COULD be involved. The entire basis of ALL the blogs out there is speculation. JMO
DeleteI guess the MSP and FBI need to send a search team out to Ray Sr's prison cell.
DeleteBesides that, it's common sense what the reason is for drudging up everyones past, who is associated with Trista REPEATEDLY. The information being provided is old news. Anyone following the case is aware of it. How about you guys dig a little deeper and find information about all the shady characters associated with Justin now, for a change, seeing as how they are incapable of speaking. Or do you only want to know the history and facts of one side of the family and not the side of the family, which Ayla went missing from?
Really because I would say that is just what the TWISTED SISTA side is doing. The deflect method. Let's focus all the attention on Justin. They came out of the gate from day one accusing. And have not stopped. Pulling out every tactic and theory they can come up with. Talk about trying to deflect attention from oneself.
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Delete@obscure is a filthy dirty pigMar 29, 2012 08:02 AM
DeleteAre you kidding?? You are arent you? If you are serious...umm hmmmm... Let me ask a few questions.
1.)How many sites do exactly that? People even know the last time Justin went to the store...you may know when the last time he brushed his teeth.If you dont know...you make it up! You go to other blogs and take what sally the stripper outta work because she got old and fat and has nothing better to do then sit at her computer and spread rumors says...she satisfies her need for attention from others agreeing with her.Why...if this person put their time into writing fantasy books... lots of money could be had!oo0ooo0o000oooo better yet.Writing for one of those papers with Britney in a bikini showing her cellulite as she runs toward her alien baby daddy who is disembarking from his pimped up flying saucer.People pay money for that!! Ok the thrill of having bills stuffed in your bloomers isnt there but in this day and age...with the economy the way it is...you have to make sacrifices.
The reason for doing so... well dont you think that it shows Trista's judgement for the safety of her children?? Who she spends her time with? Who she may leave Ayla and Lil Ray with? Who she is partying with while trying to be a parent? If she wasn't getting help from her family....who would she leave the babies with?
These are things I would personally sit down and talk to her about if she was my daughter.I would tell her she is better than that.She deserves a better life for her and her babies...One cant do to much to change the past.They sure as hell can change the future. Trista knows in her own heart what is best for her daughter...when you have children...when you make that decision or it just is...you need to stop thinking me...me me...God gave you those babies Trista to love and provide for.God chose you.He knew Aylas soul before she ever took a breath on this earth.He chose you and Justin to be her parents.With all your faults and attributes...He chose you.You as parents need to love and care for that precious soul given to you.Children learn from copying the behaviors of their parents and those closest to them.A parent has to look around themselves and ask...Is this the values...morals..life I want my baby to emulate? If it isnt and you stay...You are being selfish.You are taking things from that precious soul that you were given by God. Trista and Justin BOTH have this responsibility.It shouldnt be forced upon them...it needs to be a conscious decision to put another first....Part of growing up...As children...babies...we have that self preservation thing going on.I need fed...cry...me me me...I want that....me me me...I want the same clothes Marry has ....me me .I am of age I get to do what I want. I dont have to ask...me...me...me.The difference between being a kid and growing up is just that...thinking of another before yourself. Thats what growing up is.This isnt a very easy time for either of them.They will either make that decision or not.Its not just their life anymore...These are the things I have told my children...This is what I would tell both Justin and Trista...This is what I believe. Each of them needs to put AYLA first and step steadily toward that goal...FOR AYLA.
oops rattled on for a bit...Sorry Obscure.The rattling on is...me.Just who I am.lol Justin knows this...my family knows this...guess you do to now. :)
Selena, getting past your first couple paragraphs of gibberish was painfully difficult. Once your coherent thoughts emerged, you are actually correct. Regarding BOTH Trista and Justin. Every single thing you said is true (after the gibberish), for both of them. You mentioned both of them for certain things and not others. The same goes for both, mother and father. Do you not think Trista should have gone to rehab, in order to live up to her motherly duties? Should she have ignored dhhs's warning as well as probably her own realization that she should straighten up and fly right, for her children? Justin is your family, which causes you to defend him as well as the rest of your family. That is acceptable, but do you really deep down think your family is perfect, while Trista is completely not? If every friend and family member's past is to be drudged up, then it will be the same for both. Do you seriously, deep down, feel that Trista came in and kidnapped Ayla? Without even insinuating that Justin did something to Ayla, do you really think Trista did? It is hard to step back when family is involved. If this was not your family, but someone elses, would you still think, with your mind and not your heart, that the mother snuck in there and took the baby?
ReplyDeleteYup...mother or someone close to her. From what I see... decisions made by Trista and her family where emotionally charged...acted upon...and go beyond what is the norm in our society...deviant behavior all.
ReplyDelete1.The lack of caring for your child and grand children.
2.The lack of common sense when it comes to birth control.
3.The lack of common sense when it comes to picking the father of your children...Rays Daddy was hand chosen by Trista.
4.The lack of common sense when choosing a God mother for your child.
5.The lack of common sense choosing your life style around your children.
6.The speed in which a finger was pointed.
7.Comments made by Trista herself.
She did not have to share AYLA with ANYONE.Possession.
She believed Justin at times was "AMAZING" with AYLA...yet she thinks he abused her...I think Trista is being pushed and pulled at this point.Trista knows in her heart who Justin is.
8.The anger expressed by her mother and sister when asked to give AYLA to Justin....the wording afterwards that Justin "abducted" AYLA.Why would they use that word? DHS and LE were behind Justin's right to care for his daughter.This mother daughter team had to have been pissed off...big time.
9.Dont you think that the thought of having your name on a Birth certificate matters? Sure it does...Possession is 9/10's of the law.If Tristas family has Ayla they can legally fight to keep Justin away.
10.)If Justin had gone to get Ayla back...Police would have been called...domestic dispute...AYLA in the possession of Tristas family would garauntee she would stay there until things were sorted out....better yet if Justin is pissed and goes gets Ayla...would that ruin his chances to get her later?? Police reports of him trying to get AYLA...Trista was reprehended and questioned about her dispute with Jessica...They...REYNOLDS know DHS and CPS and how they work...you dont think so? Look at the involvement in the past.Babies were taken away.They KNOW the system.They LIVE in the SYSTEM...They survive in the system.They know how to use what was used against them...10 to 1 they fully expected Justin to come and try to get her.Justin didnt... Justin called the police.
NOW WHAT??
11.The way in which they handle themselves now.They are not asking ...pleading....for her to be found.They are to busy trashing my family in every interview and outlet of media they can. IF my families character and lives are trashed what normal person would "BLAME" Trista and her family for taking her back?
DeleteLook at your posts...
12. The push for bringing "closure". This is a word used for endings...deaths...why would they give up hope so quickly? Why have thoughts of moving away??
13. Other possibilities have been brought up...why havent the Reynolds spoken about these?...instead of giving in and saying...she must be dead.Zip it up and pack my bags.
14.The thought that perhaps someone saw Ayla with Mom the next day and that person was a family member.Trista's family.Would be no fears until the news caught up with the Reynolds that Justin wasnt coming to get AYLA but had reported her kidnapped. OMG what do I do?? OMG
15. Why wouldnt Justin just keep taking care of Ayla and let DHS and CPS figure out that AYLA wasnt in a good enviroment and give custody to Justin? Why dive into the circus of a kidnapping? Wouldnt surprise me in the least if Justin was going full out legal to get his baby girl.Including...CALLING LE to handle it.
16. I think LE jumped to the wrong conclution and are now dumbfounded at not getting the lab results they wanted...They are LE...they know what they are doing...they have to be right...NOT. If I saw luminol glow all over a basement from God knows what...I would think that something happened...Those results have to be tested!! Time is needed to toss out anything that isnt AYLAS blood.They decided that day that something happened and they were going to get to the bottom of it.They spoke before the results were in.NOW WHAT?? Who is gonna look bad if that is what happened??I think there isnt enough evidence and they are STILL stuck on that theory.I think that LE is putting half truths out there to make Justin and my family squirm to get a confession out of PEOPLE WHO ARE INNOCENT. IT AINT GONNA HAPPEN.
My freakin fingers hurt from all this banging on keys.
obscure is a filthy dirty pig...my gibberish will be understood by those who arent above the masses.You are too educated to understand humor.Im sorry but in your quest for superior brain matter you have actually missed the bar...You have no comprehension of the people who are not as educated and the thought of you looking that far down your nose to understand just isnt in your being.you will not understand the common masses anymore...sucks to be you.
@ obscure is a filthy dirty pigMar 29, 2012 02:00 PM
DeleteI dont care what you think of me.I dont care what anyone thinks of me :)
How come you resort to name calling?
PS
Pigs arent dirty...they poop in one corner of the pen.It is the keepers who force dirtiness upon them from lack of attention and cleaning their pens.
I think it is sad, that Justin has to have is Aunt defend him. Aunt Selena, you should have Justin come on here and speak for himself.
Delete*Hands Jen a hanky for her alligator tears* lol Justin is a man. Justin makes his own decisions.Trust me....if Justin wants to talk...he will...no one is gonna gourd him into doing anything.Same with Phoebe, Lance and Li.If and when they decide to talk they most certainly will. Justin also knows I can handle anything coming at me and more.Justin knows me.He knows he cant stop me...nor can anyone else.If yer standing in the right you dont back down.You dont have to make things up...you dont have to prove crap.I know Phoebe,Lance,Justin,and Li from birth...Guess where Im standing?
DeleteWiping my tears...
DeleteOkay, "you don't have to Prove crap"..it sounds like that is what it is all about. Not a baby missing.. but "proving"...we aren't going to talk to the media..cause we didn't do anything.. bleh bleh..
All the Innocent parents of missing kids.. ALWAYS.. talked to the media.. ALWAYS begged and searched.. What the ef is Justin doing these days..???
And maybe you should put yourself in Ayla's shoes..
I am hearing you out, Aunt Selena.. I just don't feel that bad for Justin.. Trista seems to be the only one keeping Ayla's name out there... and Other citizens are hanging up posters and really trying to find her.
DeleteI guess what I am saying is.. Justin looks guilty, all the things adding up.. If he was out there trying to help find Ayla.. then the public would not hate on him so much...
Jen...
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" I think LE jumped to the wrong conclution and are now dumbfounded at not getting the lab results they wanted.."
ReplyDeleteI think so too. They thought this was going to be a slam dunk and it isn't.
Wow, Selena. Just wow.
ReplyDeleteMy mistake on my nom de plum.
Delete:) nom de plum with an e nom de plume .... ;) I didnt take offence.
DeleteI <3 Aunt Selena. Your post is everything I have thought for weeks. Several people are in a tight spot now to cover their behinds. LE, Trista and gossiping bloggers to name a few. It's too bad a few of those people won't really follow the evidence so Ayla can be home where she belongs instead of hidden somewhere, most likely with strangers(to her) while her mother tries to figure a way out of this. Wouldn't have been easier to just buy another bus ticket and go visit Ayla at her dad's house, Trista? He was willing to pick you up at the bus station before. I'm sure he would have done it again. Tell the truth, Trista. Get it over with and deal with whatever comes next. The longer you wait, the worse the consequences will be and the longer you will be without Ayla and baby Ray. Just do it. Just pick up the phone and call Justin and tell him where she is and you could both go to the police station together and tell it like it is. Just do it.
ReplyDeleteTrista went to visit Ayla via bus? I hadn't heard that before. Do you have any details you can share? Thank you.
DeleteSelena, thank you so much for clarifying so many of the things that I have been thinking myself. If ever there was a case of a crazy girl capable of something so outrageous, this case is it!!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Selena!
DeleteNP... I understand crazy. ;)
DeleteI do think that Selena has just made a GREAT point about Trista expecting that Justin would simply try to come and take Ayla back the next day when he woke to find Ayla gone!!
ReplyDeleteTrista likely never expected that he would call the police instead of coming by to kick in doors himself. Trista likely wanted him to kick in some doors and thereby end up looking bad to the court reviewing the custody dispute papers.
The plan was probably that since Trista had taken possession of Ayla, Trista would hang on to her until the court ruled on her filing, the day or so before, for Parental Rights and Responsibilities.
But since Justin called LE instead, Trista had to come up with a new plan, and put Ayla with someone willing to hide her. Hence, the multiple sightings the next day of Trista with Ayla at the motel, and her later rushing out of the motel with the baby in pink.
Now I understand why Trista behaved so oddly after Ayla was reported missing; all smug-like instead of hysterical. Now I understand why when I saw Grandpa Reynolds on TV my first thought was: THIS MAN IS ACTING.
So ol' Justin kiboshed Trista's plans, and the acting and stalemate continues....with LE's help since they have failed to see what is really going on here.
mirror mirror mirror on the wall, who's the stupidest one of all? Lies
Delete"getrealpeople"
DeleteSame thoughts I have had. Trista never thought Justin would call the police.
Always wondered about Ronnie! He has said the same thing over and over. It seemed he was the only one really concerned about Ayla at the beginning, but suddenly he has been very quiet! Yes, it makes sense why Trista acted so oddly (and is still doing it). She should of had a Plan B in place. LOL
Has anybody noticed how she uses public opinion (that is against her) to decide how she should act in her interviews? I really noticed it when the the comment was made about her make-over, comparing her to Deborah Bradley (Lisa Irwin case in Kansas City).
I believe, if either parent is responsible for Ayla's disappearance, Trista had the motive. That is why she filed for custody the day before Ayla disappeared.
From Nancy Grace Show: (December)
GRACE: All right. So he did not know, then? In your mind, he did not know that you had filed the papers?
TIRSTA REYNOLDS: No, I wanted him not to know that I was filing --
GRACE: Why? Why didn`t you want him to know?
TIRSTA REYNOLDS: Because he`s vindictive. He`s very verbally abusive towards me and anything that I say or do, he refuses to let me see my daughter, he`s refused to let me talk to her. I mean, he has never, like, once since he`s had her, since October 17th, had let me have her for one single day. So, I decided that it was time to do this the legal way and let a judge say who this child should be with. And my daughter does deserve to be with me. I`m the one who`s raised her for 18 months.
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ReplyDeleteKim needs some help herself. She'll have her work cut out for her organizing an event after she gets permission from Justin or Trista and also the use of the North Street Playground from the city or Alfond center, which ever owns it. I hope she raises lots of money, after she climbs through all that red tape and all that money helps find lots of missing children. Team Ayla is sponsoring a fundraiser that day and we will do well whether Kim is there or not :) Best of luck on your event, Kim.
DeletePigs don't sweat. Why do youyou think Baconthe tastes so salty?If you don't cook pork correctly...a person can end up with worms (like what dogs get).
ReplyDeletePigs will also eat a dead person. Hell...dogs even eat a dead person. If you died in a house with a dog...the dog would totally munch the shit out of you. In the words of cookie monster...Nom,nom,nom...
Why do youyou think Baconthe tastes so salty? Its cured my dear...back your statement up with facts....or google that crap...dont make yerself look stupid.
DeleteI love the cookie monster!
You're a monster.
ReplyDeleteYou were right, Trisha and I might add, he is also a murderer.
ReplyDeleteTrista can speak for herself. She is a women and doesnt need you to monitor what she is saying. You "tough love" her and the babies cause you dont want to coddle her yet here you are speaking for her... wow...now Im wondering why Trista IS with you... You keeping an eye on her? Youre the step daddy arent you? hmmmmm think think think You are not with Trista's Mom are you??? Why ARE you taking Trista in now??? Trista??? Whats up with that??? Did he care before??? hmmmm
DeleteTrista...werent you hanging with Mom and Jess before??? Why is Jeff there now?? Did he come to you? Or did you go to him ? You know Jeff... You can get in a bit o trouble for knowing anything... even if you put on yer blog those...leaving a bit of doubt to save your image... Just thinkin out loud. what was that that was mentioned... getting in the way of an investigation....misleading...all that good stuff. Did you think this through? Why are you separated from yer mom and Jess? They were the ones you were turning to....hmmmmm lots of questions.They are in Lewiston arent they? You are in Portland with Jeff? Why on earth would you decide to move in with him?? Yer step father?? WTH...hmmmm......hmmmmmm
DeleteNo more Jess and Mom doing interviews since the very beginning... Jess didnt show up with you at the vigil...Jess was the one that brought up bruises first...Big fight...what was that about? The fight after Ayla went missing?? Ya... I heard about that. hmmmmm If media is looking for you in Portland and can get you and Jeff why on earth would they wanna go to Lewiston...Id stay in Portland to hear from you... instead of them.... mom and Jess... if I was media and LE...hmmmmmm more questions...I bet someone can dig up stuff on that. wow...I just have more questions...Perhaps Il;l be quiet for awhile and think on this...let others think on this...sometimes just a little bit of doubt makes people go looking for answers.Would me...hmmmmm
DeleteYa know.... there quite a few people you hang with that have no respect for the law...I kept thinkin how freakin mad would someone have to be to walk right in and grab a baby... How freakin nutso would that be...Who would do that? Then I saw the articals about...breakin people outta jail and burning buildings....and I think to myself....self...thats how freakin mad and crazy someone would be....could be. Self...if I had the nads to break someone outta jail or date someone who burns babies houses then...Walking into a house that is dark with an unlocked door and taking that baby IS NOT out of the question.... was cold...gloves...no tracks...hmmmm
Deletehmmmmmm think think think ....is that so far fetched? What do you think ....CC??
DeleteLOL,
ReplyDeleteActually, no pigs are not smelly at all.
This isn't my blog, ..but it can be fun once in awhile.
Selena, how do you know the door was unlocked? Were you there that night? Were you the last one to go to bed? Maybe you were the one who made Ayla bleed?
ReplyDeletedo you own a white van,selena? Where is Ayla?
Maybe Monica Dorr has Ayla? She is Elisha's cousin right? Aren't they close? Maybe Monica and Elisha are close enough to the point where monica is hiding Ayla.
I find it odd, that the blog master was posting blogs like they were going out of style. They were also acting like a comment Nazi, deleting the anonymous ones. But now there hasn't been a new posting in three days and they haven't really been deleting posts all that often. Too much work being a Nazi? Too busy making up shit about other missing children? Did someone out your dumb ass and now you went into hiding? Someone else has control of this blog..is it you Selena the sleeze bag?
Deletewhere didthe Nazi blog master get off to?
Did Justin get her?
Selena, what is it like to be blind to the fact that you're related to murderers,liars, and thieves? They sound like pirates.
we all know Lance is a butt pirate ;)
Oh I get it. When he says "Jeff and Trista" on his blog he means Jeff & Trista.
ReplyDeleteheh... oo00o0o0oooo Im so upset...boohoo hoo you called me a pig...boo hoo hoo... maybe I should run back to my groupies and tell them how mean you are...Detectives have been to my house...here and in Belgrade...they have searched the grounds.... inside and out...WITHOUT A WARRANT.They are welcome back any time their lil hearts desire!!Without a warrant.Monica...hahahahahaha you a lil snoop dog huh?? hahahaha Dont like the heat get outta the kitchen.Go call someone else names...oh forget that call me names...Its fun!
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